rsingh077

Thanks a lot for your reply ...but does it solve my problem..I can take my parents to UK as well but why can't my brother and bhabhi share the love in the family...becoz of that i have really suffered..as for finding good girl I have really put great efforts for my brother and during my turn he has taken back seat .and my parents are doing just sake of responsibility ..this is another problem I am grappling with ..I am unable to find good gursikh girl for me .I feel because of my education a decent educated girl can support me in my life...Now I have been discussing this with my friends and it has become nightmare to find once good gursikh girl for me...though I have good number of non sikh girl as my friend but in my deep core i really want to get married with gursikh girl...I have seen nobody in my relation is coming up to support me..they say you just need a hi-fi girl and we can't help with you that...the problem there is no connection between sikh girls and boys nowdays...Am I the only one who is facing this problem

Raj Ke Fateh Sare Members Nu... Dear Sikh Sangat Members, I am undergoing through very strange family problem.I am from New Delhi and have been working in UK as a software professional from last few months.I have one elder brother he got married around 4 years back.He is also a software professional like me.Basically we don't belong to New Delhi but he got married to delhi based girl.Before marriage we used to stay together in same house.Once my bhabhi joined our family I have observed she was not keen on staying with us.My brother bought a house near my bhabhi place ( few yards away from her house) . Then eventually he moved to that house with my bhabhi by leaving me and my parents.Somehow I find it ditch with the family and he used to convince me by making some stories that things will be alright. Its more than 4 years now I dont see single ounce of respect and responsibility from her side.My brother also behaves with us in very formal way.I stay with my parents and we also bought one house in New Delhi.Now I am in UK and I feel very much worried about my parents.Somehow I am so much shocked with this incident I don't make up my mind to get married.I have this deep phobia in my mind that girls don't respect their in laws.My parents have chosen the path of gurudwara ..they say their life is over now and they don't have any expectations from any of you. In overall I am suffering a lot because of this..as I am unable to accept this rude behaviour from both of them towards us.My Bhabhi parents also till the time she used to stay with us used to communicate with my parents.They are also not concerned about it.Whenever I ask my parents why don't you talk to her parents about her rude behaviour..they say this is all baba jee dee wish and we are okay with it.What should I do as I myself very much extrovert person in life.I am B.Tech from one of the best institute in India ( IIT) and really doing well in my career..