sukhi077

anyways I got PAck:)

I have heard it alot that if someone converts to Christianity in india he or she is paid big money for that...Hindu community is suffering this problem too..Many Hindu Dalits Left Hinduism and accepted Christianity ......anyways but Who will Leave sikhi ...I must say he or she did not have brain..

Lets make sure we don't watch it !

:nono:

but it hurts though... does not you?hm?

I just got from some of my friend from India that There is an upcoming punjabi movie "YAAR ANMULLE 2" and the main Actress is playing a role of HOT

KAUR and also We all Know western culture and Vulgarity are taking over Punjabi industry.....

Its swimming, what vulgarity is going to happen?

exactly. it makes us out to be really paranoid.

swimming pool is not sarovar, please dont make mistake of confusing the two.

dude,,,, I just talked about their cloths..I know its swimming ..and swimming got many swimming suits and their suits should not be like vulgar and indecent or showing their body... swimming nange hoke b ho jandi a...hun ae nah keh di ..its just swimming :lol2:

well I would say As long as There is no vulgarity and indecency in them I will support them but if they try to do anything that hurt sikhi...then they should be ashamed of it...

Girls these days REALLY HAVE GONE CORRUPT..... Which is definitely a cause of concern....

I can understand veerji....but asi kuch nai kar sakde.....sirf aur sirf apna dhyaan rakho ke tusi na patiti ho jayo.......singh hege a te sikhi a....nai ta nai...

What does the highlighted text mean exactly mr sukhi007 veerji. Please explain yourself.

It does mean...tusi aje be singh saabat surat lab lavonge ...but kaur labni boht aukhi ho gyi a......kyunki jedhi kaur simple family wicho b belong krdi a ..oh bechaari SPLIT ENDS di mareej a.....kyunki paag unha ne banani nai chahe amritdhari hove ya non amritdhari......so they like to cut their hair...

Some words of wisdom for bachelors who are looking -

1. No money no honey.

Even Bollywood has stopped making films showing a rich babe marrying a poor guy :-)

First get a job then think about marriage.

2. In India working women are mostly vulnerable, bosses do take advantage.

So if you want a virgin, non-promiscuous wife then go for non-working girl.

3. Right place & right approach

Ask Akhand Kirtani's, Dodra Saadh Sangat or Sikh Missionary (as per your liking) to arrange a match.

Finding a girl on your own without parents support will be futile so get their consent.

4. Look for a girl & family who are comparatively weaker then you in financial terms.

Secret to happy married life, low maintenance-obedient wife :-)

LMAO>>>you just killed it...I bet it may be offensive for sikh girls.......

lol, kaahde 10 years yaar...nah udo kuch kar sakke te nah hajay tak...bas ithe aake jhaadu maari janna

lol. eh singh keh riya va????

WJKK WJKF

I am a Sikh guy from Delhi. I want to ask a question about Sikh girls, virginity and sex before marriage. But first, I want to tell you about what has driven me to come here and ask this question.

I used to like a girl in the final year of my school. She used to like me too. We used to blush a lot while talking to each other and We used to talk to each other a lot. We told each other about our feelings and felt good about it. Later we went to different colleges. One day there was a cultural event in her college, I came to know of it from my friends in that college, and thought I should surprise her. I went there with my friends and saw her with some other guy, dancing, laughing and having her fun. I felt awkard and bad seeing that but I tried to ignore having seen what I had seen. When I asked my friends about that guy, they said he was her guy, and they had seen them making out quite a few times. I couldnt believe it. She used to say she liked me, loved me, wanted to be with me. I was heart broken. I spoke to her about it and she confessed to it. I stopped talking to her. That teenage love ended then and there. I was depressed for a very long period of time.

After 1.5 years I came across a girl through a mutual friend. She was amritdhari, looked kinda cute and had approached me herself. I started to like her company. She was studying at a college in Gurgaon. After some time of our friendship we both felt attracted towards each other. But she had bad company, had ONLY guy friends, used to go with em to hookah bars, pubs and all other kinda wrong places. I myself am an amritdhari and i personally do not like going to any such places as I feel that Sikhs must not go to these kinda places. (Kutha, hukkah, charas, tambaku, ganja , topi, taadi, khaaku.. inki ore na kabahuu dekhai rehetvand so sikh bisekhai) ... also came to know about her alleged physical relationships with many of her friends. So, we broke up. And I was shaken up again.

After another year of staying depressed and aloof, I came across one extremely amazing girl. She looked very decent and adorable and belonged to an amrirdhari family. Her mom ties dastar, her dad is a great man and knows a lot about gurbani and sends amazing vibes whenever you look at him. But she has had a past too and has been with 2 guys, both of them were hindus and "bihari" and i came to know from a friend who was there in her college that she has done "it" many a times with her guys and there were several pics of her floating around.

Now, By the Guru's grace, I am a Six feet tall, somewhat buffy, fair, pochviin pagg tying, amritdhari Sikh guy and I get plenty of compliments and attention from the opposite sex. I have completed 5 years of my college life at two of the most happening colleges in delhi and have had plenty of chances myself to be 'up, close and personal' with the most adored girls in my colleges. But I have made sure to not to commit any of the four 'kurehits' all these years. I consider any kind of physical intimacy as something sacred which must occur between two people who are life partners and not a mere source of pleasure which can be done with anybody. Thus, I am still a virgin. Yes, 24, male and still a virgin. And yes, I will get married sooner or later. As anybody would, I too want a Sikh girl of good morals and a high character to be my life partner, Someone who knows Sikhi values to the core, hasnt fooled around with guys and of course has her virginity intact. But seeing the current state of Sikh girls (encountering those 3 in my life, seeing Sikh girls in my college and hearing about them from my friends), Seeing all this, I have developed a negative image for girls in my mind and i do not even feel comfortable talking to them. I dont think there are many left who still stay virgin till they get married. Sometimes when sad and depressed, I feel like I should get even and feel like falling for the advances of girls around me. But when I get back to my senses I feel bad for even thinking that ways and I do not want to defy my Guru. I want a decent girl to be my life partner, bit it now seems a rare possibility. I am utterly disappointed and worried. Please help me out. I would like people who are married or in relationships and especially bibiyaan, matawan, bhainaa to please understand my problem and help me come out of it.

WJKK WJKF

hahahahhahahah :lol2: so far I thought I have grown up and raised in london so I have seen the worst sikh girls ever..................lol..but you shocked me...anyways I want to say If you are Guru Ka sikh then you don't need to be busy in KAAM and its very Clear that Today Singh is still better than Kaur .There is no doubt regarding this.

and my second view is that Why do you go after only sikh girls? you ain't losing sikhi if some non sikh girl gets married with you and embraces sikhi..I know Hypocrite and stupid sikh people make useless assumptions that non sikh girls cannot take sikhi on long term basis...In my point of view ,,today if we see around ourselves ,,,you are gonna see non sikh girls are being great kaurs instead of those sikh girls who were just born in sikh families ....

I give you my Example ...My grandfather married to Muslim Girl and she gave birth to three male children and two female children and she educated sikhi to them so nicely that I can't tell you and in the same way my hindu mum married sardar(my father) she educated us two brothers sikhi like I bet no any sikh women could do like that .

At last ......we are a mixture of Amritdhari/keshdhari people in our family . we don't even like to sit in cutsurds...Jide sir te paag nai jedha guru di beadbi kare ya kardi..oh jutti diyan nokka brabar hi a..paave lakh sohne banke jaag nu dikhado..but they can't in front of GURUS>>>>>>>>>>

naale ik gal hor...tusi bhena ,bibbiyan kolo koi jwaab na mango....hehe...unha ne thavada hi kasooor kadna va.......be a singh TRUE SINGH>>>>>>>>>>>BECAUSE ITS HAWTTTTT>>>>>>> WE guys HAVE GOT SOMETHING SPECIAL>>>>>AND WE HAVE TO MAKE IT PRECIOUS ALWAYS>>>>>>>

EVERY SINGH GETS HIS KAUR but do the KAUR????No my dear.So believe in yourself only Whaheguru is there he is gonna help you soon.best of luck

New York: Three Indian-American men have pleaded guilty to owning and managing motels where they ran illegal businesses, including selling drugs and prostitution.

Jaspal Singh, 37, Kulwinder Saroya, 42, and Lakhvir Pawar, 41, on Tuesday admitted they profited from drug-dealing they allowed in the premises of their motels Seattle, The Seattle Times reported.

According to the report, Singh and Saroya admitted they would direct their staff to collect a $10 entry fee for people who came to their motels - Travelers Choice Motel and Great Bear Motor Inn - seeking drugs or sexual services.

The US law enforcement authorities have seized more than $265,000 from their home and bank accounts and a 2007 Mercedes-Benz, the report stated citing a US attorney office statement.

Under the plea agreement, Singh and Saroya reportedly agreed to forfeit the two motels and their home.

Lakhvir Pawar, 41, manager of one of their motels, under the terms of his plea agreement, will forfeit his interest in the motel.

The case was uncovered after an undercover informant purchased cocaine in deals set up with motel residents by the motel managers.

Police said there have been incidents of rapes, assaults, drug dealing, prostitution and at least three overdose deaths in recent years in the motels.

"Since we shut these motels, the number of police calls to the immediate area has dropped by one-third," attorney Jenny Durkan said.

http://www.samachar.com/Indian-Americans-plead-guilty-to-drugdealing-nkxrK8cjcdi.html?source=recommended_news

Congrats Mr.Mehtab Singh..You spent your ten yrs...Great..waheguru ji thavanu chardh di kalla ch rakh ji...........jioooooooooooooo

Following the fashion trends does not mean one has to dress vulgarity. Anyone one who think that if they show nudity, they are being fashionable is kidding themselves. I dress every modestly and simple while using items from todays trends.

achaaa ji.........fe ta boht changi gal a..

I think the blame goes for this goes both way.

First I want to say that the boys that you are talking about are punjabi boys/men, not Sikh boys/men. You can tell the difference between the two from miles. Sikh boys will not easily talk to girl and even if they are it is on just friend basis. It the punjabi boys who go around drinking, smoking, hitting on girls.

Unfortunately, most girls are attracted to that. But there is also a distinction here. Most girl who are attracted to such boys are themselves punjabi girls not sikh girls. I am also sorry to say that at one point in my life I used to be the same. It is not the blame of anyone, but my own. I was born in India but grew up in the United States. I wanted to fit in and I knew in order to fit in with the other kids I needed to look them. My parents would never allow me to cut my hair but I shaved and waxed. I did not understand the importance of keeping my self pure. But as I grew up, I put in the effort to learn about Sikhism, I have read books, I have done research and made up my own mind my following the Sikhism path. And Now, I can't even think about shaving or waxing. I get a disgusting feeling in the pit of my stomach, like Wahaguru is watching me and is disappointed in my choices. I choose to follow the sikhi path because I want to be able to look my self in the mirror and call my self a Kaur. I am proudly say my name is Kaur and that I deserve it. It took a lot of effort to get where I am today. It is sad to see the hold modern society has on us these days, controlling what we wear and how to think. But the reason my thinking is changing is because of me, my parents didn't put their beliefs on to me. They tired like many parents, but a person has to make their own choice and many choose to become westernized.

I used to fantasize about a clean shaven guy as well. But now I know that I will never be happy if I am not with a Sikh, full turban and beard guy. Both the guys and girl need to understand what they want. There are still girl who want Sikh guys and girls who want just Punjabi guys. Know the difference and decide what you want out of your life and out of the life you build together. It is two way street, blaming just one sex is in itself being a sexist. The only person you can and are allowed to put the blame on it yourself.

Sikhi might be dying due to many become westernized but who is the blame for that. If we do not teach our self and our peers about what is important about being a Sikh then who are we to judge that others. The people - girl and boys - that we are judging might not have been taught these things. Rather than poking fun at them and judging them, follow the true Sikhi path and educate them. To be Sikhi is about learning and teaching, the guru spent all their lives trying to teach us and we should do the same. it is about teaching yourself, teaching other to be better today then you were tomorrow. We do not have to be perfect, no one is perfect but what is important is every religion and Sikhism is learning from said mistake and becoming better.

On a side note: Please note that become westernized always does not being being a bad Sikh. I keep my hair, do not shave and such but still wear trendy clothes. I follow the fashion world and dress myself according to days fashion. There is a way to be part of the today's world and society and still hold on to the values that were taught to us by our Gurus. Sikhism isn't about living in the old ways. To me Its about keeping in the core values while living in today society.

LOL...I hope if you follow the fashion world ,your trendy cloths do not show nudity or vulgarity or indecency of you.. Infact I have read sikhi is done with simplicity... :biggrin2:

Satsriakal everyone

I am a sikh boy,20 years old and I am a proud gursikh who has lately had an urge to trim my beard. I have been doing a lot of research on this but have not come across a reasonable argument. Why is it that me making a personal life decision of trimming my beard might move me away from my sikhi in the eyes of others. The reason why I would want to trim my beard is because I would feel more comfortable and neat. I proudly wear a turban and will always carry on wearing it with pride and honour.

Some of the reasons which I came across were that our Gurus kept their honour and many sikh men have given their lives to protect this honour. I completely agree with this and I understand we should never move away form the religion but slightly trimming the beard just to be more comfortable and make it look neat? is that not acceptable?

other reason was that we should respect how god has created us and should live in the natural form but then should we not factor in the advancements and change accordingly? if we live naturally only then is it not also wrong to get medical treatment? and so many other things we do in our daily life for instance even cutting out nails?

I am sorry if I have said something wrong but I would like to make it clear that sikhi is in my heart,trimming my beard will not change the sentiment one bit and I encourage you to counter what I have said as it will only help me take this decision.

thanks a lot

HAHAHAHAHA :lol2: Oh damn MAN .....you were ridiculous wait Let me ask you first Have you checked the rate of hypocrisy in your thoughts??? Hahaha anyone could die laughing you know.... Don't come with such useless questions which make you fool over here nothing else....LOSERRRRRRRR :lol2:

in my point of view sikhi and yoga are different aspects ..both these things have nothing to do with each other...yes as a sikh you can do yoga as same as like you do brush everyday and many other regular activities as you do in a day..but whoever makes any relation of sikhi with yoga or yoga with sikhi will really be a purest form of IGONORANT GUY OR GIRL

lol..what a useless question.........

stop spamming . People should check whether they have anything useful to say

Eh? Spamming? How ??Lmao okay okayy Sorryyy Shaktiman...

madam g naam ta jedha marji rakh lyo..saare sikha de naam Guru naal jodh de a.....bas dyaan eh gal da rakhyo ki thavada bachhaa oh waale naam di value bnaai rakhe..for example ..I just saw an example few days ago..A sikh girl was being mad for any guy who looks like a justin beiber and wanted to have her better half who is cutsurd..LOL..but her name was Gurpreet kaur..so plz......ae sikh world de taaza hallaat ne.....so pls mam.....thnxxx

LOL...Very true...sach kaudha...par sachaa

If you lying deliberately then definitely it is dishonest but if you did not then its okayy but yeah It could give bad impression of you in front of them in future....
A sikh is one who always learns something new in his/her life for an honest life so definitely I would say don't be meany for any kind of personal interest .Thanks.

dont know really Where we sikh people are heading for?? Hypocrisy just fucked the sikh so badly...Even These SGPC members start using their caste surnames to identify themselves from other lower sikh people..if I could I will shoot every SGPC member ,because They are being anti sikh for their personal interests...

you have two options either follow your fuc**** punjabi culture or follow your sikhi with your heart. But never be Hypocrite.. Its more important these days rather than castes if you girls see the Guys are they really sikh guys? I mean they are Sardar or not? If not? It would be just a marriage with cutsurd guy not to sikh guy .

but my question to questioner is whats the relation of that question with sikhi??...

maybe I got Bitter anyways..(cough,cough)