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SadhSangat Ji , I am a young ambitious girl ,dentist by profession.I got married in 2013 with an n.r.i residing in canada due to which I had to leave my job and go to canada.I have been a very studious and hard working girl.I was told that my husband is an engineer.I went to canada nd started working for my licencing exams there..just when I was about to give exam my husband bought me back to india stating he has to do business in india..now my complete 1 and half yr has been wasted.M so broken shatered hv tried every possible way to convince him to get me back for my exam..throughout my life I have never thought anything beyond study nd I have put all my energy my everything in this exam preparation.My husband felt insecure nd bought me back here where I will have to start again from zero.I have lost all my courage bcz i feel betray nd cheated and even my parents are not supporting they are saying this is it.You have to be by your husband side but i cant love him anylonger coz he has cheated me.pl guide me how to stand again.i am badly broken.all the time i have severe headaches nd I take antidepressants.I have not demanded anything from anyone.all i want is to study in a foreign university bcz i have put all my efforts for that .We are always told to think about our family first does that mean we should curb our own feelings.why a person marries a doctor just to sayisfy his ego ?if someone cannot provide us wings to fly then why he cuts our wings.Guru Nanak Dev Ji has told us that women should get their rights but why society wants women to lag behind.I feel that all my power has been snatched from me.I dont want to live a life of slavery.Pl guide me how can i bring my life back to normal.