Vaheguru I'll try answer as much as I can
1. you should change your kashera the moment u finish your shower or bath. take one leg out the wet one and put the dry one on then the same with the other till you have a fresh kachera on. then comb your hair so theres no problem in touching kanga with kachera
2. I'd say get a new sri sahib is your best bet unless you know a good carpenter
3. i'm not fully sure with this one. daas just picks up as much as i can
4. I was told by panj piyare that you have to remove kirpan when on plane and do ardaas then put in on when you land. I've never taken kara off though. they just do a body scan and i'm off
5. use sand instead of colgate lol. its better and making a new layer
6. kashera should be fully on at all times except when at the tiolet or changing kachera
7. thats fine if you hold it in pant. i tie a kamarkasa which is a small length of material tied around my waist to hold kirpan in place.
8. tie a bigger dastar
9. combing more is fine
10. thats fine too. its just how sarbhloh works
11. dont worry about getting jaap sahib off by heart. take it slowly and do ardaas to guru ji, it took me just over 3 years
12. guru ji loves everyone he does kirpa on who ever he wants. not for us to worry.
13. no sorry ji i dont know anyone
14. why does kara fall off head??? it should be on your arm!!
15. its fine just dont do it again
as for your sexual encounters dont worry about them, you werent amritdhari then. when you take amrit all your previous sins are wiped just make sure u keep a lifestlye to keep you on guru jis paath.
you can tell panj piyare ji if you want to but theats up to you. and yes panj piyare are the gurus form.
hahahahaha 50,100 paats of japji sahib?? i can hardly do two lolll. do as much as you can but dont start counting and saying " oh i did 20 paats today thats so good" keep in mind youre doing paat for love of guru ji.
you dont need to count mala or write in note book. you should do simran and paat out of love. 1 mool mantar or japji sahib done in love is better than 100 done without it.
as for your dreams you are blessed to have darshan of gursikhs in your dreams. dont ponder over it too much. as you do more simran everything will be clear.
hope this helps