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sherlsurj

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  1. just coz u intend to get married dnt neccessarily mean u will . be safe and wait till after marriage. i dnt think its right at all to live with sum1 b4 u have commited properly ie- marriage. no way otherise every couple wud be living 2getha. stay with ur family and get married from ur family home.

  2. for crying out loud people are advised to go to pesh /the panj pyaareh for the smallest of thing. its hardly a major thing. when i first took amrit a few times i accidentally did the same. but im not gonan cry about it i just did ardass to god and asked for 4givness. its fine i learnt from it and im sure god 4gave me. ur gonna make mistakes ull prob make more. just coz ur amrithari dnt make u perfect.

  3. what the hell u on about????i think rather than the girls having a prob with a dastaar and dhari its u. who gives a **** is sum girls prefer a certain type of boy. u shud be concentrating on ur sikhi. loads of girls out there love singhs the problem is not with them its u grow up. just think if it werent 4 ur dhari or dastaar ud be blaming sumfion else. maybe its ur personality

  4. its an expression of happiness and a laugh yeah it is pretty foolish but id say its not doing any harm reli. yeah sure i wud love not to dance but weddings wud be boring without dancing. all i can say is dnt go OTT, or dance to inapprop music

  5. of course ur not. its not like a item of jewllery. i do mixed martial arts, and riot training as part of my work. which means i have to kit up in full riot gear and kick peoples <banned word filter activated>. my kirpan 7 inches long and has never caused me a prob. never will either. be strong god will help

  6. i think its safe to say most of us this has happened to. its happened to me i thght wow this girl is amazing liked everything about her. a few weeks later i thght she looked like a dog and hated her personality. its a phase ur going thru do simran go gudwara and remember wwhats imp in life. these lil crushes will cum and go but fam, enjoyment , god will be theer 4ever

  7. right tell her shes needs to chill. there is no rush to take amrit shes 15/16 which is very young. this is just a test to make sure she reli wants it. things often change in families u just have to pray and have faith and things will get better for her. the ore u worry the worse itl be. just tell her to keep faith in taking amrit coz itl happen for her one day....her parents will ciome round they alwyas do

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