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  1. You 'doth protest too much. Perhaps you're threatened by gays and lesbians, fearing your own closeted impulses? I do have a little compassion for you though brother; perhaps you're unaccepting of others because you're not accepting of yourself. I'd recommend a little self-reflection. Perhaps a little self-exploration too?(ਅੱਗੋਂ ਪਿੱਛੋਂ ?- I'm sure you know where that goes). Here if you want to hug it out (no homo).
  2. Very stylish. I'm just glad they didn't settle in the Netherlands.
  3. Your parents had havaianas?? ਬੈਰੀ ਨਰਮ ਜਿਹੀ ਸੱਟ ਲੱਗਦੀ ਹੁਣੀ ਆ
  4. and this brothers is what happens when a woman wonders too far from the kitchen. ? where'd you even pull that out from?
  5. S4NGH

    Taking amrit

    Wait what really? No chaupai sahib anand sahib in the morning?? Shocking
  6. Try to diffuse the situation by removing yourself/your mother from the situation. Walk away. Remain silent, ignore the comments. Take your mother away. Into another room. Upstairs/downstairs; away from your father. Give him space, let him vent. It's hard to listen and witness it all but sometimes by interposing oneself, we end up making things worse. It may give the impression that we're taking sides; a "they're all against me" sort of thing. It's hard to remain silent whilst watching our mothers in that situation but we must have patience. Every couple argues. Everyone's parents argue. Sometimes with the stress of things, we lose control of our krodh even with those we love most. You shouldn't have a go at him; he is your father. It's difficult, I know. Try to understand him, the root of the problem. What's causing him to get angry and swear at those he loves most?... Must be something big... Try to establish what triggers your fathers anger. Work related stress? Financial issues? Family issues? Etc. And then see how you can help lighten that burden. Of course if things get out of hand; it gets physical, then obviously you need to intervene without retaliating. Seek help if you need to. Domestic abuse is no small matter and nothing to be ashamed of. Maharaj kirpa kare, it won't come to that. Have patience. Practice restraint as you are (you mentioned you've become more conscious of your actions and words since taking amrit- congratulations). These things take time but they do get better. Have faith. Feel free to PM me. Create an account etc. My two pence worth. Bhul chuk muaf ji. Vaheguru ji ka khalsa Vaheguru ji ki fateh ji
  7. I would've given this the confused face.
  8. What is the purpose of the dori?
  9. Actually I think he's talking about the Tisarsome between...oh wait nevermind
  10. We don't know if that is the case. As I said, judge her for her political work. We finally have some representation in parliament in a fairly prominent position who is actually willing to speak up about our issues (unlike Paul uppal and lord Singh). Are we trying to push her away too?
  11. What does it matter? Judge her for what she is actively doing for us Sikhs. Judge her for her stance against india; her fight for Jagtar Singh Jaggi. She's a politician; judge her for her politics. Not her marriage/husband. Tfs it to you??
  12. Do you own the fort??
  13. http://www.unitedsikhs.org/starae/
  14. Post pics of the miniature paintings you "found" in an old fort.
  15. A Karah Parshad dispenser perhaps?... http://dailysikhupdates.com/introducing-automatic-parshad-machine/
  16. @MrDoaba can you verify this?
  17. I think he may have been black. Most likely.
  18. Why couldn't you take amrit and have an anand karaj with another amritdhari? Why are your parents so against you becoming an amritdhari? What is a normal life?
  19. You can request a veggie friendly alternative. Not the end of the world though... It might be if you were to stop taking them...
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