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Plz feel free to do more search on Mangal Dhillon, as there are more parts and videos in punjabi as well

sorry to hear...do ardas to get your brain free of him...

wahegur, mehar kar, ang sang shai reh, sir te apna hath rakh, sangat nu bal bakhsh ena naal larhan da ye ena nu summatt bakhsh

They've merged with the Lord in pure bliss. They are above these petty and meagre arguments.

that is LMAO now

Telling a woman to try harder to make her abusive husband change is the most idiotic and dangerous advice you could give. It is becuase of the advice of people like yourself that so many women and families have irreversibly ruined their lives.YOU are perpetuating a harmful and deluded belief system.

Maharaj can change anything if they so wish, obviously. But they do not wish for us to sit still and take beatings whilst praying that they might one day stop. A Kaur is sovereign, courageous, and loved by her Father - she has every right to stand up and leave any abusive situation. What would Guru Sahib, or the real Singhs, have said and done? I think they would have instantly gone to sort this douche out but, at the very least, they'd have kept their daughter/ sister safe. And here you are today, telling her to put up with <banned word filter activated> in case things change.

Think. Your words have consequences, even on a forum.

This is coming not from a "15 year old" "paapu poster", but a paapu who's unfortunately had experience in the matter.

To add, what if a baby comes to the picture. Who would be responsible for his/her future? Decision is entirely yours. Guru ji had said, give your opponent 3 chances and then it's time to get armed and fight back.

or you can do "parchi" thing, get 2 parchis - divorce or settlement, do ardas and get it picked up by a kid in gurdwara, choose this to do only if you have courage to follow the decision made by Guru sahib. This thing is real and many spiritual beings do this to get out of doubtful situations or seek Guru sahib's advice.

Bhagti is needed, of course in everything, but Sikh is a warrior too.

Gud luck

Hi all thankyou so much for the replies.

I have contacted various people at different times and they all pretty much say leave him, which is very hard not only emotionally but logistically now. My mother knows what he is like somewhat but as long as he's paying the bills she thinks I should be doing more and more to keep him satisfied . Others I have told have heard his tales first and don't reply to me anymore. I just don't have strength to leave without any support - I know I should though. Even the other week he grabbed my throat and told me (again) if he didn't risk deportation by leaving that he would leave me. I can't just pack my things and leave - I have no where to go and it would just have a massive affect on everything.

So don't you think he would leave you once he's got permanent status? This is the big question to ask yourself. If he's like this now, what do you expect afterwards? I think he's just waiting to get "pakka"

I don't know how the immigration thing works in UK, here in Canada, you can send a letter to immigration telling your story and they know what's happening in your case and can hold on to the status of the person involved. Police records, doctor's medical should be their to support you when it comes to immigration or if something unexpected happens.

Stay strong, do ardas. If possible gather courage and report to police for physical abuse. And you should keep your family doctor aware of whats happening with you emotionally and physically. I know it's realy hard, but what are you going to do if he leaves you after getting pakka, as he says.

@ topic no

Only panj pyare in Guru sahib's hajoori can do this service.

not yet, but it might come out when bhai sahib have enough material for it

@ topic, it simply means that you don't love sikhi, instead worry about the outer beauty. If one love sikhi, these things don't bother or such thought don't occur.

try this for a week before taking amrit, cover your head with keski, don't remove any hair, do nitnem and after a week, look at yourself in the mirror. I can assure you that you will find yourself more beautiful than any fake beauty on earth.

its because of 9/11 attacks, that sikh community in Canada and America is looked down upon. They think Sikhs are same as Muslims, based on the looks. There's lot of parchaar going on, but it depends if people will comment without having any knowledge of the topic or based on any one bad incident they ever witnessed.

Downloads - Nitnem and katha keertan -

http://www.gurdwarananaksar.com/english/media_e.html

nanaksar_events_pjb_2015.pdf

nanaksar_events_eng_2015.pdf

you should try making yourself strong from inside by reading sakhis or inspiring sikhi books(if you cant concentrate on path or simran)...check out the books/sakhi section here on site......the more you think about this issue, the worst you would get.................the life has much more to offer you........do ardaas.....

^^^ I am afraid not...

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Give her the novel "Satwant Kaur" - by Bhai Veer Singh ji

^^ yes certainly

Surinder Singh from Talking Punjab with the coperation of group of sikhs has got all these interviews and whole story( in his voice) from 1947 to 1984 in MP3 (2 Parts)called "Mard-E-Mujahid". I was lucky enough to get one at Nagar Keertan,,

I want to put it here, but the size being too big, unable to do......if somebody could help me out...I really want to do that......it needs to be spread in our community and if possible translated in other languages....

^^^ lol I am not old......

that's what I am saying that if you are old, doesn't mean that you will be wise.....but I have actually encountered these situations, where old people under the impression that they are wise because they are old, ruining the lives of youngsters, which is sad.....

waheguru g apni kirpa bnayi rakhan tuhade te,,,,,,,,,,,

Nice.

Wearing the clothes of old age automatically qualifies you for respect.

Nice comfortable existance.

Sounds good to me.

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truth about giani zail from starting and Indira gandhi from 9.26, but it's worth listening further to know about the involvement of Pakistan, America, Russia, Britain with India on Sant Ji

Sant Longowal's letter to Indira Gandhi's s " secratary Dhawam, "Dhawan saab, Bhindrawala bas ch nahi aa reha, hun oh kaarwayi karni zaroori a, jo Badal saab tuhanu keh gaye c", next sentance by longowal "jadon fauj ethe enter hoi, lagda bai bhindrawala bhaj jayega, te ode saathi vi bhaj jaange"