Sukh123

Yes, you are right....i always hear our pracharaks guiding sikh boys not to cut hair/trim beards but nobody asks the sikh girls to accept the sikh boys as it is...this is the major reason (which now i understand) why many sikh boys trimmed their beards during the college days (i m from punjab, india), and to add to this our punjabi singers have set the trend (most of the singers trim their beards) which girls like and dream their partner to be like them which even make the things difficult for boys who keep beard....

Thank you jkvlondon.....i will continue to do paths and do ardaas from my heart....you know, my parents approached few sikh girls and after seeing my pix they said, the boy has lot of beard (i m still 28 years)....they want a person with trim beard or cut-surd....then i fee hurt, and start thinking that if sikh girls are not accepting sikh boys then its a grave problem....and which sometimes make me feel the other way around...plz help me

Thank you veer ji for your response...but sometimes when you see all your friends who are not reciting gurbaani (and trim their beards) and still getting everything on time, then one feels bad and thinks why the hell are we suffering if we are doing everything as per maryada....that sometimes makes me pessimistic...

I have been looking for a suitable girl match for myself for past one year but could not find one. I heard Bhai sahib bhai Guriqbal ji's katha and found that one can get a suitable life partner by doing ardaas for 51 Shri Sukhmani Sahib ji paath. But I did 240 Shri Sukhmani Sahib ji paath in few months but still i am struggling to find a match. I am not sure what/where i am doing wrong. And since i do not see results, i sometimes get demotivated and curse myself on this, but by Guru's grace i have again started doing paths (after a little break). Could you please advise what i may be doing wrong? Thanks.