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WJKK WJKF,

I am stucked in tough situation. please help me what should i do.

I know that we should never ask for anything form Guru Sahib and we should stay in Guru Shaib Hukum.

But i am not able to apply that thing. There were few things which i always wanted in my life. I kept praying for long time but that didn't happened. People may say that that was for my good or whatever. but i am feeling very much depressed because i have been praying for that for about 10 years. I did what ever i could have done but that didn't happened.

There were 3 things which were most imporatant in my life of which two have failed.

Now problem is my mind is saying that third one will also fail because of other two have failed. I know that may be my bad karamas that i didn't get what i wanted but even though there are bad karamas stopping me from getting something but Guru sahib can revert those as well. But even 10 eyars of praying didn't do the trick and even those things were not that difficult to get if see my friends/relatives.

Now my mind says that there is no need for praying as id anything is my karma i will get it and if not then even pray can't get that. because that way heart is less broken otherwise if we trust that Guru shaib will do thing for us and in the end result is not in our favor then i feel more broken.

But i am not saying that we should stop doing Nitnem or Gurbani but just that don't expect that Guru sahib will fulfil any particular wish. But deep inside mind says that Guru shaib can do anything, so expectacy again appears.

what should i do???

I know that some people will say that if i don't get thing X then but got thing B then thing B will be good for me. But i want toask one thing that can't Guru sahib make thing X good for me if thats not the case earlier.

Please guide me how should i go in life

where is that Gurudwara sahib?/

Is there any Gurudwara sahib in punjab where there is saroop of sri Dasam Granth Sahib??

I feel afraid of applying bandaid at applying on any injury because after 2 days some hair also gets removed with the gum of bandaid . Is that considered as kurehet

I usually wear a sort of small dumala all the time . I want to know that can i wear different color like dark green , sky blue , dark red color to match with shirts etc or i can only wear black and blue only

i need chips at background shop

Why dyu wanna ban him whats he done wrong ?

Because in all most important threads we waste many posts on decoding what he really means and original motive of the thread is lost in some useless posts

i think we should BAN the IP addresses of the ISP used by innergear

WJKK WJKF

I am going to Hazoor Sahib next week. I am going there for first time.

From my past experinence i have seen during the first time visit to any place we often miss few things , do few things wrong way etc.

So can anyone can guide me what are the things i should take into consideration like

1. What time to wake up and do what?

2. Some type of sewa to do there

3. Meeting someone there??

4. Any travel recommendations

5. Things i should take with me so that i won't have any problems staying there

6. First thing to do when reach there and etc

WJKK WJKF

Due to Guru Shaib Kirpa my wife is pregnant and i have heard in katha that my wife should recite as much gurbani so that child will be good gursikh. I have also heard in one katha that it is during the 5-6 month that aatma enters in the child body and at that time more simran should be done.

Are there any more tips which should be done by my wife for having better kid

Are there any ebooks in punjabi language where there are some desi nuske for common health problems.

There are many available on hard copy but i want some pdf

i wonder why anyone didn't mention "himkire" . That guy is really really great and in depth knowledge of sikhi. He really has understood Gurbani and Gursikhi from what SGGSJ wanted to convey. Although its difficult to comprehend his posts . I have printed many of his posts and i have to read again and again to understand him. I wish if i could meet him personally

AFAIK =» As Far As I Know

AFK =» Away From Keyboard

ASAP =» As Soon As Possible

BAS =» Big A$$ Smile

BBL =» Be Back Later

BBN =» Bye Bye Now

BBS =» Be Back Soon

BEG =» Big Evil Grin

BF =» Boyfriend

BIBO =» Beer In, Beer Out

BRB =» Be Right Back

BTW =» By The Way

BWL =» Bursting With Laughter

C&G =» Chuckle and Grin

CICO =» Coffee In, Coffee Out

CID =» Crying In Disgrace

CNP =» Continued (in my) Next Post

CP =» Chat Post(a chat message)

CRBT =» Crying Real Big Tears

CSG =» Chuckle Snicker Grin

CYA =» See You (Seeya)

CYAL8R =» See You Later (Seeyalata)

DLTBBB =» Don't Let The Bed Bugs Bite

EG =» Evil Grin

EMSG =» Email Message

FC =» Fingers Crossed

FTBOMH =» From The Bottom Of My Heart

FYI =» For Your Information

FWIW =» For What It's Worth

GAL =» Get A Life

GF =» Girlfriend

GFN =» Gone For Now

GMBA =» Giggling My Butt Off

GMTA =» Great Minds Think Alike

GTSY =» Glad To See You

H&K =» Hug and Kiss

HABU =» Have A Better 'Un

HAGN =» Have A Good Night

HAGU =» Have A Good 'Un

HHIS =» Hanging Head in Shame

HUB =» Head Up Butt

IAE =» In Any Event

IC =» I See

IGP =» I Gotta Pee

IMNSHO =» In My Not So Humble Opinion

IMO =» In My Opinion

IMCO =» In My Considered Opinion

IMHO =» In My Humble Opinion

IOW =» In Other Words

IRL =» In Real Life

IWALU =» I Will Always Love You

JMO =» Just My Opinion

JTLYK =» Just To Let You Know

KIT =» Keep In Touch

KOC =» Kiss On Cheek

KOL =» Kiss On Lips

L8R =» Later

L8R G8R =» Later 'Gater

LHM =» Lord Help Me

LHO =» Laughing Head Off

LHU =» Lord Help Us

LMAO =» Laughing My A$$ Off

LMSO =» Laughing My Socks Off

LOL =» Laugh Out Loud

LSHMBB =» Laughing So Hard My Belly is Bouncing

LSHMBH =» Laughing So Hard My Belly Hurts

LSHTTARDML =» Laughing So Hard The Tears Are Running Down My Leg

LTNS =» Long Time No See

LTS =» Laughing To Self

LUWAMH =» Love You With All My Heart

LY =» Love Ya

MTF =» More To Follow

NRN =» No Reply Necessary

NADT =» Not A Darn Thing

OIC =» Oh, I See

OL =» Old Lady (significant other)

OM =» Old Man (significant other)

OTOH =» On The Other Hand

OTTOMH =» Off The Top of My Head

PDS =» Please Don't Shoot

PITA =» Pain In The A$$

PM =» Private Message

PMFJI =» Pardon Me For Jumping In

PMP =» Peed My Pants

POAHF =» Put On A Happy Face

QSL =» Reply

QSO =» Conversation

QT =» Cutie

ROFL =» Rolling On Floor Laughing

ROFLAPMP =» ROFL And Peeing My Pants

ROFLMAO =» ROFL My A$$ Off

ROFLMAOAY =» ROFLMAO At You

ROFLMAOWTIME =» ROFLMAO With Tears In My Eyes

ROFLUTSROFL =» Unable to Speak

RTFM =» Read The F****** Manual!

SETE =» Smiling Ear To Ear

SHID =» Slaps Head In Disgust

SNERT =» Snot-Nosed Egotistical Rude Teenager

SO =» Significant Other

SOT =» Short Of Time

SOTMG =» Short Of Time Must Go

SWAK =» Sealed With A Kiss

SWAS =» Scientific Wild A$$ Guess

SWL =» Screaming with Laughter

SYS =» See You Soon

TA =» Thanks Again

TGIF =» Thank God It's Friday

TCOY =» Take Care Of Yourself

TILII =» Tell It Like It Is

TNT =» Till Next Time

TOY =» Thinking Of You

TTFN =» Ta Ta For Now

TTYL =» Talk To You Later

WAS =» Wild A$$ Guess

WB =» Welcome Back

WTH =» What/Who The Heck (or sub an 'F' for the 'H')

YBS =» You'll Be Sorry

YG =» Young Gentleman

YL =» Young Lady

YM =» Young Man

Thanks veer ji , I am confused about keski , what should i do with it

I want to do keshi ishnaan in sarovar and do Chaupai Shaib paath at Darbar Shaib. how should i do it.

WJKK WJKF

I really could not understood diff types of karams

I thought God does not take birth.

http://www.sikhiwiki.org/index.php/Ajoonee

The Shabad Guru, (the true Guru, which all the Human Sikh Guru's bowed down to) is God.

It's the world-God paradigm that is explored in many religions.

Yes you are right God does not take Birth.

Mahapurush told us that When Guru Nanak Dev Ji / Guru Gobind Singh ji took birth then their birth was normal like any human being. Its After taking birth that in Split Second GOD's Jyot entered their body. Its all about Jyot not Human Body.

@JSinghnZ

I think you are still not getting the point what everyone is trying to make. Get out the defination of GOD .

You have to realize it. What you are trying to say is like a computer is trying to understand from definations and explanations from internet and gets confused with words/explanation , although from sikhism ,

Why are u treating GOD as single Human being operating all. He is formless but he can take many form.

Even he is inside eveyone. "Man tu jot saroop hai , apna mool pachan".

We are not saying that there are many GODs just like Hindu Mythology says there 33 crorr devi/devtas.

The GOD is one only. IT means his Jyot is one only and that Jyot pervades everywhere.

Bhagat Naamdev ji was seeing that Jyot in Dog an was offering him roti. So what you will say to him.

We can't make you understand you have to realize that.

Even we all are GOD in itself. Its only that we have been covered with maya like kam krodth lobh moh. Once we clear eveything , like Brahamgyani , then there will be no diff between we and GOD. "Nanak Brahamgyani aap parmeshwar".

Just like we mix the glass of water in ocean then we can't differentiate where is that water which we mix. we can't separate it. Same thing happens when mixes with GOD .Like our Guru sahib they one and same. Can't be separated.

IN Nirgun Saroop Jyot is one with no form. But in sargun saroop they are our Guru sahib

so what you think a Gursikh should do so that we can't treat Guru ji as GOD. Any recommendations??

I am not saying that lines are different but its way we interpret the meaning of "HUM".

It can be what i said but it can be what you say but with vyakhya its never 100% what Guru sahib wanted to say.

Only Brahamgyani can give 100% correct answer what Guru Sahib really meant by that.

One Pankti in Gurbani can have have as many many meanings depending upon Awastha so you can never say one explanantion is correct and other is wrong.

Also it can be more clear from Punjabi Grammar literature teacheras they know better the use of words. I have confirmed this. If you are thinking that from your intelligence then check again but if some maapurush has told you that then i may be wrong

I think in the Bachitra Natak the pankti is

"Jo hau ko parmeshwar uchre narak kunt mein pariho"

I have heard the katha of this from some mahaprusuh and they say that "HAU" mean himself.

If you read whole bachitra Natak and the Panktis before that Guru ji was saying that every messnger of God who came to earth started telling himself as GOD. So this Pankti means that

"WHoever treat himself as GOD will go to HELL"

Becasue in the next Pankti Guru sahib says

"Mo ko daas prabhu ka jano"

SI it means if Guru ji were talking about himself then they could have used

"Jo mo ko parmeshwar ..."

I may be wrong but looks like this way. Because whatever Guru Sahib has said is true and we know that everyone treats them as GOD even all Gursikhs so it doesn't mean that they are going to Hell. Even at Guru Sahib times, their beloved Gurskihs like bhai nand Lal ji always treat them as GOD and i have never heard in any sakhi where Guru ji warned them of Going to Hell if they do so

WJKK WJKF

Saadh Sangat ji please help me with this.

I have heard that Guru Nank Dev ji meditated 36Yug for Waheguru Mantra. So it means that they were there before taking birth as Guru nanak Dev ji.

Does our other 9 Guru jis had any previous janam katha.

In Bachitra Natak as well i have heard that Guru Teg Bahadur were doing Bhagti as Rishi in previous Janam when God sent Guru Gobind Singh ji as Dusht Daman. Someone can through light on this.

So Looks like they had previous Janams before coming to Earth.

or is it that all our Guru Jis were in some form did great bhagti and then they merged with god but they had identity before.

How you can very precisely say about 5 sants and china. Do u know any of those sants

Demons and Yumdoots are completely different . Though their appearances can be somewhat smilar. Yumdoots are simply responsible for taking the soul from the body to Dharam raja.

Whenever the time of man on earth finishes , then it is the responsibility of yumdoots to take his soul to dharam raja so that He can decide if where person should go either swarg/ narak/ or any other juni. On the other hand ,Demons or Ghosts or pret etc are a type of juni . Person who has done very bad karamas and do some tantra ,mantra for bad purposes usually go in this juni for thousands of years

But for true Gursikhs , who are in complete Rehat , never go to Dharam Raja. Yumdoots can't touch them. When Gurskih dies they go to Guru sahib and then Guru Shaib sends them to whichever place is aprropriate

I think he may have seen yumdoots coming