u see the problem comes here, in the laava u make certain vows. its saya that u must accept guru ji as true guru and also that u must recite gurbani i think. but if u r not a sikh then u r lying before guru granth sahib ji if u kno wat i mean. thats why in order to hav anand karaj without disrespecting guru ji u shud be a sikh? is that not correct? because ovawise u will not reciet gurubani nor will u accept guru ji as true guru.
example, if ur a christian u see jesus as ur messiah or wateva and u do not accept guru ji as true guru. yeh? so if a christian was to hav anand karaj he wud be disrespecting maharaj because he is lying wen doing laava and recieting vows. isnt this correct??
if a sikh wants to marry a non sikh then that is up to them. but wudnt having anand karaj be disrespectful to maharaj??