sherlsurj

bracelet that word sums up ur whole view point. a kara is not just a bracelet. i suppose a kachera are just a pair of shorts for u aswell. a kara is a kakkar. and shud be treated as such its not just for anyone/everyone to wear but carries responsibilities and identity with it. if every1 wore 1 as they have started doing its significance wud diminish. bracelet....bloody hell man

random singhni/s1ngh. what the hell are u on about???

of course it is not ok. its a kakkar a religious symbol to be worn by sikhs. it was given to sikhs bu guru gobind singh to help them maintain self discipline. it wasnt designed for people who like to do yoga. bloody hell man. if i ever met a non sikh wearing a kara id take it off them straight away!!!

wud it be ok a random person wearing a kirpan ..........no then why is it diff its its a kara. u people need to sort urselves out

listen man im gonna be harsh only coz ive been used liek this.

grow up man. she was ashamed of u infront of her mates. shes was using u. she was sweet to u when SHE wanted to be sweet not as and when needed. and when it suited her tyo ignore u she did. she sounds very selfish. look dnt get in2 a realtionship when u still like sum1 else. u shud never treat a girl like that. but all i say is man dnt let urself in that situation again. be strong....get over it.

so because it was aired two years ago we should let it go??i have just sent an email showing my disgust think we should all do so. bbc has to learn that we will stand up for ourselves.

yeah man metal detectors. small kirpan in dastaar???

what a MOD EDIT!!!!!!hes just a scared little guy. im sure he will have an email add sumwhere im cpmplaining <banned word filter activated>

ok i have just started work took me ages to find a job but i am finally a prison officer. its a job i have been waiting around for about a year. and it perfect im so happy. only thing is i had they wont allow me to take a kirpan into prison. for obvious reasons!

its a risk to myself anf others. so i had to take it off during my induction today. after being inside i realise just how dangerous it can be. i feel awful for taking my kirpan off, i just didnt feel like me. i felt rreli reli sad. i did a lot of phaat and simran after to say sorry to god but im reli lost as 2 what to do.

my mum suggested i wear a chain with a little kirpan on it. but i dunno. what do u lot think????was is it reli reli bad i did that?and what shall i do now??

be as hoenst as poss i do feel bloody awful.

i think i have just been shut up!!!!!and thats hard to do

im wrong...thanks for letting me know in such a nice way. flrting with sister yukkkkkkkkkkkk

sunnybond84

its a warning thats all im saying. its fake yes but what to get from it is there are muslims out there who wud do anything to undermine sikh. it just shws how low sum people wud go. personally if i had a prob with sum1 id tell them straight but to mess eith girls is below the belt. but i for one calmed dwn from this stuff tat certainly wnt be happening nw. we all need to do more

it should be stopped its horrible and those leading it are not sikhs but promote eating meat/cutting hair etc

very good question every1 does it. i do it with my mates(girls) in a friendly childish way dnt know why maybe it is wrong??///

checked most of girls on that website......there r 2 muslim girls on there and the rest have been taken opf facebook made up stuff man!!!!!!!the blog been taken off i think too

why tie ur dhari thats what i dont understand????does it look neater??i dont think so all that gel and nets etc make it look like a bodge job. does it get in the way???well maybe if ur in teh army i know singhs used to tie their beards but thats fair enough it could get trapped in their military equipment and coud be dangerous!

i swear all the goreh i have cum in contact with have more respect 4 me/singhs for being loud/proud. its wicked when they ask about ur beard and say stuff liek 'ooooo its so long lol!!!!'

cum on lads be proud

the main thing here is to do whats right by the kid. i dont think this stuff is black and white. but ur daughters happiness is important too so shes the priority i believe in this situation

[hey sis/bro i was reli unhappy a while ago. reli reli bad was reli depressed i was in and out of jobs prior to this i was doing bad at uni. nothing made me happy. but things change.........if ur job doesnt make u happy get another 1!keep applying remain ambitious!ive been trying 4 a decent jobs for a couple of years now finally got 1!just dnt give up man......u dnt know whats aroundf the corner. and with me reli bad stuff have happened and my depression i sufferd b4 has helped. like anything bad that happens now i feel i can get thru it coz i thnk things cant get any worse.

have time 2 urself find out what u enjoy...go 4 walks, watch films etc. and be patient with urself. think we all take happiness 4 granted

i think ur going a bit too far. guru nanak dev ji said dancing is foolish!!he didnt go out and says its reli that wrong. yeah thats no really need in it but i dont think its as bad as ur making out. i can think of a lot more things that are worse. i dont agree with dancing at balls/proms whatever u call them. but i occasionally dance at family wedding with my sisters/cousins etc. but not to stupid songs about alcohol etc.

well have been forcing me to tie my beard for job interview

forcing??so they pin u down and tie ur beard for u do they???as for companies not emplying u coz u have got a beard u think if u tie it up they are gonna think diff of u???ur silly man. ur just insecure about who u r. u shud let ur experience, education and talent do the talking for u!

yeah thast right its just teh girls!!!???!!

wake up man. teh boys r just as bad. yeah u dnt see/hear about them coz everyone gets clouded out by looking at the girls actions 1st. both just as bad!its a youth thing rather than a male/female thing. it wnt help u cumin on here coz if i was a girl and read this id be hurt by it. go out there if ur so concerned and make a diff talk to the girls that make u so upset, listen be a bro. but not for one min am i gonna say this is just a prob with girls. i know sum guys that do the worst stuff imaginable

as for the girls/boys that do this stuff try and help and if u cant let them ruin there lives.!!!!!theyll learn the hard way. every1 gettng worse and its kaljug simple as that. no1 has a heart these days they go around hurting people and not caring. even their own parents. but karma is very powerful remember that

Sat sri akal,

However much I try to stop it, I always give in to lust. I always feel guilty afterwards.

How can I stop my mind from wanting this and get rid of the demons?

mod edit: due to adult related content

exercise!!do 25 pressups when u have bad thghts itl burn any bad hormones u have. works 4 me

im amrithari and i dnt have anyones joots. teh reason being dnt know what they eat/drink/who they share joot with even immediate family!!!

i think there is nothing wrong with it. but i dnt think u shud dance dirty lol, girls dnt wear sumfin skimpy and dance./boys dnt get the bottles of alcohol out and dance with them, dnt dance to stupid songs etc.

im amrithari and i dance....why???coz im happy its an expression. but dnt too much otherwise u look like a fool.

Waheguru Ji Ka Khalsa Waheguru Ji Ki Fateh

I have been using almond oil in my beard for a while, and sometimes baby oil. I have noticed that all my shirts now have oil stains under the neck area, under where my beard would be. These are permanent stains. I use the oil in the shower: After taking a shower, i rub some oil in my wet beard, and then i give it a quick rinse (to make it less oily). Doses anyone else have this problem, or possible solutions for it? Thanks

bloody hell man hw much do u use????Lol. u must put loads on 4 it to do that. i use baby oil just to keep in smooth but it never stains my shirts lol. cut dwn son!!u gonna use all the worlds almond oil supply

what did u do????i mean to get sent down

I feel very sad for u, u dout really understand the pain a parent, bother or sister in a sikh family has to go through, if loved one run away without sharing any feeling SAD SAD very SAD.

very good point!my sis has just ran away!and its ripped my mums heart apart!shel never 4get it. ive been in fights since coz im so angry and my sister is all over the place. if u wanna be selfish and run away do so but remember 1 thing ull be lonely. im never gonna accept my sister back 4 the things she has said. shel end up having no mum sister bro(me) cousins nephews house. shel end up a lonely person. we r going thru this all now. and i just cnt undertsand how sum1 u look after give everything 2 can just think one day im done we using these people im out of here.

run away...ull end up being in a council house a very sad lonely person. if not worse! and ull ask urself 1 day in future was it reli worth it???worth losing ur fam, self respect jobs etc.

f the girls/boys that can put there family thru this!u cant love ne1 apart from urself. good luck if u do it u will need it

i cant keep a job either i dnt get sacked but i get so depressed and bored and end up just walking out. i just cant be doing with working and being depressed too much. id rather stay out of that system. happiness is more imp.