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@ topic - could be one or more reasons from the list below- 1. They don't have enough knowledge about the depth of their own religion 2. Upbringing 3. TV - movies etc going crazy after actors, want to be with someone like them 4. Muslim boys take advantage of their religious ignorance, and girls have no answers to their comments, queiries etc, hence end up thinking Islam is best religion. 5. These girls have no brain, bad karams. 6. No spiritualism 7. May be kala jaadu stuff 8. Muslim guys talk and judge the innocence level of the girls, the girls who had never talked to any guy in her life will think wow he's intersted in me, nobody ever talked to me like this bla bla, which is ridiculous (now I am not sating that girls should have BFs) - lack of self-confidence could be the reason for this. 9. Lack of good sangat I don't think lust plays any role, lust doesn't look at religion.

^^^^coat and pant doesn't always have to be of the same colour. I think coffee coat and pant both together will look a little overwhelming. You can have dark coffee pant, dark coffee turban & tie or scarf and (creamish shirt) blazer/coat colour as attached photo. This is very decent & rare colour combination and one of the best. Light blazer balances the whole look.

Sant Baba Balwant Singh ji Tandewale:- "Ansi rogi a. Rog de kaaran sadi surat nai jurhdi. Rod ge kaaran sada gurbani naal pyar nahin. Ansi kehnde jaroor han par kar ni rahe, kathni hai karni nahin, eh maarag karni da hai......... Bani/path/nitnem karan to pehla ik kasam khao ke mar beshak jaaoon, cheereya jaaon, kuteya jaaon, kateya jaaoon, par mein apni zubaan naal kise di ninda nahin karni"

Sant Baba Balwant Singh ji Tandewale:- Jini vi sangat aayi hai, saareyan nu das deo ke jado Sri Guru Granth Sahib ji da parkash howe, kise vi vyaktigat nu matha tekna bahut vadi bhul hai. Ejehi galti zindgi ch na karna. Kaaran/Reason - jadon koi sade pind vich sir-kadh banda aunda, ta ansi onu kursi dinde a. Par jadon koi ilaake da vada banda aunda hai, ta pehla banda kharha ho janda hai te usnu kursi dinde haan. Te jadon DSP aunda hai ta odon thaanedar khade hunde han. Jadon SP aunde ne, odon DSP kharhe hunde ne. Jadon koi minister aunda ta SP/DC sare kharhe hunde ne. Jadon Prime minister aunda hai ta dooje mantri apnia kursia ton kharhe ho jande ne. Jadon President aunda hai ta prime minister nu usda satkar karna painda hai. Is layi sari srishti da maalak/president Sri Guru Granth sahib ji han. Aaapan ena da hukum man-na hai, aageya man-ni hai. Unjh bhawein jehre waheguru naal pyar karde han oh naturally poojan jog hunde han, kyon..... " Jina Nanak satguru poojeya, tin har pooj krawa".

Sant Baba Balwant Singh ji Tandewale:- Some people doesn't want to go in sadh-sangat and make excuses "mera jee ni karda, ethon ee vadiya sunda...etc". Its not them, its their karams - Bin bhagan satsang na labhei". A king published pamphlets and announced that he'll be hiding in the garden and whoever finds him will get all his wealth, powers and kingdom. Now some people didn't even bother to read this. These are kind of people like following: "makhi chandan te kade nai baindi, kaaje baindi gandgi te" "Jaake saun geya bhajan de vele, maarhe kami jaagda rahe...maarhe kama nu sher ban jawe, bhajan vele suta jaage na" - bhai kise nu ni kehna, apne aap nu dekhna zada sama kidar launda "bure kaam ko ooth khloeya, naam ki vela pe pe soeya" Second kind of people did read the pamphlet and thought of finding the king to get the kingdon, reached to the garden. But the garden was full of adoring flowers and fruits. Now this garden is "sansar" and flowers and fruits are kam, krodh, maya, sunderta, wealth, wife, children, husband etc and he doesn't want to leave these materialistic things. Sansar ik "chamrhi" te ik "damrhi" naal jakreya peya hai. But he doesn't realize" eh duniya suhawa baagh, ik din chad chalna, chad chalna bhai chad chalna" Is duniya vich dil na la, laine, dene de sambhand ne. Eh maya ki kardi aa " eh maya mohni mohni ne, prabh tumre charan visaare" Lok gurdware darshan karan ghat te cheezan kharidan zada jaande ne ke ethe kehri cheez sabhto vadiya mildi a. Haaye ena nu Guru Granth sahib ni sabhto vadiya lagde, kyonki jinuu Guru Granth Sahib ji sabh ton vadiya lag ge onu koi hor cheez vadiya ni lagdi. Enu darshana da pata nai ke darshan kini vadi cheez hai, enu ethon de samein da pata nahin ke mera sama muk chaleya te jehra mera sama ghar langda oh bekaar hai vyarth hai , kyonke " sangat kariye saadh ki, sahib aawe yaad, lekhe vich soi gharhi, baki din basbaad" "soi umar vich lekhe de, jo yaad saayi di gujre". Is mann nu samjhao ke he mana "soi change ne dihaare sache paatshah, jehre tere naal beet de" Satguru da vajaan mar mar ke bakhshisha dinda vi tu bahar na chakra ch fir, ander aa Satgur da ghar hai tere naal, ander maro jhaati duniya de chad-de nakli jaal, ander maro jhaati satgur nu kol chupaake, dhoonde kya bahar jaake evein na tha-tha takra maar, ander maro jhaati ja ja ke tirath naawe, farh-farh ke baal vadhawe evein na ho khajal khuaar satguru da ghar hai tere naal, ander maro jhaati satguru ta vaajan maare, ander charh vekh chubare chamkega heera lal gulal, ander maro jhaati waheguru da ghar hai tere naal, ander maaro jhaati Now king lives on the seventh floor. Some people having a little to some interest in God get to the first floor and when they get little bit of peace of mind, they think "this is it". Then some people who reach the 2nd floor, get attracted to ridhia-sidhia stuff, ignorant people start following them for their materialistic needs and fufilling their wishes empties his own khajana of bhagti . This is like ik banda gaa nu sara din pathe paayi jawe, te shaam nu koi hor thapi deke dudh choke le jawe. That's why there are some mahapurkh who speak rudely to people so that nobody interefere in their anand and bhagti like farmers do fence around their khet, so that jungli animals can't ruin it. These are kind of mahapurkhs who are engrossed in naam 24/7 and reach the seventh floor. Saayin de varge jee, visre na naam jina nu Jina na visre se kineheya, bhed na jano mool saayin jeheya Duniya de loka de kise rom cho kaam, kise cho krodh niklada, par guru mukh de rom rom cho waheguru da naam niklada rom rom har dheyaave, gurmukh pyare da

If you are in India, Ludhiana, Simran Pagri House in Ghumar Mandi has all kind of material including full voile and so many colour choices

http://kam1825.podbean.com/2013/05/21/sachi-and-kachi-bani/

I vaguely remember Giani Thakur Singh ji clarifying the use of "Nanak" pad in the last para of the bani, that upon Guru Arjan dev ji's return, Guru Ramdas ji gave him gurgaddi and then 5th Guru sahib uttered the last para of bani. Bhul chuk maaf, someone from sangat might enlighten us more.

Giani Pinderpal Singh ji:- "Ik gal yaad rakheyo, "roohaniyat" nu budhi de tal(level) te kadi na leke jaayeyo, budhi de tal te nikle hoye shabad tarak paida karde ne te shardha te aatma de tal ton nikle hoye bol parmatama di dargaah vich kabool kra dinde ne"

Giani Pinderpal Singj ji on Bhai Gurdas ji's bani:- Bhai Gurdas ji has given 3 examples on how one can pass through the "bhav-sagar", despite short of time in kalyug. 1. A boat - the 3/4th part of the boat saves the 1/4th part of the boat, meaning 3/4th of the boat is under water, only a little part is above water which helps boat to get to the other bank. Same like this even if we get 15 minutes to remember God in 24 hours, we can be saved from maya. 2. Roti - Some people eat just once a day. He comes to kitchen or dining table just once to eat food, he doesn;t remain there the whole day but that time of 10-15 minutes of consuming food gives him energy to survive through the day, same like this if we jap Guru Guru only 15 minutes a day, it'll get us through the rest of the day. 3. A beggar - when a beggar comes to a king and beg just for 5 minutes, King can give him "jagirs". It just took the beggar 5-10 minutes to bow down and cry that his sorrows vanish. Bhai sahib says, o man, o mind, just once a day, for a moment beg and cry to waheguru ji, you never know waheguru can do kirpa and taras and your janams will be saved just because of that single "moment" of surrenderance.

Anand Sahib Uthanka:- A jogi aged 1000 years came to Guru Amardas ji at Goindwal and did benti that he could not attain "anand" after going through so much of tapaseya. Please bless me with the daat of "anand". Guru sahib asked him to take birth as his grandson, as Baba Mohri ji's son as his age was too much now, then you'll be blessed with anand. So Jogi surrendering himself to Guru sahib's bachans left his body and took birth as Guru sahib's grandson. When the new born child was placed in Guru sahib's lap, Guru sahib did bachans " aa gaye anand ji, anand lain vaste" . Guru sahib started uttering "Anand sahib" path and named the child as "Anand". Guru sahib asked sangat to sing this bani aloud at that time. Sahib Sri Guru HarGobind Singh Sahib ji called Baba Anand ji in paalki by saying that we have not done any service of Guru Amardas ji's generation. While baba Anand ji was coming in the paalki (covered from all sides), Guru sahib came and took one of the paalki sahara on his shoulders and asked others not to say anything. But baba Anand ji was brahgyani, so he came to know about this and jumped out of the paalki and threw himself to Guru sahib's charans. Giani Thakur Singh ji - Katha Anand Sahib Giani Ji said if one is feeling sad or gloomy, should do or listen to "Anand Sahib" bani continously. It'll give immense happiness and saroor. This is the only bani that is read on all occasions - birth, marriage as well as death. Bhul chuk maaf

"Gurbani Path Darpan" - by Damdami Taksal - Japuji Uthanka - page 213 (pdf page 206) http://www.scribd.com/doc/25264056/gurbani-path-darpan Giani Thakur Singh ji said that this book is a must have for every Sikh household.

^^ very true veerji, our own bad karams and paap don't let us make an eye contact with mahapurkh, our paap start rolling in front of our eyes and makes us guilty. Also Dhan Dhan Guru Anagd Dev ji maharaj never looked into the eyes of Guru Nanak Sahib ji, always kept his eyes down and looked at Guru sahib's charan only.

waheguru ji, please don't thank me, heard a long time before. Thanks to you, now I am gonna listen to it again I don't know youtube link, but mp3 audio can be found on the link below: http://www.gurbaniupdesh.org/multimedia/listing.php?q=f&f=%2F04-Katha%2F13-Giani+Thakur+Singh+Ji+%28Patiala+Wale%29%2FKatha+Selected+Banis+%28Sri+Guru+Granth+Sahib+Ji%29 Under "Katha" folder -Giani Thakur Singh ji Patialewale -Katha Selected Banis (Sri Guru Granth Sahib Ji) -katha Shabad Hajarey

Ekotri: Few years after the inception of dera, Baba Ji started an annual event of 101 akahand paths. The starting date varies but the final bhog is always on the Puranmasi of October. Today the Ekotri has become an annul event for the whole city of Tanda with a parade on the final day with full display of Khalsa colors. http://derabababalwantsinghji.com/dera_history.htm 101 continous Guru Granth Sahib ji's akhand paths - started 28th September 2013 - Bhog on October 18th, Nagar keertan on October 17th, 2013 Various mahapurkh, ragis and gyanis share bachans, katha, keertan Gurbani everyday for 21 days.

Sant Sujan Singh ji keertaniye Dhan Dhan Baba Nand Singh ji:- "Sangat vich aawe, pyaar naal aawe, khali nai rehnda, laag jaroor lagdi hai. Te je kuch na mange, ta pher punn vad-de vad-de ede prabal ho jande han ke saayi aap chal ke aunda hai"

The writer Giani Pritam Singh ji Mastana studied in a Missionary college and was a firm missionary. He was strictly against Sant mahapursh especially against Nanaksar. But in this book he explains how he got surrendered himself to Sant Isher Singh ji Kalerawale. Every time he would visit nanaksar to argue with Sant ji but his missionary logical arguments would vanish without Sant ji even utterring a word to him. It was just the way Sant ji used to look at him and he used to feel ashamed and guilty. And all this would happen without any conversation. The book answers all the questions that missionaries put against sikhi and sants. http://jsks.biz/ishwar-darshan-giani-pritam-singh-ji-mastana A must read. A very very beautiful book, full of love. Unfortunately, the book is not available in pdf form to download online. Please do buy.

waheguru ji, fourth stanza was uttered by Guru Arjan Dev ji to Guru Ramdas Ji face to face after Guru sahib called back 5ve paatshah as third letter had reached Guru sahib. I heard from Giani Thakur Singh ji, my apologies if wrong

Sant Waryam Singh ji Ratwara Sahib:- Sant pursh de darshan karan saar andron waheguru waheguru di dhun hon lag jandi hai kyonki jiwein ik baraf de dhele kolo geyan thand mehsus hon lag jandi hai, aag de nerhe jao ta garmi mehsus hon lag jandi hai, kyonki ki ena da subaah hi eho jeha hunda hai. Aisa jo sant hai, oh nira hi shaanti da bhandaara hunda hai. Hor cheez koi duniya ander eni shaant nahin, jine ke mahapuskh shaant-chit hunde han. Ese te Guru furmaan hai:- ਕਬੀਰ ਸੰਤੁ ਨ ਛਾਡੈ ਸੰਤਈ ਜਉ ਕੋਟਿਕ ਮਿਲਹਿ ਅਸੰਤ ॥ Kabeer, the Saint does not forsake his Saintly nature, even though he meets with millions of evil-doers. ਮਲਿਆਗਰੁ ਭੁਯੰਗਮ ਬੇਢਿਓ ਤ ਸੀਤਲਤਾ ਨ ਤਜੰਤ ॥੧੭੪॥ Even when sandalwood is surrounded by snakes, it does not give up its cooling fragrance. ||174|| Ang: 1373

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"Purab janam ankur jab pargateyo, bheteyo purakh rasik bairaagi"

^^^ Waheguru ji, you don't need to give explanations to anyone. It's everone's their own level of spirituality and Guru sahib's kirpa. Those who have problems with sants or sant followers, please refrain from this thread. This is a humble request.

Thank you waheguru ji....I am under impression that this kathavaachak is trying to mislead the sangat.

Do ardas to waheguru ji "data ji please free my mind from her attachment and memories, mere bas to baahar aa, I am unable to move forward, please help me". Start doing jorheaan di sewa and reading guru sahib and mahapurkh's jeewan Go through the books section on this site. Like mentioned above, there are so many options. Gud Luck

Sant Baba Gurdial Singh ji Tandewale:- "Kai lokan nu baut problem hundi a ke mahapurkha nu "maharaaj" kyon kea janda hai, oh is layi kyonki ona ne apne ander mahan raaj chupaaye hunde ne"