Jonny101

All I say is Muhammed had long hair (it is written he had long curly hair and a beard) Krishna had long hair, Jesus Christ had long hair, Buddha had long hair. Hair is important, it is the will of the Almighty. Samson had long hair, and when his wife tricked him and cut off his lock he lost his super strength. It is said God has long hair too, also the Bible says ''We are all created in Gods image'' so why then do we want to change this? All are within his Hukam.

I love this post of yours. In fact, this can be the best answer to anyone who asks a Sikhs "why don't you cut your hair?"

Best post by Samosa Singh Jee. But in regards to your views on marriage I would say it is different from person to person. For some it may not be a great thing to do and may even regret it, but for some it was the best thing to have happened. Some guys get the ideal wives but some may not describe it so. So it is different from person to person.

This book should also be in Punjabi

I wish there were more than 100 million Sikhs in the world. But realistically there are only about 30 million Sikhs worldwide. SGPC or some other Sikh organizations can do a lot of increase Sikh population. The sikligar and banjara populations of India can be easily brought into the Khalsa fold. They are already believers in the Gurus. Only thing left is, we need to do effort to bring them into the brotherhood of the Khalsa. The Dalits can also be easily brought into the fold. Just wish our Sikh organisations would do some real effort in doing solid parchar.

My clueless friend, plenty of Sikh girls only look for gursikh men.

I'm not your friend and you can keep your name calling to yourself. Plenty of Sikh girls maybe looking or Sikh men, but not everyone has sangat of Gursikhs or families that have girls available that want Keshadhari Sikh men for marriage.

Why didn't he go for the Sikh girls who are specifically asking for a gursikh boy in their matrimonial ad?

The reason is because he wanted to keep his kesh, but all the marriage proposals were asking for clean shaven. So he made it a point to marry such a girl who was asking for a clean shaven man for marriage so he can show that girl that he is no different as a husband whether he was a Sardar or clean shaven.

Really? And here I thought they were the most educated and qualified ones. Go figure...

You figured it wrong. They are largely a hopeless case in connection to their dislike for Keshadari Sikhs not in terms of education.

Admin jeo, remember when I said certain people are only on our forum to make mischief? LOL

Yes, admin should take note of such people

cough.. cough.... SinghSabha

I completely understand where you're coming from. Sikh girls are probably one of the main reasons why Sikh boys/men cut their hair. When I was in high school, I remember all my friends cutting their hairs mainly because of girls. Then if that wasn't enough they would encourage each other to cut hair as if it is the cool thing to do. I myself was under so much peer pressure to cut my hair from my so called friends, but thanks to Guru jee's kirpa I was spared this disgraceful act. Strangely my Hindu and Muslim friends never had a problem with me keeping my kesh. In fact, a Muslim friend of mine used to always tell me never to cut my hair like the other Sikh boys did. While Sikh girls don't like keshadhari Sikhs. I had seen sardar Sikhs who had no problem attracting attention from Hindu and Muslim girls.

I had a mona friend recently. He wanted to keep his kesh, but was scared that if he kept his kesh he would not be able to find a so called "Sikh" girl to marry him. So he made a plan to keep his kesh after marriage. He married a so called Sikh girl who specifically asked for a clean shaven Sikh boy in her matrimonial ad. He married her late last year and three months later kept his kesh. He says his wife has no problem with his decision.

Another case of another friend of mine. His elder brother who was a tall, athletic and highly educated was rejected by a girl who said she will only marry him if he is clean shaven. She ended up marrying a mona who is a truck driver, drinker and is not exactly a good looking guy either. This id iot "Sikh" girl rejected a good looking sardar who was tall and athletic and highly educated for the complete opposite.

Sikh girls in the west are mostly a hopeless case. I would suggest any veer here to go to India and marry a traditional Punjabi Sikh woman. They are great wives and will be great mothers to your children.

The way Guru Jee's sroops were thrown in a well and alcohol was thrown on it indicates that the criminals who did this were in a drunken state when they committed this crime. Judging from that video, the way the villagers are hiding the criminals is proof that the criminals behind this crime are their own close relatives and they don't want them to be punished as they know the Sikhs are extremely angry right now.

Looks like a lot of mistranslations are going around to make the Vedas appear in bad light.

I need help breaking the hold she has...she does have a control over my mind and actions as im just not the same person as i was as my friends have clearly highlighted to me! I would never go looking for this <banned word filter activated> but she dresses in white with a massive dastaar on her head and acts so innocent, that she must be drawing many in

Anyone have any contact with anyone who may be able to advise how this trance and brainwash hold can be broken?

hope someone can help

Is she with the 3ho?

Aah, the myth of Ragi Darshan Lal being a very "learned" man. First please tell us, how is a man who only passed tenth grade and has never seen the gates of a college or university having a "professor" title with his name? He is just a metric pass and fake professor. Being a good speaker does not equate to being a learned man. His only qualification is that he is a Ragi, that it. He is no scholar.

Sangat Ji

I recently met a gursikh who invited me for a Pastlife regression therapy session with her.

Is this against gurmat?

What is Past life regression?

Has she got control over my actions and thoughts now?

How do i break the hold over me as i feel possessed?

Please help me guys...im not the same anymore...

Thanks

You say its been closed....where am i su[pposed to open it then?

Past life regression is accessing past life memories through hypnosis. I don't think hypnosis is against Gurmat. It's not like you are doing any of the 4 Kurahits or doing some non Sikh religious ritual. Did she already do a PLR session with you?

Do they have a website? Perhaps some Singhs in the west can create a site for them. While most of the Panth is currently sleeping while so much anti Sikh activity is going on, the Ajnala Taksal are doing some very good work in the Panth right now. They are very active Panthic issues.

there are 2 things sikhs cant tolerate most... 1 beadbi of guru granth sahib ji maharaj 2 dishonour of women

1st one I agree with Sikhs don't tolerate. But the 2 dishonour of women is something Sikhs have been tolerating for a long time in the form of female infanticide. Killing of Sikh girl babys is the silent Sikh ghalugara which is probably even bigger and bloody than all the other Sikh Ghalugaras in history put togather. While the other Ghalugaras were done by nonSikhs, but the silent Ghalugara of Sikh female babies is being done by Sikhs themselves!

Sorry for going off topic.

You will only get what is written in your fate, you will have to except that. It is going to be good some days and bad some days. You will both have to adjust.If it is a bad relationship than it is your karma, if it is good then it is your karma. Whatever you have sown you have to reap, you can't escape, doesn't matter what you do. Just face it as it is.

Ultimately what you say is true. But just leave everything to fate does not mean we should not do our own homework. In India since long ago, doing search about a potential spouse in India is the oldest and test proven method that mostly works and it mostly prevents one from getting ripped off. It's not just NRIs who should search, even (syaanay)people in India when want to find a potential match for their son/daughter they will do a background search about the potential match and even the family. A friend of mine for example was told of a Rishtaa in India. So his parents went to India and did a background check about the girl. It was later found out that the girl was a #1 loafer girl who had a boy friend and even one of her sisters had run away with another boy. As expected that rishtaa was rejected by my friend's parents. Later my friend married a very cultured traditional girl from Batinda.

I am sure before these jathas were created, the dals never practised such weird rituals! That video was shcoking and scxared me a little. Is the same singh who sometimes wears orange bana on sikhi channels?

By Dals you mean Nihangs?

Seeing their videos, they wear Bana, a lot of their women wear Dastars. They promote Japping Naam, amritvela and promote study of Gurmat(they even created a university for that purpose). They are not against Dasam Granth. They just do Simran a little weirdly(seeing that video). But every Jatha out there has one or two points that are weird. But why do we ignore the rest of the things that are good about them and only focus on the the 1 weird point? I'm not a part of their group just to be clear neither do I have any contact any member of their Jatha.

Punjabi people are thirsty for spirituality. Why do you think so many Sikhs are turning towards Radhaswamis? Now if Tarmala Jee is doing parchar and bringing people within the Sikh fold and help quenching their spiritual thirst within the Sikh fold what is wrong with that? I would rather see these Punjabi people going towards Tarmala group or other Sikh groups then to nonSikh groups like Radhawamis.

Wjkk Wjkfateh

A Singh from UK is moving to Hungary in the next few weeks to study there for 4 years. He's asked me to try find out whether/where the sangat is based in Hungary...

If anyone has any contact info for Hungary sangat members, could you please reply back/drop me an inbox or email me.

That would be great help!

Thanks

Wjkk wjkfateh.

Hardly any Punjabis there. I doubt there is a Gurdwara. Maybe the 3ho people might have a sangat there. Why would he move from a country like the UK which has the greatest educational institutes to study in a country like Hungary? Hungary is probably on the same level as India.

.

Next time you're on the phone with her steer the conversation each time towards sikhi. Talk about how important and blissfull it was for both of you to get married in front of Guru Granth sahib ji. Gauge her opinion on the issue. See how much importance she puts on that. See if she puts as much importance to it as you do. If she's very matter of fact about it she probably doesn't value it as much as you do. Thus.....she's more likely to walk away from it without a thought. Talk about how some girls have come from Punjab and are so immoral that they then left with their boyfriends after a while. See what her reaction is.

West London Singh Jee, if she is a bad girl then it is likely that she is also a good actor. If she is a fraud bride and If superduper jee asks her some hypothetical question it is very likely that she will play the role of the 'good girl' and say what he wants to hear from her.

From my own experience from the relative I mentioned earlier in this thread who ran away from her American NRI husband. Once a case happened in Canada where another fraud bride who happens to know us ran away from her husband only to bring her boyfriend and marry him, my relative (the fraud bride married to American NRI) expressed her disgust at that other fraud bride as if she herself was a moral woman. But a year later she did the same thing. BTW, both these fraud brides happened to be city girls.

These fraud brides will never even let you suspect what their ulterior motives are. they are very chalaak. Superduper Jee, still has a window of opportunity to find out as she has not arrived. He and his family should secretly start investigating the bride and her family.

The things is, we didn't go into a massive investigation.

Is there anyway you can work out what their motivies are, are there any signs or signals that I should be looking out for.

If you havn't done the investigation yet, what is stopping you from still doing it? It's not like she has arrived in the UK. Send one of your parents or ask your parents to send a trusted relative or friend to investigate to find out about the girl and her family. It's still not too late.

I have listened to all of Sant Giani Gurbachan Singh Jis katha. VEry good sometime hard going but full of gyaan

Wow, that's amazing Singh. How long does it take to listen to the entire katha by Sant Giani Gurbanchan Singh Jee? Can one listen to the entire Katha in one year?and what do you mean by hard going?

Mate, he basically just repeated everything I said 2 days earlier (see the post above his). Do you have selective vision ?

Sorry bro. It's just that Malwai made his point come across easier to read in point form as opposed to writing all the points in a single paragraph which tends to get a little inconvenient to read. But yeah, you and Malwai made the same points. I especially liked your point on the girls from the khoo as opposed to the pend as it is mostly accurate. But some cases it is not true. A relative of mine married a girl from the khoo, but his wife is one of the laziest women I have seen. She always tries to avoid doing work, a real Kamm-Chor. Later it was found out that although she lived in the khoo, her mother(a real shataan woman) made her 2 daughter inlaws do all the work around the house while she hardly made her daughter do any work. But my relative's wife is an exception to the girls from the khoo. Generally khoo girls are real hard working.

All the guys on this forum who plan to marry should take note and follow literally ALL the points made by West London Singh and Malwai because as West London Singh said, marrying the a girl in India can be the best thing or the worst thing in your life.

Getting married in India is infinitely more challenging than getting married in the West despite any contrary opinions. Girls of loose or questionable morals in the West conduct themselves pretty much in the open and is common knowledge, as opposed to girls in Punjab showing a face of decency in public but privately a different story all together.

There are a couple of things I can recommend when attempting to get married in Punjab:

1) Make sure that you have relatives that you can trust, a very difficult task nowadays, people always have an ulterior motive for their actions.

2) The younger the girl the better the chances of them not having any previous history, or "friendships", yes note the "s"!!

3) Conduct some independent investigations into the character of not only the girl but her family, use any links you can. The character of both the mother and father and siblings can be used as a partial indicator.

4) Girls in Punjab are becoming lazier by the day, much like the guys, make sure you don't use educational credentials they hold as an indicator of hard work or effort, everything can be bought in India, including educational qualifications.

5) Try to find out whether the family that the girl belongs to is looking to specifically get married to a guy from the West, not a good indicator.

6) If possible look for girls with little to no family/friends abroad, less scope for any problems with eloping or interference/disruptive influence

7) Marry a total Pindu with no scope of learning any English or new skills!!! OK, maybe going overboard but avoid marrying a girl who is educated or working at the same level as you, make sure they are a few pegs down the food chain.

As for the Superduper, seeing as your already married, you could confide with family or friends who can mediate between both families. Also can you elaborate on exactly what is suspicious with her behaviour and why you think something is not right? It's important you share this information before anyone including me can really give you any sensible and meaningful advice, either by posting on here or sending me a personal message. I certainly don't endorse the advice of talking to her if you already suspect her, sorry to say this but women especially from Punjab are very shrewd and clever, keep quiet and don't give her anything on your personality or state of mind that she could use against you.

I want to help you brother but need this extra information.

Malwai brother, I agree with everything you wrote 100%! This is the best post on this thread so far!

1.relatives in India are full of ulterior motives. As you said, the relative themselves have to be trustworthy.

2. True, the younger the girl the less Shataan she will be. She will be more innocent/masoom as she has not seen so much of the world.

3. BOTH mother and father's reputation should be investigated. Sometimes, many people marry the girl based on the father's good reputation but if the mother is a real dodgy/shataan character in the family and if the girl takes after the mother then the NRI boy will be in trouble.

4. The worst thing is when NRI boys look at the "education" of the girl. Even if she is a Phd her Indian education will hardly be recognized in the west. So education should be not even be a factor when finding a girl in India in my opinion. Real qualities of the girl that should be looked at is she homely, modest, chaste or has Sharam. These are the real Shingaars of a Punjabi girl.

6. Another good point. Unfortunately, you can hardly find a girl in most areas of Punjab who does not have relatives in the west.

7. I think this point was one of the truest and best points. No one can better elaborate than what you have wrote.

And another point is to all the brothers here, do not marry a girl from the cities! only girls from the Pends are good and that too who fit all the 7 points made by Malwai. A survey conducted in India a few years ago shows that 75% of girls from the cities are not even virgin during the marriage night. Besides this, they cannot cook or clean and they also become the biggest coconuts when they arrive in the west completely forgetting that they are even Indian. So if a city girl's rishtaa is being proposed run miles away.

The best thing is to talk to your wife as much as possible. It is only through communication that you both will get closer. Also, another thing that many fraud brides do is that they don't want to have a baby until they become Pakkaa in their adopted country. Once they become Pakkaa the fraud bride runs away. So don't be afraid of start planning for a baby. If she is hesitant and says she wants to "wait" a few years (real reason until she becomes Pakkaa) then you should start having doubts in my opinion.

Also get involved with her family. Get to know her uncles and cousins. Talk to them over the phone as well so they know that you are not a bad guy. Usually what Fraud brides do is, before they runaway they like to start telling lies to their extended family/relatives of how abusive and bad guy her husband was. So if all the relatives know you and are familiar with you she atleast will not be able to claim you were a bad guy. That way tables will be turned on her and it will be her(and her family) who will be badnaam amongst the relatives as being frauds and dishonest.

I know of a girl from my relatives who was a fraud bride. She married an American NRI. This American NRI was a nice guy. He would speak to us and other relatives of his wife over the phone. Well like all fraud brides, the wife did not want a baby supposedly for some BS reasons(real reason was so she can runaway once she is Pakkaa). Well just before she ran away she began telling lies about her NRI American husband. Since everyone was already familiar with the American NRI, no one believed her. As a result everyone know that she and her mom-dad are a bunch of frauds.

Doesn't matter if you believe it or not, those who are fearless will carry on researching until they are 100% sure, so when the potential threat makes itself fully known(although it really has enough already, their symbols and agenda could literally be plastered on every front door- they are very proud of their achievements and like waving it in the faces of their so called slaves) , they are not caught by suprise

It is very easy to regard one as a simple conspiracy theorist, it's another to discover the reality of the situation before the slander leaves ones mouth...

I'm not denying the freemason threat, but are all the attacks on the Sikhs since the last 500 years because of them? was Chandu, Gangu, Jahangir, Aurangzeb, Wazir Khan(Nawab of Sirhind who killed the two younger Sahibzadas), Ahmad Shah Abdali, Mir Mannu, Dogras, Narain Das, Nehru, Indira Gandhi, KPS Gill, RSS all a part of the freemasons?

As I understand it, the freemasons are supposed to be Jews and the theory of them trying to rule the world one of the main reasons what is feuling Anti semitism through out history. What do Jews have against Sikhs? Nothing! no matter how great we may think we are, but for them we don't even exist and are insignificant as a threat. I understand it that they do not like the Christians or the Muslims because they are in direct conflict with them for centuries, but not Sikhs. We have our own set of traditional enemies and these are fundamentalist Sunni Muslims, bigoted Hindus, Christian missionaries, GOI, communists, Dehdari Gurudoms.

The fact is it doesn't matter how many supporters they got. Are you blind, the youtube video shows them performing a ritual.

Which ritual?