ConfusedSingh1

my guru tells me not to follow rituals and worship idols and my family says its not rituals, my family says that i should marry in my own caste because its good for my future when my guru says we shouldn't believe in caste. Everyone is equal. Now guru ji also tells us that we need to show respect to our parents...how far should we go with this respect...wouldn't disrespecting them be doing the stuff above <_<..im totally lost and losing it

Waheguroo Jee Ka Khalsa! Waheguroo Jee Kee Fateh!! Sangat ji, I am going through a lot of problems these days. How do we draw the line. Guru Granth Sahib ji and the Guru Sahibs have always told us to respect our parents but what if they are telling us something thats against what guru ji is saying? What are their role on us and what exactly should we follow? I'm Desperately in need of help!! Waheguroo Jee Ka Khalsa! Waheguroo Jee Kee Fateh!!