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You are right! Reading that made me feel so proud! I am a strong sikh and some player cannot change that! I am so glad that you decided to add that serious note because it is so true... I will definitely leave it to God. He will take care of it after I have dealt with my karma. He really was different on msn, phone etc... and I was attracted to the things he said which I realized were all fake. If they were fake, my love was an illusion of my mind as well! I guess there is no need to be sad anymore. If he is a dishonest person who likes to lie to people then there is nothing I can do about it. All I can do is surrender myself to my guru and get strength from his bani to live my life well! Thank you sooooooo soooooo muchhhh again!

From your post, you seem like an extremely biased individual and thats unfortunate because I asked for help from the people on the forum who I supposed were non-judgemental . Since you asked me to correct you, I will do that Just because I did not have a physical relationship does not mean I didn't feel anything... or are you saying that only after doing something physical can a person have the right to love someone? You confused me there.... I guess you have a different definition of love than me. Also, like I said we went to the same school. We became friends over msn but I knew him in person as well. Oh and I am not from India but from UK- not that it should matter AT ALL. I agree that people flirt over msn and I made the mistake of being ' naive and innocent' . That is the reason why the post was asking about guru's bani that can make me stronger! And if you haven't already noticed, I am trying to get over the situation. Most importantly, Who said I am crying? I might need more support and guidance from my guru but that does not mean I am crying. There are many other things in the world to cry about than this one. If I had to cry, I would cry over how human beings love being devil's advocate instead of living in guru's hukam and helping others. Please try to open your heart a little more and accept people who make mistakes especially if they are naive and innocent... Thank you so much for your reply! Sorry if I sound angry but my temper is short when it comes to biases. If you were just trying to being to back to reality by being harsh, then I apologize. Thank you so much bhanjee! I listened to bani today and it did keep my mind on better things than just the past! You are right! that is very strong and powerful.... I think I am going to save that as a last resort thank you so much for your help though! I really appreciate it.

leh, Fateh blauni si bolo...VAHEGURU JI KA KHALSA! VAHEGURU JI KI FATEH! kehdi? ikk raja si, ikk rani si? You mean, add vice? hawww!!! hadh hogi, mere ton rent ni ditta janda, tusi world kitho bna leya apna? :| tuhadi life haigi ja tennis ball? revolve kardi? haaye haaye!!! esli mai kenna MSN should be banned for under 18!!! aho pello ahi hunda nai eh te galt gall aa...oh kehda gaana si, tenu bhull ge yaar praane naweya de gall lagg ke... ki matlab? ohnu waiting room ch bithaaya hoya si? aatma da pain killer laawo...Gurbani !!!! :D kyon? maun vart rakh leya? acha...matlab tuhanu sandvich nai bann'na[ok my quotes stopped working after this, so im gonna use bold and italics] I don't want to be consumed by anger or jealousy. u make it sound like ur a food product and "anger" and "jealousy" are customers at a restaurant. I just need some advice on how to move on and forget him. read the posts above by bhenji Does anyone know any shabads that can help me? im sure some1 will post Any paath from guru granth sahib ji that can help me understand the deeper meaning of life and move on. bhenji has suggested above I can't seem to let go. close ur eyes...take a deep breath...breathe in...breathe out...tell urself, im gonna let go...tell him in ur mind, go go go...now open ur eyes, and sit in cross legged position...ok enough, now im sounding like a yoga instructor... I constantly think about how he is probably talking to that girl and telling her all the things he told me. hmmm, so he cant be honest to either 1 It hurts way too much. make Gurbani ur strength, it will never let u down. I want to be mature about this situation but i am in so much pain. koi gall ni Guru pyaareo, himmat rakho...ur very young, and these experiences happen, sometimes more than once...relax...take it easy, see it as Vaheguru's play...if u like coca cola and pop corn, grab some and enjoy His drama! I know i made a mistake.... we all make mistakes...we are human beings...we are made from the mud of galtiyaan...galti se mishtake ho giya... so any words of advice are welcome. fer add vice karna tusi?? thank you in advance lehh, kadi welcome, kadi thank u...make up ur mind now thats what really makes me proud of u...inspite of all this, ur still smiling...do u see how strong ur already? do u see how much of a true Sikh ur already? im so proud of u...i wish i was strong like u, and a firm Sikh like ur!! completely lost no...ur NOT lost at all...ur blessed!!! if my stupid sense of humor made no sense to u, then please ignore my post...i only wanted u to have a good laugh and cheer up sorry if i made a fool of myself...but thats nothing new :D Thank you for trying to make me smile! It worked . I wish I was more like you.... I wish I didn't over analyze things so much and just let them be..... Also, Thank you for seeing some strength in me because I almost forgot that I can be a strong individual. Your sense of humor is amazing and the world needs more people like you! Thank you so much again! The message you gave me through your jokes was really strong and I am so happy that the world has people like you and everyone else on this forum. The positive energy that you guys have is marvelous.

Your right.... I have to be mentally strong to go through this... I guess that's what I lack but I'll try to improve myself! Thank you so much for the all of the suggestions You are wonderful.... really.... just reading that made me feel 10 times better. I am def. going to keep myself busy so I can avoid useless thoughts. It's going to be hard but I am going to do it!