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Sachkhand darshan is only available in punjabi at present.

Forever Balihaar to the sevadaars of BSRS trust for making Bhai Sahib's books available to sangat.

Go to Bsrstrust.org. Under literature go to punjabi e-books.

Sadhee Jeeb Naa Rajeea Kar Bhog Bilase||

why kill an animal for the satisfaction of our tongue. the only satisfaction for our tongue should be Naam.

Baba Iqbal Singh Jee always said to me when I was little to continiously doo mool mantar jaap just as "SunSIngh" veer stated. Just try concentrate on that mool mantar jaap and concentration comes subsequently.

man daz sum nx level stuff - rippin hedz n drinkin blud...apart from chattin 2 d randumz on ere u tried chattin bout yo thoguhtz 2 one yo luv'd 1'z? cuz listen bruv man share yo problemz wiv family yeh specially yo dad or mom is lyk ish dnt seems so bad u get me?

but truss man iz a faze u aint got nuthin 2 wury bout - do 'Tuthee Va Na Lagee' shabad b4 goin sleep n in mornin - holdz ur mind down u know wat am sayin - n man do sum boxin n dat get out dat anga truss man u wont b all dat vexed afta

gud luck tho man

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English works the best my friend (without the excess amount of z's and awkward spelling.

On-topic: Like posted above, the only thing that helps us is bani. Do ardaas for positive thought, take amrit, and listen to katha about pyaar.

Don't want to seem rude but I'll just bluntly say it.

This is a gurmat website where bani, guru sahiban, and gurmat is discussed. There are several websites where you would get a more better answer like medical forums etc.. So why are you posting threads seeking answers on a forum that is irrelevant to your problems?

"its happening in other countries like uh like uh,,"

classic

Can someone post this shabad in gurmukhi with a translation?

http://www.keertan.org/keertan/RARE%20LIVE%20Recordings/Bhai%20Balbir%20Singh%20Jee/Bhai%20Balbir%20Singh%20Jee%20%28Bir%20Ras%20-%20Tadar%20Dani%20Dani%20Tadar%20Dom%20Tirna%29.mp3

Like father like son, eh?

And you truly believe that the Lord wouldn't put them in a position such as this to have his Gyan spread, seeing as it's kalyug and all. There is hukam in everything, there is a reason for everything, if the two were to look within and see that the hukam was for them to take this opportunity to do gods seva and educate their families on nirvair and exalt Truth would that not be amazing?

and when they found out they where going around having premarital sex think about ow much of an impact it would be to their parents. think about the mentality of punjabi parents. not trying to be rude but punjabi parents arent easily educated. for instance in their situation, how are you to educate families about sikhi when you comitted a bujjar kurehat.

not trying to criticize but this is how most people react when you try to "educate" them.

Only thing i can say is: Naam Japlo, Bani Parlo, and do Ardaas that this lust doesnt effect you and look deeeeeep inside of yourself to see if this guy is really worth it.

Maybe they're trying to tell you to wake up and do your nitnem.

firstly thanks for your reply.

sorry i dont know the meaning of bujjar kurehit.

no im not a amritdhari im a rehat dhari and where a patka.

his mom is amritdhari & he isnt yet amritdhari. he is rehat dhari like me.

A Bujjar Kurehat is the 5 sins in sikhi in which a sikh should never commit. Adultery is the one that the people were refering to.

The 5 Bujjar Kurehatan are:

-Adultery

-Consuming alcohol

-Kesan Dey Beadbi, disrespect to our hair (inevitably meaning cutting it, and in the eyes of more stricter rehitvaan sikhs doing anything disrespectful to you hair cutting, getting highlights, dying, etc..)

-Consuming meat

-Taking intoxicants

Bul Chuk Maaf

^^^Choosing your parents is putting them before god. If your parents cannot accept on the grounds of caste then they are not on gods side (the side of Truth which is Him.)

Every single thing that happens to us has a reason. There is no such thing as coincidence, he watches us always. It seems he wants you to speak the truth now, educating confused and prejudiced souls is the least you can do as seva now after engaging in relations before marriage.

hows it going against god? please care to elaborate...

the fact that they commited a bujjar kurehat of having sex kindof makes it a pretty bad predicament and it kind of makes it in a situation where you have to get marries. i just dont understand how you can accidently do something like that. and if your amritdhari that makes it even worse..

krvqu Blw n krvt qyrI ]

karavath bhalaa n karavatt thaeree ||

I would rather be cut apart by a saw, than have You turn Your back on me.

not trying to be rude but, im assuming your amritdhari (correct me if im wrong). but if you are, then you pretty much turned your back to guru sahib. first and foremost you and your friend should get go infront of the panj pyara and take peshi.

we learn from our mistakes but you need to understand that maybe you should listen to you parents because maybe theyre not only saying it for caste but maybe because they dont trust the guy or something.. you never want to argue with your parents. what are we without our parents? they raised us. most of the time they lead us to sikhi. they teach us manners and how to live. we will always be in debt to them so we should always respect our parents. if you know for sure that they are saying no because of his caste, then sit down and talk. dont be too convinced that this guy is great. he may seem great now but you never know how ppl change.

bul chuk maf

i think we call it kirtan sohila when you are doing anatam sanskar. otherwise in our nitnem we say "sohila sahib".

correct me if im wrong.

waheguru jee ka khalsa waheguru jee kee fateh,

what is raag guldasta? i've read that its a mixture of various different raags but which ones exactly. also, are there times when your not allowed to sing in raag guldasta. i ask that bc isnt true that raag basant and raag malaar can only be read at certain times of the yr.

waheguru jee ka khalsa waheguru jee kee fateh