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  1. I'm your age so ill try give my take.

    Silly question but does the singh question know about this?

    Personally I say either get your parents involved by telling them about this singh as without them knowing nothing can really happen. Or forget about the singh (that's if he himself isn't aware that you think his your ideal match).

  2. It still looks like its not real to me. No je sorry I don't know anyone in manchester but I googled the company bm3 limited this time and it just screaming "scam" out at me. Even though "companycheck.co.uk" contains the information you provided I'd still not place the order if I was you je. Better to be safe than sorry right?

  3. It looks like his a con-man or something of the like.

    Google B3 limited and this is what you'll get:

    "B3 Limited

    35 St Pauls Square

    Birmingham

    B3 1QX

    B3 Limited - Registered in England & Wales - Number: 06706241

    Registered Office: 4 Station Court, Girton Road, Cannock, Staffordshire, WS11 0EJ"

    That address shown in google is not of manchester and more importantly the number doesn't match the company number you've been provided with.

    In short the guy doesn't seem legit so I'd say don't proceed with his offer as its likely you won't get the product.

  4. I would suggest raising this issue with the family in question but make sure you have resources present that back what you say and also approach the matter with them with pyare & not anger etc. Explain to them why what they have planned is wrong etc do it in a calm and approachable manner. If they don't listen then get gurdwara committee involved and alerted about the situation. It might be that the family aren't aware that they are doing wrong (as daft it sounds). If these methods fail only then get others involved as it could just be a matter of the family not been educated enough to know this is wrong etc. But at all times if you talk to them keep calm&talk pyare naal. Best of luck je. Ps: what I have suggested is only how I would personally approach such matter so mafi if I have said anything wrong. Guru kirpa.

  5. To topic opener I'd say start talking to mahraji about your feelings and what's causing you to feel depressed etc. Mahraji themselves are the only healers but learn to see sukh and dukh as one. Mahraji doesn't give us pain etc its just about how we see things. Everything that happens to us is sukh really if you get the drift. No baba is going cure anything. Try talking out when your alone about what's in your mind because even though you'll be "alone" mahraji will be there listening to you. Best of luck.

  6. just wanted to share something with sangat: even though the shooter was american its amazing to see how some white americans have shared our pain. I personally had a white american approach me at an airport in USA few days after the shooting, who apologised for our loss and said it shouldn't have ever happened. Just goes to show that our pain has/is been felt by other communities to.

  7. Does anyone know why there wasn't live coverage regarding what sadly happened this morning?

    I read somewhere that the shooter was once in the US army. Think was on sikh24 news site (I could be wrong).

    Feels so heartbreaking..even those of us in england should do programs/ardasa for the chalidkala of the panth and for us to be able to tackle this sort of attack.

  8. If your taking amrith at guru har rai gurdwara sahib & have more Qs or aren't satisfied with these replies go gurdwara sahib before amrithsanchar& talk to giani gurmeet singh. Hell give you in depth answers& is part of the panj pyare for guru har rai gurdwara amrithsanchars.

  9. Ill try answer your questions to the best I can.

    1) Removing any hair from your body is a no no. See it like this; you wouldn't damage a gift your parents gave you so why damage such a beautiful gift that guru je has given you? Yes its hard in todays society but stop and think about those who have lost their hair due to medical conditions; imagine how happy they would be to have hair. So the answer in short is no laser is not acceptable.

    2) Yes your head must be covered at all times as God is everywhere. To eventually wear dastar why not start off with a bandanna? That's what I did then slowly keski then slowly dastar? That way your not rushing and you have time to adjust as sometimes it can be difficult as your head is not used to been covered all the time.

    3) If you feel this guy is the one get your parents involved (from both sides) and get engaged. A lot of youngsters get engaged between 18-21 then marry 1-2yrs later. In short relationships are a no go area. Guru je tells us see all those who are younger than you as your siblings and those who are older (say your parents age for example) as your parents (if you get the gist).

    4) As for make up personally I say no as why cover up the beauty guru je has given you? (Iv never tried make up) but as its relating to your confidence due to your skin condition maybe ask panj pyare for guidance/better advice?

    5) Correct (my personal opinion) but if you search the forum on that you'll see peoples view vary on this issue.

    As you have some doubts (from your questions) maybe consider talking to some older gursikhs first? Best of luck

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