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Waheguru Ji Ka Khalsa Waheguru Ji Ki Fateh!

Before I start this post, if any member is going to judge lr ridicule then please do not reply.

I am 21 years old an have been celibate all the way until a few weeks ago. I am plundered with shame and guilt. The girl and I are friends however he does not want a serious relationship. As per Sikhi I know what I have done is wrong, I just would like some guidance as to why I can do to get back on the right road.

Help?!?

Fateh

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West London Singh , the whole point of this forum is to seek advice, not ridicule those who have a worry. I dont dispute that yes Sri Guru Granth Sahib Ji is our Maharaaj, but when you have your family doing manmat other than going to guru Ghar you are going to ask advice from ppl your own age too!

Bhul Chuk Maaf

Waheguru

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WJKK WJKF

With Wahegurus Meher, I left my house last night and have come to stay with my Bibi Jee. I dont know of any dukh Phenji, but all i cay say is that they hate the fact that i am on this road, I just hope Waheguru Sache Paatshah keeps his meher!

Thank you once again! Any other adivse is kindly received.

Waheguru!

WJKK WJKF Simran Phenji!

Thank you for your reply, well im embarassed to say that my dad sponsored him to come to the UK and now hes in my house. Before he has told my parents to make ''taveets'' (little square pieces of paper with numbers on them (almost like sudoku) and immerse them in water then drink it) and they do this! He tells them to do random stuff like (eg) my mum rang him and said to him that my younger brother gets angry quickly, so he told her to add water into a jug mix with sugar and pour it towards the sun (like Hindus do) and as a result of this his anger will lessen. This obviously hasnt worked. I told my mum of the Saakhi of Baba Nanak at Ganges when GuruJi explained to the Brahmins that the water will not reach their ancestors, but my mum laughed and said these are just stories! Recently my dad took my brother to india because he had to sort his ''kundli'' (birth chart) out. When i questioned it and told him that as Sikhs we do not beleive in this manmat they all laughed. He went to India and conducted a pooja with this baba of Shiva, but they said to me they did the pooja in ''Guru Nanak Naam'' how can you do a pooja (against Sikh Rehat) in Guru Nanaks Name? They constatly tell me that all of what they are doping is part of Sikhism... but from reading Chaupai Sahib i understand that ''Raam Raheem, Puran Q'uran Anek Kahe Mat EK na Maneyo'' -- Ram and Raheem the Purans and the Q'uran, they say many things but I do not beleive in any of them''. They tell me to cut my beard but i do not agree, they laugh because i have stopped drinking and eating meat (with Maharaajs Kirpa).

Please this is my Benti to all Singhs and Singhneea, as your younger brother please advise me.

Waheguru Sukh Rakhi Sabh Thaee

Gur Fateh!

It has really scared me that if he can make them do this sort of stuff, what else is he capable of?

Thank you Kaljugi and singher32, i totally appreciate your responses . I am worried however for my family though, it saddens me that they have the Darbar of Guru Nanak but have the Larh of this Baba .

Fateh!

Gur Fateh to all Singhs and Singhniaa,

In a previous post I described how my parents were agiants my keeping my Kesh and Dhari. They still are, however with Maharaajs Kirpa i have given up drink and meat and my Dhari is growing fast!. I also desribed how my parents and my younger brother have been calling a so called Baba in India; who informs them to do jal taare (throwing water towards the sun) and tells them to do certain things which in my mind seem to be Mamat and againsat the Gurus way! This Monday the Baba arrived from India and is now at my house. I did inform my paresnt that if the Baba came i would leave the house as i beleive it is against the tenets of Sikhi to be associated with such people. I left. I need some advice as to whether what i have done is correct? If we are Sikh should we be following so called Babeh?

Just as a side note this man is not a Amritdhari, he trims his beard but keeps a Pagh, but worships a Naag Devta.

Please sangat jee i hope you can shed some light on this subject! I have done constant Ardaas to Waheguru jee and with their kirpa i have kept calm.

Gur Fateh! :blush2:

Omg that's near me! I'm Pubowal Hoshiarpur Dist

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Thankyou!

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Waheguru Ji!

I need some help!! I started keeping my Kesh last Vaisakhi and with Maharaajs Kirpa it's been going well. Recently tho I've noticed when I wash my hair or comb it a lot comes out and it's really upsetting me :'( . I've noticed a lot of dry skin on my head to as in dandruff, but I wash my hair thoroughly and apply coconut oil! What can I do???

Fateh!

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Good video!

Gur Ang Sang

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Thank you Paaji

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Lakh Vadaiyaan Tu All Brothers and Sisters

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Bachan is from my understanding when a Sant or a Mahapurakh give you words of wisdom which apply to your situation and give you solace? If I'm wrong please someone correct me

Bhul Chuk Maaf

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Fateh!

Does anyone know anything about this Jatha and Baba Mahinder Singh Ji? My friend has said that it would be worth getting Bachman off Baba Jee?

Please share your thoughts

Fateh!

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Fateh!

So recently I found out my parents have been calling a "baba" in India. When I confronted them about it and asked whether he was practicing Sikh I was told he was not but he wore a he's given them roof and tells them to put water out to the sun etc! In my previous posts I wrote how I have so much live for Maharaaj and with his blessings I have kept my Kesh!

I really do to ow what to do, I'm pretty sure that other than Sri Guru Granth Sahib Ji Maharaaj we shouldn't go to any human?

Help?

Fateh!

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Gur Fateh Jeeo!

I'm also studying law and am in my third year. Recently I went to a legal fair and enquired about the course, at first it seems a good route to take however after speaking to cousins that have also taken law a LPC would be a better option. Yes it costs more however with a inlets you will never be a solicitor!

Hope this was of some help!

Fateh!

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Fateh!

Phenji don't let it get to you! Have faith in Maharaaj (which I'm sure you do)! These people will one day look back and think how foolish they were! You are a daughter of the panth Maharaah is always ang sang!

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Waheguru!!!

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Thank you all so much. Sometimes it gets too much and I doubt myself but reading your comments Maharaaj has done mahaan Kirpa again!

Yeah I am a third year Law student, so they laugh and joke that I won't be able to do what I wish to do!

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Waheguru Ji!

I hope with this post I can find some kind of solace with fellow Singhs and Singhneea!

Since April of this year I decided to keep my Kesh, my dad is a keshdhari Singh however cuts his dhari. I come from a moderately religious family, however everyone's drinks and eats meat within my family. So anyway I decided too keep my Kesh however continued I cut my dhari a I did before. In July I went to Punjab for a holiday by myself and visited numerous Guru Ghar and decided to also keep my dhari, a point to note is that I listen to loads of Kirtan and diwans I also do a lot of jaapand path. When I returned home my family told me to cut my beard saying that I look too old, so instinctively I listens to them and cut it. A few weeks ago undecided to keep my beard again as I beleive that there is no point me doing all this jaap and listen to all our ithiaas if I am not going to act upon it. Since then I have been ridiculed by my parents and my brother. constantly I hear "gyaniJi" as now they call me this. Sayin I will not get a job etc!

I have explained To them that it is my choice and that I feel it is the right time or me but try still disagree!

Please help!

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Waheguru Ji!

Thanks i go to Uni in Sheffield, id love to have some support from other Singh and Singhneea

I have BBM if people want the pin etc (i dont know how everyone does it on here )

Satnaam!

Waheguru Ji Ka Khalsa Waheguru Ji Ki Fateh!

I am a 21 year old Uni student from the Uk. I have always had love for Sikhi and read my Paath and go to the Gurudwara. This last Vaisakhi I decided to keep my Kesh, previously my parents wouldn't allow me, I also kept my Dhari. In August my parents told me to cut my dhari as they thought i looked to old. I argued however as all know satkaar has to be done of our parents. I was so upset . Now I have decided to keep my dhari again, all I need is support from other young Sikhs and Gurmukh pyaare so I don't find myself in the same position! please help!

Bhul Chuk Maaf!

Guru Nanak Teri Vadhiyaaee!