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Dukh Nivaran

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  1. wjkk wjkf!

    The debate could be completely avoided by respecting their beliefs, and not telling them to eat in the first place.

    xD I was in so much of a hurry I write it wrong! The thing is they go around telling peeps to try fasting for one day and after that start whining lol. It's stupid yeh I know but I wanna know why we don't believe in fasting and Ramadan...

  2. WJKK, WJKF!

    Well, these muslims in my school, who are now fasting, are always whining during the day that they are hungry. So of course I say why don't you eat then. Then this argument arises over why I should fast (lol) and they tell me to try it for one day. Fasting and the concept of Ramadan is condemned in our religion, but they won't believe why. Please reply.

    WJKK, WJKF!

  3. Congrats, it looks great :D

    One tip that if you want to make it a bit more firm than that start off with one diagonal wrap over one ear and then another diagonal over the other ear to make a kind of triangle shape, then go round and round. This way it will stay really strong. But its wikid as it is, keep repping it :TH:

    lol thanks

  4. ok, for anyone who wears a dastaar to school let me just say, YOU ARE AWESOME! :D

    i see all these guys in patkas with beards and it makes me feel weird.

    but i LOVE to see school aged sikhs in dastaars. it makes me so happy... one of the kids in my gurdwara who always wears a little "rumal" thing over his joodha (i don't know what it's called, like a handkerchief tied around the joodha, like little tiny kids wear) he showed up in a full pagh last week and i was so happy! i was telling his parents that he should wear it every day!

    so full props to all the singhs and singhnia who wear dastaars to school. you guys are the best!

    LOL! Yeh for some reason so many kids at our school have showed up in a dastaar! The patka looks kinda of weird on older boys heads! Some tie their joora at the back and put their patka over it. I hate that!

  5. how old are u singho?

    12 jee

    chota veer, don't get me wrong, but did you receive amrit yet? the only reason i ask, is that if you look a certain way (bana- or in the case of girls, even a dastaar), people will assume that you're amritdhari, and possibly make other assumptions about you and your level of responsibility, devotion, etc.

    so i'm not saying don't do it, but just be ready for people to treat you differently.

    when i started wearing a dastaar (6 months before amrit), everyone was like, "oh, you took amrit" and started treating me completely differently. it was kind of weird that the way we look can make such a huge difference in the way we are treated!

    anyway, i admire your enthusiasm for sikh at that age! i pray that it only grows from here. :)

    Lol nope. Not Amritdhari yet. Only a few people in my family are Amirtdhari. As far as I know we have a nihung in our family, but, apart from him, it's just mainly like distant relatives who are old and amritdhari. I also wore a dataar to school this past week and people seem to respect me much more. Except for a mona and a Singh who always despise me :glare: .

  6. I was talking to my dad about getting a chola and he was totally cool with it. But my mother is always shouting saying "You're to young" and "Where are you gonna go wearing a chola." People always tell me, and are right in saying so, bani before bana. I am really getting into Bani. I do paath when ever possible but I feel to express my self fully as a Sikh I need my bana. I like to think Sikhi as a bird, a bird needs both wings equally balanced to fly right? Both wings are bani and bana. If you take one away obviously you ain't gonna fly, or in case of Sikhi not to your full extent. I need help convincing my mum. BUT HOW!? :gg:

  7. Finally someone wo feels my pain! My mum dont let me either. My dads ok with it but my mums always like Youre to small and junk like that. Ive learnt to kinda overcome and i always tie my dumalla in front of her. She sometimes tells me to take it off but she's getting used to it. Sometime soon, I shall wear it always!! :hi5

  8. Well I've been wearing a dastaar to school for the past week, I cut the material and all and in my opinion looked really great! Even the Bhai at the Gurdwara and a few Singh passer byers thought it looked good as well. But for some reason this Singh who's whole family is Gursikh, seems to always target me saying 'Your pagg gets crapper after every second' I don't know what his problem is, it's most likely jealousy and judging by his normal antics, he can't stand anyone else as Sikh as him. What should I say to him?

  9. WJKK

    WJKF!

    Satnam Waheguru, My parents keep arguing and my Dad evenn threatened to leave the house. It's getting out of control and I am very afraid. I try Jap Namm and do paath and sometimes Ardas and even now, they are arguing, I am just so sad and angry. I even go Gurdwara everyday.

    Please help me!

  10. I dont do nothing to any turbans but wash them.

    I never cut or ruin my turbans integrity or solidity.

    Just fold it up and wrap, instructions of how to cut to me sounds silly :) but what ever floats your boat {[:-)>

    If you can wrestle and have it not come off or get clothes-lined at turban level and it doesnt lose a bit of tightness on your head then it doesnt matter how you prep it. If you can get hit in the head with a sword and have a sharp sword just bounce off then its gewd enuff.

    Just dont wash a new turban in hot water, the bright color will fade quicker :)

    Shall i fold it up like a normal turban? O and ye since you dont cut it, how are your larrs so smooth?

  11. WJKK, WJKF!

    I recieved mal mal material from my uncle in punjab, and am lookin to wear it a lot often, then i do now. But Its about 25cm wide and needs to be thinner, shall i cut it, or leave it. Please tell me!

    WJKK, WJKF

  12. Why so many posts :p

    If you live in Toronto you can get it big size picture in frame $50 from Golden Groceries

    well i dont live in toronto :jamdoot

    i have 1 4 sale if u wantt if ur from uk

    Why so many posts :p

    If you live in Toronto you can get it big size picture in frame $50 from Golden Groceries

    well i dont live in toronto :jamdoot

    i have 1 4 sale if u wantt if ur from uk

    how much?

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