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  1. Wjkk Wjkf SADH SANGAT JI PLEASE GUIDE ANY PARTICULAR PAATH OR SHABADS THAT ARE SUPPOSED TO BE DONE BY A PREGNANT WOMAN.THANKS
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    Learn Gurbani

    Thanks everyone for your replies. I would appreciate if everybody will start posting one Shabad with meaning each day.
  3. WJKKWJKF SADH SANGAT JI PL POST YOUR VALUABLE COMMENTS ON THIS SUBJECT.ARE WE SUPPOSE TO GO TO SOME PARTICULAR GURUDWARAS BECAUSE THEY ARE ASSOCIATED WITH SOME KINDS OF //.FOR EXAMPLE SOME PEOPLE SAY YOU SHOULD GO TO SOME PARTICULAR GURUDWARA TO GET A BABY ,OTHER TIMES SOME SAY YOU SHOULD GO TO THIS PARTICULAR GURUDWARA TO GET SOME MATERIALISTIC THING. I THINK PEOPLE SHOULD MOVE ON IT 'S HIGH TIME WE SHOULD GET ENLIGHTENED AND INSTEAD OF DOING SUCH THINGS ASK FOR COURAGE TO ACCEPT GURU DA BHANA. I DONT REMEMBER THE EXACT QUOTE BUT ONCE I READ IN A POST SAYING THAT OUR ULTIMATE GOAL SHOULD BE GOD,PARMATMA,WAHEGURU IS THERE SOMETHING WRITTEN IN GURU GRANTH SAHIB JI ABOUT VISITING SOME PARTICULAR GURUDWARAS FOR PARTICULAR FRUITS? ALSO WHAT IS THE SIGNIFICANCE OF POURING GHEE IN JOTS ? (PL FORGIVE ME FOR ASKING SILLY QUESTIONS I AM NO ONE TO JUDGE OTHER'S SENTIMENTS BUT THEN I NEED TO RESOLVE MY QUERRIES,PARTICULARLY AT THIS TIME WHEN MANY ARE DIENG OUT OF HUNGER HOW CAN WE WASTE SO MUCH OF GHEE AND OIL ETC.) AREN'T WE SUPPOSE TO GIVE EQUAL RESPECT TO ALL GURUDWARAS BECAUSE ULTIMATELY WE HAVE GURU GRANTH SAHIB JI AS OUR GURU. AND ONE MORE THING WHAT IS CHAUPAHRA AND WHAT IS IT 'S SIGNIFICANCE? IF SOMEBODY IS ASSOCIATED WITH BASIC OF SIKHI OR SOME OTHER GROUP ASSOCIATED WITH SPREADING RELIGIOUS AWARENESS I REQUEST PLEASE ORGANISE CAMPS IN PUNJAB. PLEASE FORGIVE ME IF MY THOUGHTS ARE NOT IN LINE WITH SOMEONE ELSE'S AND PLEASE POUR IN YOUR VALUABLE COMMENTS ON THESE ISSUES.
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    Really Religious Parents

    From my personal experience I want to share some thoughts. I think the root of the problem is that we can't just do anything without knowing the cause behind it.I dont know about the rest of the world but the scene in India is that parents force their children to do path and children dont find this act good enough because they dont know the whole concept of religion.So there should be religious education first.parents should introduce religion by telling the basic things about sikhi.what is Sikhi.Why we are supposed to recite Nitnem.unfortunately this is not done in most of the families. Even today when I am told to do some acts linked to religion I dont like doing those things (eg pouring ghee in jots at some Gurudwaras).the reason for me is I dont know the significance of this act and my brain refuses to do acts blindly.So in your case I would advice you to talk to your parents about it and try to have knowledge of your religion by searching on net. You can also checkout Basic of Sikhi videos on youtube.I am sure you will be benefitted.
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    Really Religious Parents

    Feel yourself lucky enough that you are blessed with caring parents.It is an oppurtunity to save yourlife else at the middle age or old age you will regret that you wasted your precious life.Trust me it s really important to practice religion at an early age cause that makes you stronger,wiser and stable otherwise you get lost in this world and the real purpose of this life you never get that.the only thing that should be of concern is practising "karmkand"in the name of religion.if that is not the case then be thankful to your parents and obey them.
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    Learn Gurbani

    WJKKWJKF Sadh Sangat Ji,please post some suggestions and links to sources for learning and understanding SHABADS from gurbani,. I feel very ashamed when sometimes I dont know the complete Shabad sung at GURUDWARA SAHIB.I personally believe we should atleast try to learn all the SHABADS because when you know the SHABADS ,you stay more focussed while listening to kirtan at GURUDWARA SAHIB. Earlier too I have tried to learn Shabads but I want to do it in a systematic manner this time.This time I want to learn ,understand and imbibe one SHABAD at one time.
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    Depression

    I think it 's the mentality that people here have.People don't have the time to listen and help .Relations don't carry the same value.People instead of helping start ignoring you.I have asked my husband many times to sit and discuss ,something is wrong and it 's effecting me badly.Instead of helping me out he complains my parents that I am giving him unnecessary stress and he just don't want any stress.
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    Depression

    How to fight depression on your own.I mean if your near and dear ones are not ready to accept that you are psychologically ill.Any video links or self help books helpfull for this ailment.?
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    How To Make A Prayer

    WJKKWJKF What is the right thing ,to accept whatever is happening as GURU'S BHANA or to make a prayer and ask for help.How to make ARDAAS for Waheguru ji's help?
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    My India Blog

    You cannot fight with the system here and the best part is you are a visitor and you will be going back so just enjoy the good things and ignore the rest,that is how we have managed to survive here. Have you visited RANGLA PUNJAB ,HAVELI jalandhar ,i would say that is the only thing worth giving a try. Also try to spend more time at GOLDEN TEMPLE ,AMRITSAR.you will feel the bliss. if you have time try to visit historical gurudwaras in HIMACHAL PRADESH specially PAONTA SAHIB,GURU GOBIND SINGH JI spent a big part of his life at this place.
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    The When I Started Then I Stopped Thread

    wow, very nice idea to kill hate BUNDHA.i am surely going to try this cause when we have bad feelings for someone it disturbs our own peace.
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    Transformation

    I will not be able to write regularly today onwards.but I will keep doing one hour JAAP not for just 30 days but beyond that.pray for me. I want to share my experience till now. doing Jaap and SIMRAN DEFINITELY HELPS.it adds to your confidence.it gives you strength.all you need to have is patience and devotion.for me it did wonders.and one thing is so very true that our thinking is too small;Waheguru's plans for us are beyond our imagination so always just remember HIM have faith. I feel i am lucky i got this phase in my life,otherwise i was so lost in worldly things I could have never searched for things and never got this forum and never learned this way of life.people on this forum are a blessing.they help you motivate you and they all are so wise so enlightened,I got a new vision to look at things.I am very grateful to everyone on this forum. At times some people criticize some posts when someone wishes to feel Waheguru,to see and feel HIS presence and when someone asks for some worldy things.Some enlightened souls say our sole motive should be beyond worldly things.I just want to say one thing everyone has his own journey.some are lucky they have got enlightened they can talk and feel about things in depth but few are beginners like me,we are at our step 1,dont expect us to understand things at higher steps. talking about myself,I think I am beginner.I cant just forget about worldly things completely at this stage.and I wish to feel WAHEGURU by myside always.At this stage I cant be totally selfless,I know it s not right.but it s a journey and i am at first step.slowly a stage will come when I will forget everything else and just do JAAP AND SIMRAN.but till that stage comes I want all you enlightened souls to motivate me so that I can move ahead on this path.
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    Transformation

    day 6: the day was very tiring still i managed to do Jaap and rest all the time i just listened to kirtan.I am unable to control myself from thinking too much about all that is happening.Finally I have decided to quit my job so that I can devote more time towards my innerself and towards Waheguru.my present job is just adding to my miseries.when you are surrounded by so many troubles u are left with no energy.sometimes I am not able to sit and do JAAP so I do it while lying . switching off phone is a good idea. I am trying to isolate myself from every other thing .let's see if that will be of any help. I am sure all my problems will end up once I will develop a true connection with GOD.
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    Transformation

    couldn't make it to day 4 and day 5 bcz of excess workload.i was already afraid of this.will try to compensate for the loss in these two days.negstivity and depression is again gripping me.
  15. lucky you are.I WISH TO EXPERIENCE THE SAME.
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