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  1. Please refrain from posting such meaningless and nonsensical threads here.You should be directing such questions to the bibis in your family and not discussing such an extremely private matter with complete strangers in the cyberspace.

    Moreover,please bear in mind that this is a family oriented website and the primary purpose of this foum is to discuss about Gurmat and sikhi related matters.I am disgusted to see too many sex and intimacy related threads on here.It shows where our younger generation is headed.

    vaheguru ji ka khalsa vaheguru ji ki fateh

    Please refrain from opening such topics when it is clear from the title that it refers to bibian and an 'intimate' subject. Sometimes it's not easy asking bibian in your family when they are not Amritdhari, or when you don't live near or know any bibian. Rest assured that posting on Sikhsangat about this stuff isn't the first choice option, it's usually the last resort. Secondly we're not strangers, we're your sisters. Silly.

    Moreover please bear in mind that these issues do occur to every woman on the planet and the primary objective of this forum is to discuss what the members want to discuss and if that means asking a question about bibis Rehat then so be it. It's up to the ADMIN to decide if we need a bibi's section or not but having one wouldn't stop boys entering and complaining about it.

    I am disgusted to see that you think this thread is about sex, and it just shows where people like you are headed! God forbid our little sisters grow up to be woman who deal with such nonsensical biological issues that were created by Guru Ji himself.

    :rolleyes:

    vaheguru ji ka khalsa vaheguru ji ki fateh

    AKAAAAAL! Finally some sense!

  2. okay guys.

    firstly im male. and i dont have a huge circle of friends like a lot of people. infact i think i have only two close friends.

    the thing is. that me and my friend wre quite socialable. we went out together on the weekends and i thought everything was okay.

    untill suddenly my friend has become very withdrawn. he hasnt called me in 3 months. and when i have got through to him. he just says he's depressed and that he doesnt feel like doing anything.

    everytime i call him to intiate a link up. he always refuses and uses excuses such as the weather beung to bad.

    its gotton to the point. were i dodnt think he is a friend anymore. he just seems to want to be on his own.

    which has made me quite mad. to be honest. mainyly because i dont have many other friends to socialise with. i think to be frank. i dont particulary think he's a good friend or anything like. its just that i dodnt have many firends. hence why i kinda rely on him as a link.

    but the ways he's acted this 3 months. i feel like never talking to this guy again. he's seems quite arrogant. or maybe he just doesnt like going out with me.

    in a nutshell. should i just ignore this <banned word filter activated>. or what? i dont partatularly like him anyway. he was just someone to go out with. he seems content just to stay at home all the time.

    i think that ur the 'untrue' friend, not him! why are u mad at him?do u not care for him at all?

    instead of being mad it him, i would be mad at urself for being so self-centred....in ur post....u have only mentioned how u feel...nothing which suggests concern for ur friends welfare!

  3. you say u are reading Chaubis Avtar...thats fine

    but i have a question to ask

    have u read and done santhiya of Sri Guroo Granth Sahib Ji Maharaj....can u hand on heart say that u fully understand mool mantar or japji sahib???

    none of us can unless ur a Brahmgiani....so does that mean we should do shanka on Guroo Sahib and question whether its His baanee or not?

    sorry to be so harsh

  4. You have to give credit where its due, theres not many other singers/writers in the mainstream punjabi scene who would sing about these issues.

    In the first link he even mentions singhs being given sentances without any evidence of wrong doings! ie prof bhullar, onkar singh and jagtar singh.

    Second one mentions the problems faced by farmers and the mothers who lost their families in the massacres.

    Third video about kurbania of sikhs through history - people dancing but thats punjabis for you never mind! those that worship death have no fear of death.

    he also did the hawayein stuff a few years ago.

    i think this stuff is fantastic....its good for older generations and those in punjab who listen to music--educates ppl

  5. Are there any confirmed dates for the sikhi camp this year? what is the age restriction? I would also like to to now MOST of the things they do there!

    Thanks! :)

    boss camp is just awesome

    not sure abt the dates bt u have to be 16 or over to go there....erm they do FANTASTIC DIVAANS AND KATHA AND TALKS

    and they do activities such as abseiling, water rafting etc

    U WILL LOVE IT! lol

  6. no1 is saying guru granth sahib ji maharaaj wasnt given gur gaddi. we are sayin sri guru dasam granth sahib ji is the bani of dasmeh paatshah and is also the roop of maharaaj that is why upmost respect is given at the same level as sri guru granth sahib ji.. bani guru guru hai bani...

    Since when has this literature been called "Sri Guru Dasam Granth Sahib Ji"? It used to be termed Bachitar Natak? Whats all that about?

    since when did we call Our Guroo Sahib's baani literature?

  7. Waheguru Ji Ka Khalsa Waheguru Ji Ki Fateh,

    This question was put to Taksali Kathakar Balbir Singh, he said that If you bow onli before Guru Granth Sahib Ji Maharaj then Maharaj will not strike you down for going home and touching your parents feet. The idea of bowing means that you are a owned by a master, however by touching an elders feet you are simply recognising that after all they are in some way superior to you being your father, mother, grandparent etc. You should respect all the relationships given to you by Maharaj.

    Personally it is completely up to you, some people to matha tek in front of Guru Sahibs paintings others in the door ways to Gurudwara's or Sachkand. It comes down to the level of respect you have at the end of the day none can equate to Maharaj. I agree with the last post you shouldnt in anyway do beadbi to Maharaj by showing respect for someone else in this case you can say Fateh.

    Bhul chuk maaf

    Waheguru Ji Ka Khalsa Waheguru Ji Ki Fateh.

    Bhai Balbir singh is, i repeat, A LEGEND

    anyone ever gets the chance listen to his katha

    www.gurmatveechar.com go to katha and bhai balbir singh jee

  8. whats the point in having a tattoo of a song which u say has helped u?will it help u get mukhti....has it enshrined Naam within ur heart???

    rather than getting a tattoo work on enshrining Vahiguroo's pavitar naam and baanee within ur heart-dont mean to sound harsh bhaji but thats what all of us(including me) need to do!

  9. no1 is saying guru granth sahib ji maharaaj wasnt given gur gaddi. we are sayin sri guru dasam granth sahib ji is the bani of dasmeh paatshah and is also the roop of maharaaj that is why upmost respect is given at the same level as sri guru granth sahib ji.. bani guru guru hai bani...

    so then the same respect should be given to your gutka sahib?

    so you should do praksah and sukhasan of your gutka sahib?

    if there is no difference between dasam granth and guru granth sahib what was the need for guru sahib to give gur gaddi to guru granth sahib? that made no difference according to you? the passing of gur gaddi to guru granth sahib doesmt meant nything?

    if someone does parkash of their gutka sahib with so much prem-whats wrong with that??

  10. vahiguroo u bhai sahib are a better Gursikh then me

    but i havent said that sikhs shouldnt keep sarabloh bibek or do santhiya in larreevaar...in fact in slough the naujawan who have had santhiya are writting gurbaanee in lareevaar themselves...u should come see instead of attacking people on forums cos u dont like their views

    and im pretty sure those youth having santhiya from baldeep singh are doing the same in midlands and a few of them are writing lareevaar

    so our Guroo Sahibs didnt know what they were doing did they when they made taanti saaj??

    and i fully support what Khalis said....raag isnt more important then the sabad but it is important... but i guess we all know more then our Guroos hunna....

  11. i just phoned a singh who lives near me and he said that UK AKJS do belive in Dasam Granth! Dasam Granth is an integral part of the PANTH!!!

    ive got into this discussion (which i didnt start!) with some singhs who are central in the jatha and they have said they dont believe in all parts of Sri Guroo Dasam Granth Sahib Ji

    and like khalistan_zindabad said they were handing out leaflets at khalsa primary school about dasam granth sahib jis parkash and at their camps they have said that not all of Sree Guroo Dasam Granth Sahib Ji is Guroo Gobind Singh Jee's Baani

  12. if Akaal Takht excommunicate people like kala afghana and darsan ragi then anyone else who does niniya of Dasam Patsaahs baani should be excommunicated from the panth....akjs(sorry dont mean to generalise) are always talking about panthic maryada and following Akaal Takht....yet they pick and mix....only those who support all of Dasam Bani are part of the panth-it seems thats Akaal Takhts view anyway cos they have been excommunicating Dasam Granth Sahib Ji's nindaks

    hu saying im against dasam granth im just say i agree that we shouldnt have dasam granth prakash with shri guru granth sahib maharaj

    have u people got bramh gyian from shri guru granth sahib maharaj if so then move on to dasam granth but untill u have got bramh gyian from shri guru granth sahib maharaj what is the point ?????????????

    speak to me when u see me everyone knows which guru ghar i go to come down and we will talk there and get alll view out in the open

    so Guroo Gobind Singh Jee's Baani is lower than other Guroo Sahiban Kee Baani?

  13. What next? Akhand paaths of Sarbloh Granth, Suraj Prakash Granth, Vidiya Sagar Granth

    nope mate.. just akand paaths of sri guru granth sahib ji up to the last ang of raagmala not leaving an ang out here and there, and of guru maharajis pavitar bani sri guru dasam granth sahib ji :)

    AKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKAAAAAAAAAAAAAALLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLL!

  14. As far as I am aware, Aarti Aarta will be read.

    Will Sangat and yourself be attending from Slough?

    tryna sort out a lift, few of us wana go but none of us drive,

    but maharaj jee kirpa kareh..

    also dasan dass with bad karm got a sukhamnee sahib toma 2-4, so wanna go after all the family bits r done...loll..

    lol i wanna go too!learn to drive!

  15. We should leave the past behind, and accept the present and dont worry about future because then we will be accepting the hukam. everything is under the hukam, gurbani teaches us to accept the hukam.

    Let god do justice, all of them that harm others will get their fruits of their deeds back. no one escapes the law of karma.

    why should we take the matter in our hands. i know its hard to forget whats happened, but if you dont, you will still have the hate inside you. hate wont get you nowhere, if we start to hate hindus for what they did, we are not gona get anywhere, gurbani teaches us to love all creation, and accept gods hukam.

    that way we will be at peace and will focus on GOD and our bhagti rather than what happened in past.

    forgiveness is the name of the GOD, let it be the light in your eyes and forgive everyone. when we forgive others, god forgives us as well. thats the law of nature, what we give to nature, comes back to us.

    yes that easy u for u to say bhaji/bhenji but what about those ppl who are the victims of the riots...

    those that had their daughters raped infront of them...their sons,husbands,brother,fathers have tyres put on their necks,kerosene poured over them and burnt alive....those ppl cant move on in their lives till justice is done....Guroo Gobind Singh Jee took the matter in to their hands...Bandha Singh Bahadhur took the matter in to His hands...he could have said yeah what happended to the Sahibzade is in the past....but he didnt....Baba Deep Singh Jee took the matter into their hands....

    for those that say we should forget abt 84....its easy for u...ur families havent been affected by 84....my whole family has been and i knw that my grandparents can never move on till justice is done

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