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There is Amrit Sanchar in Tracy Gurudwara Sahib Today.

Gurdwara Sahib Dashmesh Darbar Tracy

Address: 11770 W. Clover Road, Tracy, CA 95304

More info can be obtained by calling 209-587-4864.

I believe the amrit sanchar will start may be around 4 or 5 pm today, but do call this number for detailed info.

Waheguru Jee Ka Khalsa, Waheguru Jee Kee Fateh

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Waaheguru Jee Kaa KHalsa, Waaheguru Jee Kee Fateh..

Can anybody post if and when baba jee`s barsi will be in california. Thanks

Great Post Sukhdeep Singh Jee..

very informing and enlightening.

I would like to get some opinions on the situation I am in, I have been in a relationship for 3 years, we are both sikh and our families are happy for us to get married even though we are not the same caste. the issue I have is that he is the only son, and his father died. therefore, the responsibility of his mother, bibi and two sisters falls to him.

i know i will probably come across as an awful person, but after we are married i do not want to live with his family, i don't mind if we live round the corner, or even two doors away, but i want to have my own house. maybe i am too modern or westernised, but he says that after his sisters are married and his mother is alone, he will want her to come and live with us.

I always dreamed of having my own house and bringing up our children how i wanted. Don't get me wrong, i get on with his family very well, and I am sure i would be at his mothers house all the time, its just that i would like my own house.

i feel awful for even thinking these things, but i just don't know what to do. maybe it is because my mother who is also alone is very independent and strong, and does everything for herself, whereas his mother doesnt want to live alone.

we are at the point now where we are very close to breaking up. i do not want to lose him, he is a wonderful man, kind and ambitious, i feel honoured to have met such an amazing person.

the thing is that, the qualities which made me fall in love with him in the first plac, such as knowing he is a family person so would make a great husband and father, are the things we are arguing over now.

i am sure many people will read this and say i am a horrible person, or i am too westernised for not following normal sikh culture, but i feel a huge conflict over doing this, and what i want personally.

i have mainly white friends who can't understand the situation at all, so i was just wondering what my fellow brothers and sisters opinions were? sorry this has been so long, but i would appreciate any advice, as we are both so confused and unhappy at the moment.

Bhenji I hate to be so blunt but if you expect to have a good relationship by neglecting your inlaws who are your parents then Good Luck because it wont happen.

Bhai Gurdas ji who is the key to understanding Gurbani mentions

http://www.sikhitoth...p?ShabadID=5666

and mentions

http://www.sikhitoth...p?ShabadID=6370

DO you want to be such a bride as the above shabad mentoins.

Also Bhai Gurdas Ji states

mW ipau prhir suxY vydu Bydu n jwxY kQw khwxI]

maa(n) pio parehar sunai vaedh bhaedh n jaanai kathhaa kehaanee||

Renouncing the parents, the listener of Vedas cannot understand their mystery.

mW ipau prhir krY qpu vxKMif Bulw iPrY ibbwxI]

maa(n) pio parehar karai thap vanakha(n)dd bhulaa firai bibaanee||

Repudiating the parents, meditation in the forest is similar to the wanderings at deserted places.

mW ipau prhir krY pUju dyvI dyv n syv kmwxI]

maa(n) pio parehar karai pooj dhaevee dhaev n saev kamaanee||

The service and worship to the Gods and Goddesses are useless if one has renounced his parents.

mW ipau prhir nHwvxw ATsiT qIrQ GuMmx vwxI]

maa(n) pio parehar nhaavanaa at(h)asat(h) theerathh ghu(n)man vaanee||

Without service to the parents, bath at the sixty-eight pilgrimage centres is nothing but gyrating in a whirlpool.

mW ipau prhir krY dwn byeImwn AigAwn prwxI]

maa(n) pio parehar karai dhaan baeeemaan agiaan paraanee||

The person who having deserted his parents performs charities, is corrupt and ignorant.

mW ipau prhir vrq kir mir mir jMmY Brim BulwxI]

maa(n) pio parehar varath kar mar mar ja(n)mai bharam bhulaanee||

He who repudiating the parents undertakes fasts, goes on to wander in the cycle of births and deaths.

guru prmysru swru n jwxI ]13]

gur paramaesar saar n jaanee ||13||

That man (in fact) has not understood the essence of Guru and God.(13)

There is a rehatnams by BHai Desa Singh Ji who had darshan of Sri Guru Gobind Singh Ji. he mentions that anybody who disrespcts their parents will lose all godly knowledge. Without Godly knowledge there is no hope for Mukhti( liberation). By neglecting your future mother in law you are not only bringing a great burden upon yourself you will be bringing a great burden upon the man you claim you love. I have my ups and downs with my parents since we have different beliefs and customs but I think it would be unfair to neglect them since they raised me up. Its part of our lekht ( karma) for parents us to raise and care for us as children and in return we care and support them when they get older. Why would you want your mother in law to live by herself and be apart from her son. That would be depressing. I have worked with people who live by themselves and they are very unhealthy mentally, physically and spiritually. It is a Husbands duty to love his wife everyday, it a wifs duty to serve her Husband if she ever wants peace. This may just seem like traditional roles to you but in fact this is about spirituality. Guru Ji mentions man and wife are two bodies but one light for this light to merge the roles must be accepted and practiced with upmost faith.

Guru Ji mentions

ssurY pyeIAY kMq kI kMqu AgMmu AQwhu ]

sasurai paeeeai ka(n)th kee ka(n)th aga(n)m athhaahu ||

In her father-in-law's home hereafter, and in her parents' home in this world, she belongs to her Husband Lord. Her Husband is inaccessible and unfathomable.

nwnk DMnu suohwgxI jo Bwvih vyprvwh ]2]

naanak dhha(n)n suohaaganee jo bhaavehi vaeparavaah ||2||

O Nanak, she is the happy soul-bride, who is pleasing to her carefree, independent Lord. ||2||

If and when there is Sant Gaini Kartar Singh Jee`s, Sant Baba Thakur Singh Jee, Sant Baba Jirnal Singh jee`s, and or even Sant Baba Gurbachan Singh jee`s Barsi in California possibly at Tracy, or Manteca gurudwara sahib please post. Thanks

Will the Amrit Sanchar be taking place on Sat 22nd Aug?

yes 10am

Pritham Singh Veer jee, the second track is much more clearer and it sounds very nice. Dont listen to sukhi veer jee, he doesnt what he is saying.. :6 :D ..

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