gurfateh singh, your situation is quite similar to mine situation, but my misse's has adjusted, singh it just takes time, everything in this country is new, may be shes also gone into depression being so far away from her family, it took my wife about a year almost to settle in. if your still having doubts and want more information about how i coped then heres my email address feel free to drop me an email kalvinder.singh@hotmail.com