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  1. You think it would make him petty ? Well !

    ਸਭ ਹਰਿ ਕੀ ਕਰਹੁ ਉਸਤਤਿ ਜਿਨਿ ਗਰੀਬ ਅਨਾਥ ਰਾਖਿ ਲੀਓਇ

    सभ हरि की करहु उसतति जिनि गरीब अनाथ राखि लीओइ ॥

    Sabẖ har kī karahu usṯaṯ jin garīb anāth rākẖ lī▫o▫i.

    So praise the Lord, everybody; He protects the poor and the lost souls.

    <a class="dict" href="http://www.srigranth.org/servlet/gurbani.dictionary?Param=%E0%A8%9C%E0%A9%88%E0%A8%95%E0%A8%BE%E0%A8%B0%E0%A9%81" ;="" style="text-decoration: none; color: rgb(128, 0, 0); ">ਜੈਕਾਰੁ ਕੀਓ ਧਰਮੀਆ ਕਾ ਪਾਪੀ ਕਉ ਡੰਡੁ ਦੀਓਇ ॥੧੬॥

    जैकारु कीओ धरमीआ का पापी कउ डंडु दीओइ ॥१६॥

    Jaikār kī▫o dẖarmī▫ā kā pāpī ka▫o dand ḏī▫o▫i. ||16||

    He honors the righteous and punishes the sinners. ||16||

    Also , see how Azraeel crushes everyone in the end if one does not worship God .

    why hasnt god brought the victims of '84 to justice yet ?

  2. Very tricky situation.. Seems like that you are okauy with everything except locaion. I highly doubt that a guy will move to a new location after marriage. Its not that he dont give priority to your needs but he have to weigh the options, like his parents, house, job and so on....

    It is not a big deal, so dont give up rishta because of past bad experience with city. You will get uses to it. Later on you guys can move to new location with less desis around...

    U are encouraging a split in the House .

    If one is so certain that one will not be able to get comfortable with the new place , then she should think twice before getting married to this guy.

  3. <br /><br /><br />

    karam is from the past. the influences on your life now are from karma. you are still free to make whatever efforts you wish to make in the present. naam bani, seva, satsangat all improve our karams. meaning that the weight of influences on our life lessens.

    here's a simple example. let's say you want to regularly workout but don't. laziness is a habit, that's your past karma influencing you. it doesn't stop you from working out though. you can still make yourself go to the gym.

    Hmm . At what point do i know that the Karma has improved

  4. I think most students are uncertain about their career, and some like me have been working for 5+ years and are still uncertain :rolleyes2: The best thing you can do to have a good career is find a good mentor who can guide you through your career. Talk to career counselors at your college or university, they should be able to point you to the right direction.

    U are generalizing . If your are facing problems because you are uncertain about ur career , u cant conclude that everyone has the same issue. What about those who are certain about what they want to do , yet are deprived of opportunities . Yes , Uncertainty about career can be 1 of the issues but not what more than 50% face . If someone is uncertain about his career , his problems, in fact , have not even started yet . Cos once one decides about which industry he wants to enter , he needs to upgrade his skills to match the particular industry requirement . This means he needs to clear the competition and get admission into a specialized professional college . Then he needs to compete with other job seekers and get the desired job . The problems have not even BEGUN .

  5. How difficult is to find a gursikh(boy or girl) who is also well educated or professionally qualified?

    Are there any dedicated websites for sikh matrimonials? Are there any services started by gurughars which are specifically for gursikhs only?

    We are finding very difficult to find an educated and gursikh match for a girl - only request is that the boy should be WELL QUALIFIED and GURSIKH?

    Can SIKHSANGAT.com also start a section dedicated to this kind of free service?

    thanks

    As far as i know somee specific Bradrees do have such a matrimonial service in place . The Dhan Potohar Bradree and the Ramgarhias .
  6. mundasingh everything happens in God's will and this can be relieving...but yes one should carve his own destiny with the knife of actions

    This is an oxymoron . Regarding the former ...Had the former been applied to Sikhs in the 18th Century , the sikhs would have accepted their fate at the hands of the fanatical Mughals and Afghans and just given up.
  7. aneways who cares about whatever it means . i have spent half my life in frustration trying to conform to people' "idea " of "standards " . This is where it all stops.

    A rose by any other name would smell as sweet

    'Tis but thy name that is my enemy;

    Thou art thyself, though not a Montague.

    What's Montague? it is nor hand, nor foot,

    Nor arm, nor face, nor any other part

    Belonging to a man. O, be some other name!

    What's in a name? that which we call a rose

    By any other name would smell as sweet;

    So Romeo would, were he not Romeo call'd,

    Retain that dear perfection which he owes

    Without that title. Romeo, doff thy name,

    And for that name which is no part of thee

    Take all myself.

  8. Just sharing but in old school punjabi sikhs even "munda" is cuss word for sikh kids. Many would not know but our great great grandfather would end up in a fight if someone would have called our great grandfather "munda" 100 years ago. Ask your bajurgs for more information.

    In Punjab , there were lots of words used to look down upon someone . "Bhappa ", "Baiyya " are also words used to chastise someone . I am originally a "Bhau " from Amritsar . It doesnt mean anything bad . Sardars of amritsar are called Bhaus . If i were to call someone in Doaba or Malwa , a Bhau , He would feel as if am mocking him . There is no end to all this potpourrri of words .

    Ethe te kucch wi chalda . So do you encourage this trend of calling names by accepting it .

    PS : However the reason i chose this id was totally different , perhaps to stand out as an iconoclast

  9. Do not Backbite-

    chugalee kar jokaaj bigaarai dhhrig this janam jdhharam bisaarai ||

    Those who back-bite and ruin their lives are cursed and have wasted their lives by abandoning righteousness.

    Rehatnama Bhai Nand Laal Jee

    Do not Swear and have false speech -

    guroo kaa sikhga(n)dhaavaakee naa hovai

    The Sikh of the Guru should never speak disgusting speech.

    Rehatnama Bhai Chaupaa Singh Jee

    shabadh giaan bin karehij baath || thaa(n) kai kashh naa aavehihaathh ||||

    Those who speak words which do not reflect on the Guru's teachings will never attain even an iota of spiritual bliss.;

    Rehatnama Bhai Nand Laal Jee

    So are those False AmriDharees Listening !
  10. well i a 27 and lost. I dont know where my life is going or what to do. I have no job, no prospects. I should be getting married now. But with no job how am i suppose to get married? Nothing in my life has gone right for me. I dd own a property but that was taken away from me. after getting bad luck. i recently got introduced to a girl and we were thinking of marriage. however the girl and her family did not go through with it when it came they found out i was unemployed. i felt very depressed ever since. As i really liked this girl. but then i cant blame the family. Because. Having a job is everything. I have no life. I just dont know what to do.

    Dude one unconventional advice that i would offer is ask the girl if she still likes you inspite of what her parents think about you . If she thionks like her parents , then then she is not worth the time even if you were a Magnate . If she likes you , assur her that you will find some occupation and ask her to wait or just run off and marry her or marry her without running off . Either way you will do better than sitting like this and letting her go away .There was a useless guy who assured his chick that he is gonna get rich and she believed him and he became big

  11. mundasingh everything happens in God's will and this can be relieving...but yes one should carve his own destiny with the knife of actions

    so you feel that actions always bear fruit . Well It isnt always so . I am not all for being fatalistic either

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