TeghKaur

LOL Yeah! see if he agrees with peace If not thn break the peace.

Waheguru ji ka khalsa, Waheguru Ji ki Fateh! (PARDESI) u have said it all. We can talk and strecth this topic as much as we want to, but tht's the open/close statement. THANK YOU! Waheguru ji ka khalsa, waheguru ji ki Fateh!

UMMM.... THEY USE TOBACOO IN CHAH PATTI ( TEA) ASWEL. that is y a amirtdhari must not consume CHAH! well they use tobacco to give color.

WAHEGURU JI KA KHALSA, WAHEGURU JI KI FATEH!! Since we are talkin about anad karaj.. I got a chance to meet and learned bani and other important information from a gurmukh who does santhya (teaching gurbani and how to pronounce gurbani akhar properly) that, he learned from Sant Jarnail Singh Jee Khalsa, Bhindranwale. He told us, that according to Damdami Rehat Mrayda, A couple must perform 4 lavan by doing parkarma (walking around) Dhan Shri Guru Granth Sahib ji In order to be married. Cuz in some cases and at some gurdwara's what they do is that they only stand front of guru ji and that's it! So realisticly, they r not married! SO MAKE SURE WHN U R GETTING MARRIED, U DO PERFORM PARKARMA... :cool2:

Waheguru ji ka khalsa, Waheguru Ji ki Fateh! Simrankaur bhenji.... U see if u were to listen gurbani u would have got all the answers to ur questions.... But i can tell u, that u got stronger feelin towards a human thn guru ji And im so sorry to say, there is no such thing as a "falling in love" with humans.... its a desire and or need!!.and in ur case it seems to be an Obsession. the only true love is that one's soul does to the LORD. Without any need or greed. U have lost something that was not urs.. thn y r u crying for it day and night? One day we all r going to die thn wht?? SimranKaur Ji, try to move on with having good attitude. And u mentioned about ppl not liking u. Give me one good reason that they should like you for? SimranKaur Ji, this is Kalyug, no one wants to talk to u or deal with u untill u can be any good to them. Everything is STRICTLY a business. We as sikhs are so blessed that we are born into sikhi, that AKALPURAKH SAHIB JI took 10 human lives and went through the hardest time did kurbaniya for us.and.. taught us different stages of life and how to overcome thm. But Sadly 99% of Sikhs are like you and me, who have learned nothing from our Father. And at end We Blame him for everything... That O waheguru ji, Why did this happened to me?? and never asked urslf tht wht did u do in order for that to not happen with u..???? its All "KARMI AAPO AAPNI KAY NAIREY KAY DUR" try to do sangat as much as u can, that is the only place where u can be forgiven for ur deeds.. try doin good with ur life so that if u can't make ur life better this time atleast ur next life has some good deeds. This is all SimranKaur Bhenji.. May Waheguru Bless u with Partakh Sikhi!! If something i wrote has hurt ur feelings or anyone who is Reading this, I am sorry from my heart. Waheguru ji ka Khalsa, Waheguru Ji ki Fateh!

Waheguru ji ka Khalsa, Waheguru ji Ki Fateh! I would suggest stop looking.. nooo seriously. life after marriage isn't easy. u guys have option not to get married and as being a girl, ihve been keep asking my parents for thm not to talk about me getting married and if i can go back to india and live my whole life at hemkunt Sahib and do Guru Ji's Seva till the end. And they say no. CAN U BELIEVE THT! Such a discrimination. which is :nono: fair!

Waheguru ji ka khalsa, Waheguru ji ki Fateh! Bhenji, you are his wife. Talk to him and tell him exactly wht u have told us all. The fact tht it can impact ur daughter's future. orther thing u can do is, Increase ur nitnem, try to do Assa Di vaar's paath. check this Website out... www.gursevak.com . and there is alot of information u can get. Also, when u do ur nitnem, make sure ur daughter is with u, so tht she can hear the bani. that will not only help ur daughter it will also help ur husband. Try to have more family time and talk. and whn u guys are together talk about nothing but guru sahib ji's Sakhiayan! Do ur own little sangat at home.Talk to him and ask him that if everything is goin okay, that u have noticed that he is not doing his nitnem.. and if there is something u can help him with in order to get back on the track.. May waheguru help u with all u need. Waheguru ji Ka khalsa, Waheguru ji Ki Fateh!

Waheguru ji ka khalsa, Waheguruji ki fateh! i red this page from top to bottom and every line i red i said, "O my GODD this is how i felt too". I hve been through the same as most of u did, I got caught so much into society and maya that i let go my kakaars and cut my hair. I used to think whn i was amritdhari, that no one wanted to be my friend. in high school, in classes no one wanted to take me into their groups and i felt like a Looner, and those feelings started to raise questions on guru sahib ji, that wht did i do so wrong.. tht this is happening to me? and would think my life was soo easier and fun whn i was not amritdhari,and cry and cry and cry. I never wanted to go to school, or outside bcuz i used to think that i look like a crap, atleast tht wht ppl think abt me and laugh at me... I would do Ardaas tht save me i dont wanna let go this save me.. but i couldn't understand wht my heart was telling me. And at end i cutted my hair, After tht life got normal, everyone liked me, wanted to know me, i would dress up however i want and look just like other gurls. ( get attention & tht kinda stuff) literally, i Stoped going to gurwara and didn't even look at guru ji for 9 months. and those nine months where full of people freinds but it was soo empty from inside, i would thn cry again, for wht i did, and y, i started to listen to my heart, and started to do paath again, and this time it felt as dhan shri guru arjan dev sahib ji's talking to me. Every tuk i red from bani would point at me and make me realize wht i had and wht m missing on.. Thn now, again m amritdhari, and have more strong feelings towards guru sahib ji, bcuz i have realized the truth. And he is the only truth, he is the only person that will like u for whoever u r, even thou u r bad or the worst person in this whole world. Like dhan shri guru nanak dev sahib ji did his great bakshish on sajjan chor. And as Dhan shri guru sachey sahib dhan pita ji shri guru gobing singh sahib ji did his kirpa on 40 muktey.. 40 singhs who wrote a letter to guru ji tht they r not his sikhs and for them guru jis not there guru anymore. at end in war guru ji tore the paper and huged his singhs now we mention them twice everyday in adrass. So if u guys, r still feeling the way u r, i would request u to think of this... would those ppl or thoughts tht u wanted to be with, r true to u? whn u die will they be there 4 u? will they stand with u in ur pain? Can they give u a life? AND CAN THEY LEAD U TO GURU JI????? the answer is no.. thn y would u let go of someone who is so true to u tht for us, 4u. 4me, he gave not only his life but lives of his loved ones, his sons. fathers, grandfathers, tht was all for us. Now, whn i do my Dastar and think tht guru ji is looking at me, it makes me feel proud, i dont do dastar, i tie dumalla, and i go to college and no one else in my college looks like me. i stand out and it makes me feel grt. Now i dont evn wanna make friends, i have a true friend who others can't c but he resist in my heart and soul. Now things have changed, i m happier thn ever before and whn i go to gurdwara sahib ji ppl pay request to guru ji's bana and his 5 kakaars, it makes me feel like m in heaven, even ppl in college wants to be my friends and they approch me but now they stand no where in my life. i know this world would end and it might end now or tomorrow who knowS but i know there is one who will not let go off me and i will not let go off him aswell. no matter wht. if u r feeling lost and wan to walk away from sikhi, thn just think about worst tht could happen, bcuz there might be nothing good tht will happen. ITS ALL OUR DEEDS FROM THIS LIFE OR PREVIOUS THT WE R IN PAIN> DO ARDAAS FOR FORGIVENESS< HE IS READY TO FORGIVE IF U R READY TO BE FORGIVEN.DONT CARE ABOUT WHT OTHER THINK ABT U, IGNORE THM, THTS THE 1ST STEP TOWARDS GURU JI. HE IS IN WITHIN U, JUST CLOSE UR EYES AND SEARCH FOR THE TRUE LIFE, IT MIGHT BE PAINFUL IT MIGHT BE ANNOYING, DON'T GIVE UP, ITS NOT EASY TO FIND A PURE TRUTH, WHN U R SURROUNDED BY FALSE RELATIONS, AND DEEDS. I KNOW MY BLOG IS THE LONGEST ONE, BUT I HAD TO SAY ALL THIS. THERE R OTHER WAYS TO IMPROVE UR CONCENTRATION WHN DOING NITNEM, THT I WILL WRITE IN NEXT BLOG. SORRY IF I HAVE SAID ANYTHING WRONG.... WAHEGURU JI KA KHALSA, WAHEGURU JI KI FATEH!

Aug.30.2011. Waheguru Ji ka Khalsa, Waheguru ji ki Fateh! Just to update, bhagat ji, is currently in Edmonton, He is planning to be here till 1St for another day and planning to go to Calgary for Seva, but that's not been confirmd Yet. Also, The Recording are available at www.gursevak.com Waheguruji ka khalsa, Waheguru ji Ki Fateh!