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Hello twelve year old Amritdari sikh. Did the 'babbas' not teach you the correct term for someone who has taken the Amrit? It is not known as 'amritshakt' but it is known as 'Amritdhari!' So, don't forget it! Are you sure you are telling us the truth about why you did what you did? You say you 'wanted to' but your parents said 'no' because you were not ready? Why did they allow themselves to be influenced by their friends? Are they easily influenced? Did you throw a tantrum because you 'wanted to' and then your parents gave in? Twelve year olds are known for throwing temper tantrums. You don't seem to make much sense. You wanted to take the amrit, your parents said you were not ready but then they qucikly changed their minds when their friends told them that it is 'bad to say no to your kids!' Very interesting!! Why don't you admit as a good, honest twelve year old amritdari sikh, that it was your decision to take the amrit even though your parents were against it. I know for sure, no gursikh parents will let their twelve year old take the amrit unless they are ready for it, friends or no friends!! You went ahead, and took the amrit, without finding out if it would prove too challenging for you or not.

Well, I am afraid, you cannot go back on it now. This is your life now, son! Once you become an amritdari, you remain an amritdari till the last day of your existence on this planet!! The best you can do is start taking it seriously and do your five banis daily and beg for forgivness for having such cowardly thoughts in your mind about shaving your beard. Stop worrying about your 'pretty big moustache' too. Your facial hair is part and parcel of being a male. If waheyguru ji wanted you to be a female, you would have been a girl, but you are not. So, accept it. You are a boy and boy you shall remain all your life. Besides, anyway, our parents always want boys, don't they? They are lucky, they have a son!

Your saroop is a gift given to you by waheguru ji. God made males and females. For males he wanted them to look sabat soorat. The beard, the chin hair, the moustache and the sideburns is what gives you a very unique appearance which is so masculine, attractive and appealing. So, don't worry too much about it, it is a gift from waheguru ji, be proud and grateful for what you have. Besides, you don't want to have a smooth looking face like girls, do you? No, so, don't shave. Be natural.

It is a law of nature/God for men to have hair on their faces. To shave it off is in breach of this Nature/God's law. Why would men like to imitate women and have smooth facial appearance? Why would they prefer to look feminine instead of masculine? After all, we never ever hear women expressing a desire to grow a beard or a moustache, do we? Do men think they are women? Is that why they shave their faces to look like them?

This is what the babas were suppose to tell him at the camp!! How can they be so irresponsible and not educate the kids before they they take Khandey Battey di Pahul?

Waste of breath.

Complete nuts.

Rajastan is the best place to buy your dastaars from. They last longer and the dyes are not not kacha.

Too much muscle power 'mate' but not enough brain power lol!

We can see the significance of shaastars and vidya for both males and females.

Why are you encouraging this person to write like this about the Sikh men? It is true what he says but does't need encouragement from you. Nearly, all the gorreys and gorries know this. They know brownies men like gorries and they will choose them over the own browny kurriya. It is balley balley Je apna munda gorri nal viah karre patta ainna nu Sara kuch.

All these gorreys are east europeans anyway, not ....

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Dear All,

A polite notice lets try to keep this site clean without finding the need to use vile language in sometimes the same sentences concerning our Guruji.

Many thanks.

Good initiative, I am glad someone has taken it. There are so many different expressions that can be used instead of 'vile' expressions. I can't imagine us not using them.