guptkuri

Today you are asking for the ban of the burkha, tomorrow they will ask for the ban of the Kirpan. They will use the same logical and similar statistics.

Live and let live.

I'm sorry darling but we are not all as blessed as yourself. We never said we are really into sikhi and really religious. But at least we are keeping our hair. When we don't, people like you (not neccessarliy you) complain.

We're all at different levels. Yes, meeting a partner to settle down with at this point in my life is very important to me.

And how does discussing the problems associated with keeping a turban and beard equate with being more worried about marriage than sikhi? If anything, it shows we are deeply concerned with sikhi i.e. turban and beard and the future of it.

I would prefer that people that aren't into sikhi not keep their hair and wear a turban. Personally I think wearing a turban and keeping hair comes with a great responsibility, that you can't let Guru Gobind Singh Ji down because he gave it to us. So if you aren't serious about your responsibility, then you shouldn't have it. But end of the day it is your choice.

Yes, we are all at different levels. I have been waiting for years for my parents to find me someone, so i can settle down. lol, but alas they don't think i am at that level yet.

As for you meeting a partner, if I ever meet someone like you, I would say no because to me you would look like someone that is confused. Someone that looks like one thing but is another. I would prefer someone that has a clear understanding about what they want and not give off the vibes they are confused because that tells me, me and my future kids with this person will also have an identity crisis.

also, pick a side. A person that rides with a foot in each boat, often sinks.

you are not concerned about Sikhi or you wouldn't say your not that into it. You keep turban and beard for yourself, not for others. So don't act like your doing anyone any favor or showing concern. Concern for Sikhi is when you live your life the way Guru Gobind Singh Ji told us to live it and die if necessary doing the right thing.

I don't want to get married either I want to be a YOGI or sadhu that meditates on waheguru 24/7. But I'm far from it but will get there through kirpa hopefully with couple of years. Peeps do u know of any good jungles to go and meditate in especially in uk or India lol?

Veer Ji, I never understood one thing about you. Are Guru's never encouraged us to be yogis or sadhus but yet you bring it up alot. you know it is easy to go into jungle and do tapsa but it is hard to live in this world and do tapsa. See if you ever come back from your jungle, this world is going to effect you again and your tapsa will not as fruitful, as if you lived in the world and did tapsa and rised above it all.

I am a very big moorak and i am still learning about Sikhi, so if I am wrong please correct me.

it won't let me watch it. says service not available in my area.

I live in america and sorry to say I have no pity for majority of the homeless here. I work in a convenience store and everyday I see these people that qualify as homeless, poor and etc come in and abuse food stamps. These people don't try to find jobs, they waste food stamps on junk food and whatever cash they have goes toward beer, cigs and drugs.

It might not everyone that is like that but all that I have meet are like that.

I personally would never marry a singh that is so insecure that he is more worried about marriage then his sikhi. I rather not marry. lol that said, I will be marrying whomever my parents pick for me, I would prefer not to even meet him before marriage. I trust my parents and waheguru.

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I used them to say they were lucky to fight for Guru JI. Just like women are lucky to give birth to those Saheeds. how can we be unlucky?

yes there are lots of bad stuff happening to women but men have their own issues. so i don't see why ones karmas are worse then another.

maybe are karmas are better because we are able to have kids? Maybe mens karmas are worse that they aren't strong enough to have kids? get my point.

oh also if you read Gurbani, all of us referred to as women and Waheguru Ji as a man. (or atleast that is what I understood, I am very dumb so if i am wrong in my understanding please forgive me) So if we are the same, how are my karmas any different than yours?

I think we are the same and it is up to us how we use our karmas. There are great men and women out there that are able to meet waheguru quickly and aat same time there are people like me that struggle. So we should not create this misunderstandings in the minds that one is better of then another, Waheguru loves us all.

waheguru

ummm, your confused buddy. We girls have better Karma's then men if you want to look it at that way. It is our Good Karmas that give us the power to deal with everything you mentioned, that make us strong. If didn't have our Good Karmas we would never be able to deal with life and everything we go through. Look at any of our Saheeds, are you saying they had bad karams that is why they couldn't live peacful quiet lives? Girls don't have bad karmas, no matter how you put it.

50 Jaaps

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200 jaaps

pj veer ji, please change the bug thing.....The monkey suits you more.

* hehe, ok will do that sometime! btw jaaps added jeo *

52 jaaps

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