I think the intimidating comment is fair. Some girls just think that someone with a dumalla and a beard is someone thats gonna look down upon them just because she cuts her hair or wears make up etc... I chatted to a few mates and that how some of them feel some even been told they aint even Sikh but these so called "Singhs"
On a serious note girls aint that shallow, if you got a crap personality then not many people will like you, and lets face it alot of these "Amritdhari "Chardikala" "Gursikhs" really are the most judgemental people which doesnt help them or anyone who is trying to come into Sikhi.
I dont feel my appearance is a problem at all in college i had a Pakistani girl fancy me.
Just be a cool dude, and stop thinking negative thoughts. Once you replace negative thoughts with positive ones, you'll start having positive results
