mundasingh123

Are you under any physical threat bhai ji? It also serves as a request to God for protection against your enemies.

Physical Threat as in ... No physical threat as of now . I haveno doubt about what BabaJi said , though . There a lots of Sikhs who are devoted to BabaJi.

Well isnt this what we are demanding from India? Pakistan is no where as powerful as India!

Hmm. On a second thought your logic seems to have some rationale behind it . Imagine Pakistan getting reduced to half after it gives away Western Punjab out of fear of retaliation from us Sikhs . lol

India is not gonna lose much but pakistan will surely be reduced to the size of Afghanistan

To me it's like a warning against arrogance, and Godlessness, especially on achieving worldly success.

Thanks to both Veers

Edited my Post Please

A Bani can mean different things to different People . For Example Some look to Bani for Inspiration while others look to Bani for Peace . When Are people asked to recite Chaupai sahib generally .Thanks a Lot for the Help

@singh559

Nice reply that was !

Arrey yaar why do you take me to be so ignorant . I have read the Bani . What i asked is different

@Dalsingh01

Everyone has his own interpretation of Bani. A Bani can mean different things to different People . For Example Some look to Bani for Inspiration while others look to Bani for Peace . When Are people asked to recite Chaupai sahib generally .Thanks a Lot Bros

I have been told to recite Chaupai Sahib by BabaJi. Whats Chaupai Sahib Meant for ?

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Dhanvaad

doesnt the conventional cd writer do it for u ? I didnt get the 120 mints problem .

I feel for khalistan to have any real basis and credibility then we got to demand from pakistan the area

And Pakistan will accede to the demand for western punjab, the most fertile and the wealthiest province in pak ... Wishful thinking or did you mean lets just demand irrespective of whether pak agrees or not

We don't need them and majority of muslims and hindus want peace and don't know whats going on in today's punjab and will throw there support behind us.

Is that why many of these hindu asserted that their mother tongue was Hindi and not punjabi when it came to division of land on the basis of Language Spoken in the erstwhile years

Why do i see that all people who are living on govt . pensions in punjab are not in favour of khalistan or am i again mistaken . i remember 2 of my cousins ( Both of them middle class 0 being kidnapped by Terrorists ( Kharkoos ) for large Ransoms . My young bachelor neighbour was shot down in the night .His whole family was wrecked overnight . I have heard that my aunt was interrogated by a Terrorist / Kharkoo at the school where she taught .Her nickname sounds hindu . Had she told him that , she would have been shot down . But she told him her sikh name .When she said which pind she belonged to the guy said Saada sardar wi othon da and she said that she knew his Leader tussi saadi pehn ho pehnji and he left My uncle hid in the library when the terrorists came to search for someone at his school. Did they kill someone there ? I dont know .I remember my tayee telling me that Terrorists / kharkoos also forced villagers to give them support and then indulged in indecent behavious with the Villagers families . Then they asked Fellows to do Naam Charcha . I also heard that they bribed kids in schools with dry fruits to have them serve them as messengers . In return the kids start threatening their school masters if they got punished for not doing their homework .

This is one side of the story that i know of . I dont know of the other side

Actually its not a stupid idea since that is what Maharaja Ranjit Singh's Punjab was based upon and muslims were the majority and sikhs were the minority and were able to practice there religion in freedom without being killed. If you ask any muslim from punjab or sikh or even hindu they will say that was the best period in time for Punjab

Now You would need copies of Hari Singh Nalwa , Akali Phoola Singh and Ranjit Singh to strike fear in the hearts of pathans / Muslims if you would like Sikhs to still dominate inspite of being outnumbered by Sullas and Bamans

lol read my post again slowly. That's what I'm trying to say

Why would You talk of "most non amrithdarees" + "Without being judgemental " without implying that amritdharees are untainted .

Erm mundasingh I think you'r missing my point.

Yeh u right it's an attitude that all humans should have. But I said gursikhs because nt a lot of gursikhs think like that. Without being judgmental but most non amrithdarees they don't want that side of life in marriage. Yes they want happiness but everyone's idea of happiness is different.

That's why there's so many divorces. How do you know all

gursikhs are good? There's good apples and rotten apples in every basket.

For the same reason , u cant say that there cant be rotten apples among amritdharees .

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Whimsical because you don't want to make it too po-faced. A kind of coming-of-age tale interspersed with black humour and moments of high drama. Like the plot to GTA4 (the one with Niko) but minus the murders, car crashes and other events of an unsavoury nature.

Nice Plot i am giving u credit for this

whats po-faced

ya this reminded me of the day i was at the belgian airport about to catch the flight to Toronto . I was trying to collect some info regarding the routes from the Sardars in the queue and they were all trying to avoid me thinking i was some terrorist or some guy who is going to take some advantage , sticking to them lol . Coincidentally in those days i used to leave my Dara Open and my moustached twirled

@ mundasingh123 - Write a screenplay about that ^^^^. A whimsical tale of an outsider befriended by people of other races but shunned by his own supposed brethren! :laugh:

I guess it turned out to be too descriptive . This is what good movies are made of , rnt they ? why did u call it whimsical ? i wasnt being choosy :toohappy:

The first time when i went to canada i was looking around for singhs to make friends with . The company where i worked in Mississauga , there were 2 singhs 1 a recent freshie turned citizen like me and the other a singhni who wasnt sikh at all . The Singh always moved around with Goras and would speak very little with me in their presence . I used to feel very awkward seeing him in the canteen with the other goras and i stopped approaching him .The other sighni , it turned out had a desi Hindu BF and was tight-lipped most of the time .

During my initial days in canada , the only people i could muster some conversation with were the Retired unclejis who had nothing to do but buy cash lotteries and while away the whole day sitting on benches in Shoppers world brampton .These people usually had quite fascinating stories to tell .

During my inittial days i felt that sikhs were the least inclined to talk to other sikhs whom they happened to chance upon . So I started making friends with Blacks who were always ready to give me a tip or two regarding gym , BodyBuilding and the Hippies whom i would encounter late in the night while sitting in front of my basement and staring at the stars in the sky .These Hippies were always ready to share the problems that they were facing with divorce , their girlfriends , their family problems and Kids.

I remember once i was trying to cross the road and the traffic light said that i could walk . I was almost run over by a Punjabi Guy who made a funny gesture at me and drove away .

Every Punjabi is an Island .Of course there were exceptions butthey were few for example the Sardarji at Canadian Tyre and his wife who worked at KFC .

Too much pride perhaps?

Pride in a drunk who had nothing to do except sit in front of my cousins shop at the village chowk and have charas and drink desi daru the whole day and half the night . Pride of what , I wonder

That's what I like to hear Dev. If only there were more Gursikhs out there who had that same attitude!

What Dev wrote about has nothing to do with being a Gursikh but something to do with a good human being . Of couse all Gursikhs are good Humans but not all good humans are Gursikhs

Mundasingh ji, with respect, I can't see how someone's earning potential could be any sort of determining factor as to whether that makes them a good match or not. Surely the point of marriage is finding someone who fulfills you spiritually, rather than financially? Somebody who is an amazing person and has a heart full of love? Or is it true that money does indeed make the world go around? I feel myself to be incredibly blessed to have found someone who fulfills my spiritual and emotional needs, to the point where I have not once concerned myself, nor cared, to know how much money she earns. Whether she was a high flyer or on the dole would be of no odds, for I can see that she has a pure heart and a beautiful soul, which to me is absolutely priceless. Don't mean to blow my own horn there but she makes me so happy, I honestly just want to shout it from the rooftops!

Just my 2p worth....

Paaji , Nice thoughts . I wish every girls father would look for qualities that would ensure the couple completed each other . Sometimes the first thing that people are interested in is the financial status of the Groom . Kinna Kamaunda Munda ? Ki karda Munda ?

I wish life were a bed of roses . I wouldnt have had to abandon my loves then

. The singh replied, " Which part of me do you find attractive, so I may chop it off?"

I bet this is just made up to inspire people etc

oye bas karjo mundeyo te kurriyo

roj roj koi nama poaada leke aa jandeo

aha sikhsangat aa, aashiksangat nai

ki rawla paaya aa

je ta koi Sikhi baare gall karni te karo

je mundeya kurriya nu rona aa te fer jaao kisay professional counsellor kol

jehda tuhanu changi slaah vi douga, ya dougi

te fees vi mooh add ke louga, ya lougi

fer swaad aau tuhanu ishq karn da jad pocket khaali hogi

asi aithe behke tuhanu kitho dassiye vi ki karna chahida

jindgi tuhadi, panga tusi leya, maujjaan pello aap kitiyaan

jad ron pittan di vaari aayi te sikhsangat te account bana leya?

nah asi velle baiththay aa tuhanu hausla te slaaha den nu?

Bani paddni nai, Gurdwaare jana nai, Amrit shakhna nai, Sikhi saroop rakhna nai

akh matakka kari jana, te fer jad chhittar peh jande ta sadda magaj khaan aa jandeo

mai kenna ikk vakhra section khol lena chahida admins nu

naam rakho "kutt khaade laila majnu plz post here"

hadh hundi aa yaar, tang aa giya roj roj nawe draamay vekh vekh ke

Gurmat di gall kisi ne bhull ke nai karni

ishk mushk de siyappe roj de darjan de hisaab naal bhaawe suni jaao

oye bande bann jo

aha puththay kamm shaddo

te sanu vi jee lain deyo

Gurmat , bani diyan te and shand gallan karan diyan taan hi te wakhre sub forum banaye gaye haa

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Mundha singh what is ur view then?

What i think about Sanjog is that perhaps who we are to marry could be pre - ordained but that one will find bliss matrimony in the alliance cant be taken for granted otherwise why should people have divorces and not all find happiness in marriage .

And whats true about it is you just cant leave the matchmaking part to divine forces since the acceptability criteria is governed by Economics (How much the potential mate earns ) , presentation ( Looks ) , Cultural aspects ( Background etc ) so its highly complicated .

So perhaps if a person earned 1 bit more than what he earns now and / or takes some care about his presentation , maybe he would have prospects of finding a better match .

If i were to like a person and i werent earning well enough to impress her Dad , expecting divine forces to intervene would be fool hardy .

and of course things are also governed by the ever-going tussle between demand and supply . The more matches i get , the higher would be my threshold level or benchmark criteria for selection , so what i am trying to say is the higher number of choices that i have for my better half , the more would be my perceptive opportunity cost .

For example if i get a good looking girl who doesnt have much inclination to taking up household responsiblities and making rotis for her husband , i could lose out on a prospect who makes good rotis and likes to take up household responsibilities . Similarly if i were to marry a girl who is good natured but does not have good family contacts , i could be losing out on a girl who is good looking and has a powerful god father .

I have yet to find out the truth of the so called Sanjog . I havnt found my better half so far inspite of the fact that i have been searching for the past 20 years.

I have been thinking for quite some time Why punjabis in Punjab do not accept people whoare different from them in matters of thinking , dressing and the way one carries himself .

I have travelled all over the breadth of India , travelled to different countries , studied outside and lived outside in Christian schools as well and i now carry myself in a very `shehri `manner and when i am back in Punjab i find that people just because someone is not like them or does not talk like them treat him as if he were a sore thumb . In Punjab , you call them Bhappas . lol

I just cant help being disgusted with the thought process of the people here though i am one of their own but i am now being made to feel as if i were an outsider .I find this all the more obnoxious because outside we are treated differently because of our appearance and inside i am treated differently cos of the way i am . I have dealt with a lot of racial bias since i was a kid .

I almost got into a fight with a drunk in my maasi`s pind and i do hear comments sometimes . Sometimes when i am <Edited> off with , i rant back with the choicest abuses that i can dare

I ll sum up the pinds mentality as

matha lohe da

te bund pital di

eho ja banda chahida

saade naal ghuman layee