Papi

a girl should accept boy's parents happily if boy agrees to take care of girl's parents happily.

WAH!!!

eat juiced up prontehhhhh!!!

DON'T EVER DO THAT!!! :o I don't thinkpeople realize how unhealthy pronthey can be for you! All they do is clog up your arteries i.e. slowly kill your body.

The forum link given by matheen is a REALLY good place to ask this question. Jassa's also gave solid advice, drink lots of milk, increase your milk intake by a small amount every week until you have worked your way up to about 1 gallon/day (thats about 3.8 litres). Most important of all, if you want to gain muscle, you must to do resistance training, weight training is the most popular form of resistance training.

Which application is this? There maybe a way to save your data; reinstall then just import/copy the data over.

I admit legs are my favourite muscle to workout! :D

On second thought, it's my second favourite muscle to workout...

later in the day, they committed a series of robberies on children on their way home from school.

saram dharam doe shap khaloe, koor firey pardhaan vey laalo

Something I found on a forum

Well - I took the easy way out. I downloaded the trial version of s.ystem Mechanic and ran it's registry repair tool. It killed the error (and killed XSI in the process). After reinstalling XSI, everything seems to be just fine.I'm still not sure what caused the error, but at least my s.ystem is working again.

http://www.bisque.com/sc/forums/p/372/356.aspx#356

But i really wanna know why in the punjabi culture is it okai and expected for a guy to not be a virgin, but if a girl isnt then shes a skank?

The Punjabi culture I know doesn't expect that at all. The Punjabi culture I know of expects everyone to be respectful of each other, and treat other's like they are part of their own family.

This sort of thing is not limited to just Punjabi culture but to most, if not all, cultures of the world. Clearly it's a bunch of baloney. My best guess is that it has to do with our Patriarchal society and I believe if we were living in a Matriarchal society then it would be men who would be subjected to a higher, unequal expectations.

^creator can free you, his creation cannot. :rolleyes:

Way to miss my point :rolleyes:

^ You know, it's not that far fetched of an idea to bow to both the Creator and his Creation

I bow down to this earth the biggest rock of creation and evolution…….obviously it makes me an idolater and a hieratic. :cool:

WAH!!! That was too wicked!

I play tabla, I really really really want to learn to play Jori

and the stupidest question of the night goes too...

:lol:

The guys who tend to hold on to these indian values of girls being a virgin are living in a dream world, they go around trying to find these girls but they are very very rare. No-one is that innocent.

You mean no one is innocent enough to not sleep around before marriage? Seems like you need to change your sangat because people you know seem to sleep around a lot.

Now the guys who dont hold onto their indian/punjabi values and dont mind a girl who probably has the same amount of "experience" as them are the ones who tend to get married quicker and tend not to live in a dream world.

What about the guys that don't sleep around? There are still plenty of those out there. Oh wait, I forgot you can't see beyond that little bubble you have created for yourself :rolleyes:

Being a virgin is nothing to do with being a good Sikh. However, you cant be a good Sikh without having some element of self respect for your own body and some element of control of your vices.

You just contradicted yourself. How can you just sleep around if you have self control?

Personally, I don't think virginity would matter to me, I am a virgin btw. But, I also wouldn't want a wife that has slept around with many guys and is known as a *insert a demeaning word here*. We all do things in our younger years that we are ashamed of. Heck, I still do them :rolleyes: Now, thats just what I think would happen, when the time comes things may turn out completely opposite.

Another question that is probably more important: How many of us are truly virgins from the bottom of our hearts? I sure am not. Yes being physically chaste is important but if mentally you are not, then who are we kidding, it's all just pakhand. (I fall into this category).

PS. I don't know why girls are getting worked up over the thread thinking its focusing on virginity of girls only when its talking about both sides or maybe I just assumed it was :umm:

Hard drive is holding up the performance! Oh well, it still runs pretty fast; scores only go up to 7.9 I believe.

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cMd ckor prIiq hY jgmg joiq audoqu krMdw [

chand chakor pareet hai jagamag jot udot karandaa|

The moon, loving the redlegged partridge, makes its light shining.

ikriK ibriK huie sPlu Pil sIql sWiq Aimau vrsMdw [

kirakh birakh hoe safal fal seetal saant ameu varasandaa|

It pours the nectar of peace by which the crop, trees etc. are blest.

nwir Bqwir ipAwru kir ishjw Bog sMjog bxMdw [

naar bhataar piaaru kar sehajaa bhog sanjog banandaa|

Husband meets wife and prepares her for further joy.

Husband and wife meet with love, and come to enjoy each other's company

sBnw rwiq imlwvVw ckvI ckvw imil ivCuMdVw [

sabhanaa raati milaavarhaa chakavee chakavaa mili vichhurhandaa|

All meet in the night but the male and the female ruddy sheldrake go away from each other.

swDsMgiq gur sbdu suix kpt snyih n Qyhu lhMdw [

saadhasangati gur sabadu suni kapat sanayhi n dayhu|ahandaa|

This way, even listening to the Guru's teachings in the holy congregation the fake lover does not know the depth of love.

mjlis AwvY Kwie gMDI vwsu mcwey gMdw [

majalasi aavai|asanu khaai gandhee vaasu machaaay gandaa|

As the person having eaten garlic spreads foul odour.

dUjw Bwau mMdI hUM mMdw ]7]

doojaa bhaau mandee hoon mandaa ॥7॥

The results of duality are the most bad of the worst

I didn't mean that he used big words that I could not understand; I meant that the recording quality is not all that great, at least with my headphones anyway

I'm a smart PAPI I know how to hide my paap's very well too :rolleyes:

^ Even the ability to beg comes by his grace only which you already seem to have

I remember watching this one video of his on youtube, he makes really convincing arguments!

Phenje (fenji), makes me feel like I am a fan (hawa vala :-))

:lol:

You know she's grew up in Punjab when she says that :happy:

The question then is how do you achieve such prem/pyaar for Vaheguru so that you have that longing?

You don't. In fact you can't. Such longing for waheguru can only develop if waheguru themselves (or someone very near them) do kirpa and grant it.

Awpy lwieE Apnw ipAwru ]

He Himself blesses people with His Love.

juttia maar maar key sir ganja karna chahida eho jehey da

Having gone through abuse as a child, I can tell you that if I were to come face to face with them today, I would beat them to pulp! (and I'm a guy; contrary to what a lot of people believe, abuse doesn't happen just to girls)

In your situation, it maybe a good idea to ignore him initially. If he makes a obscene remark then you let him have it, make sure you at least break his nose. You will get in trouble for doing so, but clearly the other options have not helped at all. It's time to take matters into your own hands. Btw, you are 21, you don't need a baby sitter anymore.

There are certain things that you could do to show everyone what he does, but I'd rather not mention them on the forum. They may not be easy but they will come in handy. Feel free to PM me if you are interested.

PS. I don't understand how can a mother not do anything after finding out that her 21 yr old daughter had gone through something like that :sad: kaljug to the max indeed.

he/she loves me, he/she loves me not, he/she loves me, he/she loves me not....awww man "he/she loves me not" :sad: okay lets try again, he/she loves me, he/she loves me not, he/she loves me, he/she loves me not....awww man "he/she loves me not" :sad: :sad: okay! one more time, third time is a charm...he/she loves me, he/she loves me not, he/she loves me, he/she loves me not....awww man "he/she loves me not" :sad: :sad: :sad: ..... ***keep going until you end up with "he/she loves me" and then all the other "he/she loves me not" disappear into thin air***

ahh to be a kid again :D Ii do miss it......a lot :sad:

Quality is not good ... hard to understand :umm:

http://video.google.ca/videoplay?docid=-6632998523386102837&ei=XniJSszHKZOKqQP3zuSNDQ&q=Swami+Parmanand+Ji&hl=en&client=firefox-a