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wow, you're so dumb :| theres a difference between love and attachment and love isn't attachmentt

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Waheguru Jee Kaa Khalsa, Waheguru Jee Kee Fateh!! Mehtab Singh probably answered all your questions, but if theres anything else you want to know, let me know because i went through a similar situation All the best! Waheguru Jee Kaa Khalsa, Waheguru Jee Kee Fatehh =)

woww, your such a cooll person i really like your personalityy and positive attitude!

Heeey! would you be able to post the notations to this shabad http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ruLEQO4QJkg (Bhai Gurcharan Singh Rasia - Bahut Janam Bichhre Te Madho)

thats WEIRD! :|

sikh girls don't date in sikhism, every guy is either your father, brother or son. SO unless you would date your brother, it doesn't make sense to be dating anyone...

Waheguru! you're cool =) and i like this post.

Waheguru! you're cool =) and i like this post.

One guy did that, so he personally is stupid for that not all Amritdharis. I say Gurfateh to everyone nonAmritdhari or Amritdhari, to me they think since they arent Amritdhari they think Sat Sri Akal is good enough, to me it is an insult to say Sat Sri Akal because GurFateh is what a Sikh should say regardless of Amritchauk or not etc. I think monaey just dont like saying the word KHALSA maybe it makes them feel insecure about their Sikhi???? Ive seen ignorant people on all sides, remember you must keep Gurmat vibe to be a true Amritdhari, meaning no bad attitudes etc or your just as bad as anyone else with a bad attitude. I dont eat from nonAMritdharis because they think I think Im better than them because I made a commitment to Guru Sahib. They seem to want to break peoples Amrit by throwing in mas or their bad vibes into the food. My wife and I got into an arguement the other day about a minor infraction she did and after I yelled at her she said for me to not make her food until she says ok because she didnt want to eat food made by me even with a vibe out of the NAAM context(and we are both Amritdhari). I thought it was fair and said ok you are right. So if an AMritdhari has a bad vibe we shouldnt eat from them either, so it doesnt just apply to nonAmritdharis. People love to pull out the "you think your better" card which in most cases is the other way around, I see people think they are better because they found a way to think they dont need Amrit and just love God to understand Sikhi which completely bypasses Guru Gobind Singhs Khanda di Pahul and in this think if they put up a wall of ignorance then they have battled that guilt from their mind and actually fight against the very reason why Guru Sahib made the Sikh take a vow or be on your own with spirituality. ^ Agree with everything, good points

That was very unneccessary my friend, you can calm your language.

Waheguru Jee Kaa Khalsa, Waheguru Jee Kee fateh Jee! Uhmm, i just wanted to let you know, that what happened was not a big deal :| gursikhs are not suppose to react that way Just calm down, and say waheguru =)

That wasn't neccessary...

Waheguru Jee Kaa Khalsa, Waheguru Jee Kee Fatehh! I know exactly how you feeel, beacuse the day after i took Amrith, i ate chocolate that said it 'may contain eggs" & i realized after i ate it I criedd so much, because i was so scared, since it was my 1st day after the amrit sanchaar, and i felt so careless but i talked to someone older who i trust a lot, and told him the situation and he said it's not that big of a deal. I know its wrong to eat meat or eggs, but if it happens by an accident 'or if its something like 'may contain eggs' or its an animal part in a product, its not a big deal This is really small compared to all the other things that happen in our day-to-day livess so you knoow what, i'd say - don't worry about it =) i know others might disagree with me, but i`m just telling you from my experiences with other ppl. As long as you know you didn't really mean too & Guru Sahib knows, its okaay =) Waheguru Jee Kaa Khalsa, Waheguru Jee Kee Fateh Jee!

Waheguru! nice comment!

thank you for that link, is was really great to listen what he explains. the thing is: i have read most replies and you all make sense to me, really. you are right, when you say that i must trust god. but then again, what is with all the people around me: some really believe in god, most of them are christians(does not really matter which denomination one has, since we all believe in the same god) and the all do have sex with there boyfriends. are they all sinners?! i hope i do not offend anyone with this reply, it is just what i going on in my mind, thank you all very much, bye Waheguru Ji Ka Khalsa, Waheguru Ji Ki Fateh ! waheguru, waheguru, waheguru I go to a catholic school, and so i learn a lot about catholics and christians and to answer your questions, your friends who have sex with their boyfriends are sinners because in the 7 commandments (which you can search up on google) Jesus has said, commanded "You shall not committ adultery" Waheguru! - i hope you find the answers to your questions & may Waheguru himself lead you to the right path

This Shabad is by Guru Arjan Dev Ji in Salok Sehshritee on Pannaa 1357 mMqRM rwm rwm nwmM D´wnµ srbqR pUrnh ] ma(n)thra(n) raam raam naama(n) dhhyaana(n) sarabathr pooraneh || Through the Mantra of the Name of the Lord, Raam, Raam, one meditates on the All-pervading Lord. g´wnµ sm duK suKM jugiq inrml inrvYrxh ] gyaana(n) sam dhukh sukha(n) jugath niramal niravairaneh || Those who have the wisdom to look alike upon pleasure and pain, live the immaculate lifestyle, free of vengeance. dXwlµ srbqR jIAw pMc doK ibvrijqh ] dhayaala(n) sarabathr jeeaa pa(n)ch dhokh bivarajitheh || They are kind to all beings; they have overpowered the five thieves. Bojnµ gopwl kIrqnµ Alp mwXw jl kml rhqh ] bhojana(n) gopaal keerathana(n) alap maayaa jal kamal rehatheh || They take the Kirtan of the Lord's Praise as their food; they remain untouched by Maya, like the lotus in the water. aupdysM sm imqR sqRh BgvMq Bgiq BwvnI ] oupadhaesa(n) sam mithr sathreh bhagava(n)th bhagath bhaavanee || They share the Teachings with friend and enemy alike; they love the devotional worship of God. pr inMdw nh sRoiq sRvxM Awpu iq´wig sgl ryxukh ] par ni(n)dhaa neh sroth sravana(n) aap thiyaag sagal raenukeh || They do not listen to slander; renouncing self-conceit, they become the dust of all. Kt lK´x pUrnµ purKh nwnk nwm swD sÍjnh ]40] khatt lakhyan poorana(n) purakheh naanak naam saadhh svajaneh ||40|| Whoever has these six qualities, O Nanak, is called a Holy friend. ||40|| Waheguru Je Ka Khalsa, Waheguru Je Kee Fateh! We can't decide who's a Santh, only Guru sahib can decide that -so unless you see the above 6 qualities in someone you can't just call them a Santh & I believe that Guru sahib is our only Santh Waheguru Je Ka Khalsa, Waheguru Je Kee Fateh!