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  1. If you are bothered by too many thoughts during meditation - do not be, its ok let thoughts be, the more you fight the more they will be ...so just observe them.
    The aim of mediation is not to be thought free but to be free of the reactions that they evoke in us - like anger, worry, excitement, stress etc.
    In time you will reach a state when you carry this thought awareness throughout the day and not just during the meditation period, giving you tremendous power over your runaway mind - you will have the power to rein in a negative thought such as animosity or worry which would have previously overpowered you and caused you to act in a hateful way or be stressed.

  2. Looking for tech savvy sevadars - I want to get an app developed in ionic or react native (that works on all major platforms), that would notify every 1 hour (or another interval configured by the user) with a gurbani quote and small blurb about how to incorporate the teaching in their day to day life.  I do have the database of about 70 tuqs for now but will keep updating it regularly , the app will update its database from the central source every week or so.

    This way technology will help us stay constantly in touch with the guru and we will spend more of our breaths in a connected fashion.

  3. We have blind faith (anni shardha) in rituals such as akhand path, chavar, parikrama, sukhasan / parkash , rumala charana, nishan sahib, matha tekna, nagar kirtans , karah parshad but we have zero faith in knowledge imbibed in the book we call our Guru (which literally means 'guide').
     
    In fact deep down in our hearts we firmly believe that reading SGGS and them implementing the teachings in our day to day life will not bring any special benefit and hence we are willing to study lot of self help books but overlook the timeless wisdom contained in the guru.
     
    If you do agree then rather than merely liking this post, please start studying one or two pages with full concentration (as if you were to write an exam tomorrow) and contemplate all day long on what you read.
     
    Sabsai upar gur shabad veechar ||
  4. There are two schools of spirituality - which one do you think sikhi belong to 

    Gyaan marg vs bhakti marg

    (i) No Symbols of god - he is the universe  vs  God definitely needs a symbol

    For sikhs  it has become Saroop of sggs and the confines of gurdwara 

    (ii) No rituals are ever needed  vs Rituals are a must

    In sikhi context we have started chavar, akahand paths, jot, sukhasan , prakash , expensive palkis , keep the saroop in AC / blankets (e.g I don't keep my phone in AC which also has the same SGGS in electronic format ) 

    (iii) Meditation is the only way to find him - Pancha ka gur ek dhyan vs chanting or reciting (while mind is wandering in thorughts) or paying others to recite for you (as in outsourced akhand paths )

    (iv) No miracles - only laws of nature which do not discriminate against materialistic person or favor spiritual one vs For  your worldly needs beseech god - e.g cure diseases, pass exams , success in business etc.

    (v) No sectarianism - all humanity is absolutely one (Na ko hindu na musalmaan) vs A sect is almost always formed because our ego makes us  gel with people who follow same symbolism  as us , so now we have sikhi becoming a sect and not much of a way to live a full life and cut the cycle of rebirths.  

     

     

  5. Finished 10 days Vipasna meditation - was the most profound spiritual experience of my life - almost reborn. Vipasna is a scientific way to live joyfully and happily regardless of your worldly circumstances and make others around you happy as well while helping you overcome the endless cycle of rebirths.

    Things I learnt

    1. Nothing ever goes wrong - nothing has ever gone wrong and nothing ever will , therefore never regret your past or be in dilemma for the future - any choice you make will be the right choice . The forces of nature that run the planet are beyond human intelligence and nothing ever happens randomly. The fact that you are the doer/decision maker is an illusion which causes immense suffering to yourself and others around you.

    Hukmai andar sabko bahar hukam na koye ||

     

    2. Everything is impermanent - whatever good or bad times you are having will not last , so experience them as a witness rather than a consumer for example if you are feeling angry - say to yourself the reality of the moment is that my body is experiencing anger - watch your breath , heart rate etc .Or If you are having financial or health problems - say to yourself this will pass too , and same goes for good times , make the most of them while they are coz they would be gone too.

    Kis nal keejai dosti sab jag chalanhar ||

     

    3. Illusion of eternity - unfortunately we are conditioned to live our life as immortals - if I look back my 40 years of life seem like 40 seconds and I am not sure how many more 'seconds' are left , so why associate with this body and obsess with its future. Every new year take a moment to ponder about the last new year eve and it will seem like only yesterday.

     

    4. Hate no one - Just as you are not the doer, so are not the other people which means if someone said or did something unfair to you , that action was caused by a force that is beyond this person's control so no point holding them responsible and causing yourself hatred and anger.

    Manda kis noo aakhiye je dooja hoye

    5. Others before self - It brings way more joy to give something you cherish to someone who is in dire need than keeping it to yourself. I have decided to dedicate my life for the welfare of others. This automatically makes the 'I' in my very petty as its now just an end to a mean while before it meant the world to me.

     Mithya tan nahi parupkaari 

    6. Life obsessed with 'making it' is sure to bring misery - I am myself implicated in this as my attempts to becoming a software entrepreneur was causing me - lack of sleep , stress , excessive thinking - limit your material needs and you will find how little it takes to be happy.

    Kacha dhan sanchai murakh gavar 

    Bikhyia ka dhan sada dukh hoye | Na saath jaaye na paraapat hoye. 

    7. Spend time in nature - watch the birds fly , feel the breeze on your body this is where you came from and what you will eventually merge into - feel the perfection in the apparent randomness .  "Kudrat hai keemat nahi paaye " 

    8. Treat every day as your last - first thing when you get up in morning say to yourself with conviction this might very well be the last day of my life - I must make the most of it for myself and do something good for others .  

     

     
    ਹੋਇ ਆਮਰੋ ਗ੍ਰਿਹ ਮਹਿ ਬੈਠਾ ਕਰਣ ਕਾਰਣ ਬਿਸਰੋਹੀ ॥੨॥ होइ आमरो ग्रिह महि बैठा करण कारण बिसरोही ॥२॥Ho▫e āmro garih mėh baiṯẖā karaṇ kāraṇ bisrohī. ||2||
     
    He considers himself to be immortal; he sits in his home, and forgets the Lord, the Cause of causes. ||2||
     
     
    अनिक भाति करि मणीए साजे काचै तगि परोही ॥
    Anik bẖāṯ kar maṇī▫e sāje kācẖai ṯāg parohī
    In various ways, he fahions the beads, and strung them on a slender thread.
     
     
    तूटि जाइगो सूतु बापुरे फिरि पाछै पछुतोही ॥३॥
    Ŧūt jā▫igo sūṯ bāpure fir pācẖẖai pacẖẖuṯohī. ||3|
    The thread shall break, O wretched man, and then, you shall repent and regret. ||3||
     

     

    9. Do not argue - Almost all arguing/debating is ego fuelled wastage of your precious breaths.   You can't explain quantum physics to a Donald Trump voter. 

     

     

    Vaad vivaad kahu seo na keejai | Rasna ram rasayan peejai

    and 

     

    Parh akhar eho buhjiye | Murakhe naal na lujhiye ||

     

     

    10. Cut all electronic noise out  - facebook , tv ,  internet forums , movies ,  etc are all rasas that yield zero outcome at the end , so the sooner you get yourself out of the addiction the better 

  6. Should sikhs celebrate divaali (rechirstened as bandi chor divas)when there is no historical proof of Guru Hargobind jee acutally coming home on a day that coincides with hindu Diwaali ?
    Share your views - in my view if we have a good naam simran practise then everyday is diwali

     
     
  7. Do not ever mind the mean words which others say to you , for it is Waheguru himself who is speaking through them .

    ਆਪੇ ਸੁਣਿ ਸਭ ਵੇਖਦਾ ਪਿਆਰਾ ਮੁਖਿ ਬੋਲੇ ਆਪਿ ਮੁਹਾਹੁ ॥
    आपे सुणि सभ वेखदा पिआरा मुखि बोले आपि मुहाहु ॥ 
    Āpe suṇ sabẖ vekẖ25ab.pngḏā pi25ab.pngārā mukẖ bole āp muhāhu.

    The Beloved Himself sees and hears everything; He Himself speaks through the mouths of all beings.

  8.  
    नील वसत्र पहिरि होवहि परवाणु ॥
     
    Nīl vasṯar pahir hovėh parvāṇ.
     
    Wearing blue robes, they seek the approval of the Muslim rulers.
     
     
     
    मलेछ धानु ले पूजहि पुराणु ॥
     
    Malecẖẖ ḏẖān le pūjėh purāṇ.
     
    Accepting bread from the Muslim rulers, they still worship the Puraanas.
     
     
     
    अभाखिआ का कुठा बकरा खाणा ॥
     
    Abẖākẖi▫ā kā kuṯẖā bakrā kẖāṇā.
     
    They eat the meat of the goats, killed after the Muslim prayers are read over them,
     
     
     
    चउके उपरि किसै न जाणा ॥
     
    Cẖa▫uke upar kisai na jāṇā.
     
    but they do not allow anyone else to enter their kitchen areas.
     
     
     
    दे कै चउका कढी कार ॥
     
    Ḏe kai cẖa▫ukā kadẖī kār.
     
    They draw lines around them, plastering the ground with cow-dung.
     
     
     
    उपरि आइ बैठे कूड़िआर ॥
     
    Upar ā▫e baiṯẖe kūṛi▫ār.
     
    The false come and sit within them.
     
     
     
    मतु भिटै वे मतु भिटै ॥
     
    Maṯ bẖitai ve maṯ bẖitai.
     
    They cry out, "Do not touch our food,
     
     
     
    इहु अंनु असाडा फिटै ॥
     
    Ih ann asādā fitai.
     
    this food of ours will be polluted!
     
     
     
    तनि फिटै फेड़ करेनि ॥
     
    Ŧan fitai feṛ karen.
     
    But with their polluted bodies, they commit evil deeds.
     
     
     
    मनि जूठै चुली भरेनि ॥
     
    Man jūṯẖai cẖulī bẖaren.
     
    With filthy minds, they try to cleanse their mouths.
     
     
     
    कहु नानक सचु धिआईऐ ॥
     
    Kaho Nānak sacẖ ḏẖi▫ā▫ī▫ai.
     
    Says Nanak, meditate on the True Lord.
     
     
     
     
     
     
     
     
    सुचि होवै ता सचु पाईऐ ॥२॥
     
    Sucẖ hovai ṯā sacẖ pā▫ī▫ai. ||2||
    People like Tohra , Longowal etc were amritdharis too , who threw their hands up in air when guru needed them and encouraged young sikhs to make shahadat while they sat on the sidelines, 
    If you are pure, you will obtain the True Lord. ||2||
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