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Jassika

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  1. HAWWWWWWWWWWW AFTER SOME DEEP INVESTIGATION OF THAT BEAUTY, I HAVE COME TO THE CONCLUSION THAT THE LITTLE MEN ON THE WALK PATH LOOK LIKE JELLY FIZZY PEOPLE TO ME, GELATINEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE ohmy.gif

    NAHEEEEEEEEEE LIFE KHRAAB KARTI MERI

    they are people wearing nice bright colored punjabi suits and paghs

  2. Gurfateh!!

    I was just reading the other thread about if Guru Ji was here in human form, and i was thinking if Guru Ji was then would you seriously go to your Guru empty handed? Would you not take something to offer. Even if it is 1 penny. We spend so much on ourselves it's not just about giving 10% give more when you can and if you can, we don't really need all the money we have. Our Guru has given us everything, shelter and food and so much more.

    If the golak was outside somewhere how many people would just walk past it, i have seen golaks outside halls and people don't even look twice. When you matha tekh there is plenty of stuff infront of you so why you would feel as though your bowing to money i don't know. We need to be able to focus on Akaal Purukh at all times.

    Please also remember Gurdwareh need money to run, don't think that all committees eat all the money because they don't. Gurdwareh have bills, and i have seen some hefty council tax bills for Gurdwareh.

    Bhul Chuk Maaf!

    Gurfateh!!

    no i didnt say it feels like your bowing to money but I just don't like the idea of including money which is a worldy material thing because at the gurdwara I like to think of a heavenly place without a need of money. and money to me more represents the fake world buuut its true there are a lot worse distractions that go on at gurdwaras too like the "show offs" in the sangat.

    well it was just a thought that maybe the golak could be moved and still be as noticed and function (maybe even more if theres eyecatching posters explaining lil facts about how much the money helps)

  3. i just heard in the news it would be very good to wait 2 minutes after u give birth before you cut the umbilical cord instead of doin it right away like they always have. this would get more blood etc through to the baby so it'll turn out better and smarter. lol i wish my mom did that for me too

    In all the commotion of the labour, that's the last thing you will be thinking about!

    yea thats why u tell em ahead of time :i:

  4. i just heard in the news it would be very good to wait 2 minutes after u give birth before you cut the umbilical cord instead of doin it right away like they always have. this would get more blood etc through to the baby so it'll turn out better and smarter. lol i wish my mom did that for me too

  5. I think it would make more sense to make contributions to the gurdwara somewhere else (such as by the entry of the prayer hall with eyecatching posters explaining lil facts about how much the money helps) instead in front of the Guru Granth Sahib.

    Can someone please explain why I am wrong?

    I just don't like the idea of including money which is a worldy material thing because at the gurdwara I like to think of a heavenly place without a need of money. and money to me more represents the fake world buuut its true there are a lot worse distractions that go on at gurdwaras too like the "show offs" in the sangat.

  6. ^ What the hell... :D @

    Is Sikhi based on a timeframe, that he can't be a SINGH now, but 5 years from now, what if later on he chooses not to, now is the time to change her mind. Also, why would you encourage him to shave, that's pathetic. The fact of the matter is if he wants to be a keshadari sikh than her wife has to like it no matter what, because marriage involved compromise as well.

    Sikhi is a must, the wife can leave the house if she wants, but the man should not leave Sikhi. These kinds of girls should have their sons/daughters cut limb by limb and let's see how they feel. :D

    well he accepted her vow before marriage so stop insulting her. nowadays having a beard and turban hardly even mean anything. there are so many "gianis gone bad" out there and so many GOOD monas too. it was just her preference.

    I personally find full beards are telling me "dont touch me" because to me it just represents sikhism is against any lust. blaaah my opinion about this whole thing feels kinda messed thats why im hesitating to help on this one

  7. If the wife loves him with a shave face then she can love him with a Dharra(beard) parkash and a pagg on the head. If she sayd no to pag then she doesn't love him or she is scared of others.

    i'm sure theyve tried talking about it several times over the last 8 months.

    I agree her love should be strong enough to accept him in any way he looks and not being comfortable in public might be weak but it might be that she doesnt believe in keeping it for other reasons.

  8. I think this issue is very difficult I dont know if anyone can think of a good answer.

    I see people are being disrespectful towards her but thats not helping. She is right in a way because she had that simple condition BEFORE marriage. I already thought maybe we could change her mind somehow but i dont see how. she is quite stubborn.

  9. When my friend was 24 he shaved his beard because his uncles in canada pushed him to do so in order to get a job etc. A few months later he got married to a girl who told him her conditions for marriage were that she wants a guy that doesnt drink and doesnt have a turban.

    Now in his heart he wants beard & turban he feels incomplete without it as a sikh and feels the time is right now. he's been growing his beard for 8 months and his wife's been complaining saying she's uncomfortable travelling with him etc.

    The rest of his family including his in-laws has turbans but she is totally against it. They have a kid about 3 yrs old and he wants to set a good example.

    How can he get peace in his house and also keep his hair????

  10. yea thats wrong hope someone let the directors know about that. not enough ignorant white people know the difference between hindus and sikhs but actually the difference isnt as important as just being respectful to anyone. there is still A LOT of racism but everyone gets called "HINDU". white people that do this do deserve to be knocked out or something.

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