harinder kaur

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<br />Don't watch too many bollywood movies. They aren't real life.<br />

Veer Ji

I don't watch Bollywood. I read Gurbani. Waheguru resides in all. I see Waheguru in my partner. Is it wrong to love my Waheguru partner?

I went to india this year and got married - arranged marriage. However, now i am having serious doubts about her and her motivies - i.e once she has the right to remain in the UK she'll be off. Its a number of things and her behavior generally. she isn't who i orginally thought hence my doubts. ofcourse its too late to do anything,,, but has anyone been in a similar situation, what advice would you give etc.

Not everyone has bad motives , love conquers all.

VjkkVjkf

I come here to seek advice. I have been married for just over 2 years. I am now at a stage where I am ready to have children. Problem is, my husband completely shuts me down saying we will never have kids. I am deeply heart broken. My family has also talked to him and explained that in grist jeevan, having kids is also important.

I just don't know what to do. I just feel like crying. I wish it mattered to him to see how much this is killing me on the inside.

I know there isn't much anyone can say to help but I just felt like posting to get some comfort cause I feel so alone on the inside

I was once in that position. Pm me if you want to talk.

I will try to help in any way I can. Anything you wish to discuss will be totally confidential. Please feel free to contact.

well, ive learnt a lot about sikhi..... i used to do my eyebrows, remove facial hair (on upperlip) well ive stopped with all this, and i want to seriously start to follow guru ji's path

at first i started with full confidence..

but now the facial hair is getting more....i get very insecure..

it feels like my classmates just stare at the hair,, my family would torture me, even my dad...

i just cant accept the fact... that this hair is coming back, and coming back worse..

i feel so sad, but i cant turn my guru ji down

some [close 2 me] recommend to do laser

how can i do this, this is fooling the world, but not fooling guru ji

but guru ji can do incredible things, he makes thing happen that never can

will guru ji listen to my ardas, reduce hair?

i feel ashamed asking this

but at this point ,

everyone who talks to me about this, cant imagine , caus they have not that much hair, or even dont have...

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phenji please contact me via personal message , I can share my experiences with you.

Hi

Please contact via pm.

I arrived recently into the uk from India for marriage. I do not have any family here or anyone to share personal matters with.

There are some aspects of my husband's habits that I would like to clarify. If some married sikh sisters can please help me I it will be very good.

If these points are not allowed to be discussed then I am sorry but I feel my head spinning with these thoughts inside.

I am finding it difficult to concentrate on nitnem with these thoughts. Please note that my new family is good but the feelings

that come into my head afterwards are making me worried.

Thankyou.

*mod edit: Personal details removed. Kindly pm the phenji instead.*