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  1. On 10/1/2020 at 1:43 PM, singhnihk said:

    What do you mean by ‘we men’?Though it’s totally true that you lot are responsible for everything evil we see around us, but to take an arrogant stance such as this is mind boggling! Do you even know how many families suffer due to you men behaving this way? What about the children? What have they done to deserve a broken family? You men really need to wake up and smell the coffee. You still behave like kids!

    Then stop normalising it by depicting it in movies, dramas or  media in general. This is not meant to be a normal behaviour according to sikhism!  Some people are not capable of analysing it properly, they think it’s modern to be cheating or sleeping with multiple partners, especially when they watch it in the movies or elsewhere.

    We are not responsible for all the evil that you see around you! Women are also responsible for much of this evil. Why do they allow themselves  to be exploited by men and carry out their weird fantasies? Women are also to blame. Men make movies women act out their immoral wayward and far fetched fantasies for only few dollars! On the whole men and women are both the perpetrators or executors of all evil we see around us. They are both culprits, though men more, because the world we live in has always been male dominated! 

  2. 21 hours ago, Not2Cool2Argue said:

    You seem to put women on a pedastal or believe the myth that women can only be caring and family oriented (as your homemaker comment shows).

    So consider this ur friendly charitropakhyan teaching of the day:

    If males are evolutionary handicapped by polygampus nature, females are trapped by their hypergamy nature. Because due to pregnancy and childbirth, females are mostly helpless at these times, they need to have a mate that has the resources, status and strength to protect them during these times. So they may be always looking for the next man who is more powerful, can keep them in more comfort, and in greater style. 

    Also women may also get bored of being at home, and want the thrill of having a new conquest. Some women are taught that attention and beauty is what makes them the best. You think they will put the aside for the thankless job of raising children? No, they will keep doing things to attract attention and flaunt their beauty.

    Also, statiatics show that more women initiate divorce in marriages where there was no abuse and no problems. The men are shocked when they are abandoned and the women takes their wealth and children and sets up with another man. 

    So marriage and monogamy is great. And the rules and shame against adultery and divorce were also good. It kept both men and women of a loose nature from destroying the lives of their children and their lineages.

    I will never put women on pedestal ‘cos I know what they are all about. They are a cunning and conniving lot. When they see me in the langar hall they deliberately give me less food to make me feel insecure. I mean, why single me out? I have never  done anything wrong to them! I am kind, helpful and very good looking! Why be so mean to me? They fail to realise that I might easily be married to one of their daughters! I know it’s a crazy thing to say.  I know what can get up to.  I will never go near a pregnant s*d in case she blames it on me!  Having said this, men can also be silly s*ds! They use women because they are easily manipulated, this is how they get exploited and then everyone feels sorry for them. I think they just don’t know how to look after themselves!

  3. 10 hours ago, jkvlondon said:

    well historically greek men used to take a young boy and groom him to be a lover so they could practice  homosexual love , so the link has existed in the past in the west. And I understand it often still goes that way teens are 'guided' into the life

     

    Homosexuality has always existed but it was hidden away and not seen on the surface like we do it nowadays. Normal people were not affected but now it’s everywhere and even children are taught about it at schools. Parents that don’t agree with this are not very happy about the exposure their children receive these days.

  4. 8 hours ago, GurjantGnostic said:

    Whatever women want to say to justify cheating I guess...

    Well, you know, we men are as bad as them. Men don’t only say things to justify it but also work towards it to normalise it by depicting it in movies, dramas, books and  publicising it in highly sensational manner when some famous people commit such kinds of acts behind their spouses or partners! It’s is incredibly disgusting. 

  5. 3 hours ago, GurjantGnostic said:

    And that happens for sure. It just so happens that therapists who are uniquely situated to sample the population better and understand the trend say women cheat more. They get caught less and tend to keep children in divorces. 

    Some men are pigs no doubt but men are actually quite devoted by and large and loyal if for no other reason then our survival in war depends on it. Women's survival depends on quite the opposite when their men folk lose. The brutality of kalyug does not bring out the best in people. 

    I think women will only cheat if the husband is a two-timer so to teach him a lesson. She will cheat only, if the husband’s an alcoholic and doesn’t give any shopping money for groceries or bills.  Also if he is a criminal locked up in a prison and she has had enough with waiting for him. In any case, if the wife cheats it’s only because she has no choice, whereas men do it all the time to prove their manliness to impress other men of their latest conquest.  Some men find it very hard to be loyal to one woman. They feel trapped and bored  in a marriage and they cheat. Man is said to be a typical polygamous creature by nature whereas women are not, simply because they look after their offsprings because of their utter helplessness at birth. They need to be around them whereas man doesn’t. Women are the home-makers while man is a hunter and gatherer. He doesn’t only hunt or gather wealth for food but also things for his personal pleasures for his spare time.

  6. 8 minutes ago, GurjantGnostic said:

    Therapists say women cheat more. Not that they're the only cheaters. Like I said dudes are right behind them. Let me ask you this, why do you assume women cheat less?

    Because I am always hearing this from the women where I work and even when I was at school, the kids will be missing school because they had to deal with the upheaval at home due to this. They would cry and sob about what their dads did and the fact their parents will either separate or divorce because of cheating or absent dads. They hated moving schools or places and starting new somewhere else. It was sad really. 

  7. 8 minutes ago, GurjantGnostic said:

    Yeah all those sex crimes are more men. I didn't watch the video, I have no horses in the incest commentary race. Fact is women cheat more and dudes aren't far behind.

    But why do you say women cheat more then men?  I am always hearing women complaining about their boyfriends or husbands cheating on them. I have even heard some teenagers claiming their parents divorced because their dads cheated on their moms. Even if you think women cheat more than men, then they must be doing it to take revenge from what the men have done to them for ages. Well, I might be wrong. Another thing is that the men go and get half their age girls to marry them after divorce .. especially from Philippines or Thiland.

  8. 50 minutes ago, GurjantGnostic said:

    It is shocking. It's also statistically women who cheat more with <banned word filter activated> dudes try harding for second place. 

    I had another look at the video and noticed they are still dressed and not naked.  Perhaps, they were they just cuddling each other to keep warm and nothing more. Otherwise why are they still clothed?  I bet his line of defence is going to be she came on to  him. After all, it’s still a man’s world, and they can do whatever they like and still get away with it. Men have always cheated with their wives, this is nothing new. Women just had to put up with it especially when they are financially dependent on them. Men willl always be men and always do what they are good at doing which is cheating and exploiting women. I mean, most crimes related to *e*  are committed by men because they can’t control themselves and what about grooming? Who is responsible for grooming young girls?  It’s men, isn’t it?  I am shocked to see nothing has changed, men still exploit women. 

  9. On 9/27/2020 at 11:23 PM, puzzled said:

    right under Guru Nanak Dev ji

     

    Shocking! Foolish woman and the nephew! It’s a well known fact that a man can never be faithful to any woman, let alone his wife. What about his children, what are they going to make of all this? His wife should either kick him out altogether or cheat on him for revenge!  But I doubt if she ever will, because men always get away with it. That’s why they cheat again and again. He is a right <banned word filter activated>. No wonder people don’t get married these days, because they can’t stay faithful, they like sleeping around and cheating. It’s the same trend everywhere ....... all over fhe world. Shocking people.

  10. 1 hour ago, GurjantGnostic said:

    Strengthen the bonds of brotherhood among the Sikh community and help protect and preserve its Sikh and national identity. Giving great importance to the shared British/western values we all have.

    Of the multitude of problems I have with your site, that I will joyfully converse with you about...forever...here is just one glaring problem...

    If british values...hold the laughter...were at all based on truth.. brotherhood...then you wouldn't have dismantled the Sikh Empire...or at least given Punjab back as Khalistan during partition then Sikhs..would have a nation...a national identity already. They wouldn't have been murdered by you..and been delivered into rape and genocide in two countries you created. And no...we don't all share your "british/western values". They are in fact antithetical to Sikhi..and historically the enemy not only to Sikhi but the entire world that you invaded, raped, murdered, dismantled and culturally appropriated.  You are devils and always have been. The Roop you wear now in your fake congregation is the same roop you put a kill on sight bounty on in Punjab..

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  11. On 8/17/2018 at 7:22 PM, Bundha said:

    So, one of you would like to give Duleep Singh a thuppar and the rest of you would just diss him.  Must make you feel so big as Sikhs.

     

    This was a 9 year old child who was ripped from his mothers arms, taken away from all that he loved and was isolated.

    No mother, no family, no friends, no advisors, nobody to give him any guidance. He was surrounded by evil people who manipulated him for their own means, he had nobody  to turn to. They then set him up  with a paster. He manipulated him and slowly his brain was washed. He had no choice, he was a child surrounded by those who just used him. The british let him loaf about and do his thing, renovating his house etc but kept a close eye on him and never let him meet any other Sikhs.

     

    Is this what Guru Nanak Dev Ji taught us? Did Guru Ji give Sujjan Tagh a thuppar?

     

    Rather than say, if I met him  - I would give him a huge hug, taking away the pain and suffering he endured for all those years - you would give him a thuppar!

     

    Where are your feelings as a Sikh? Your compassion, your empathy, your understanding of his situation? Is this what todays Sikhs are like ?

     

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