Waheguru ji,
Sangat, I would want to share my own story. I'm glad we already have a topic and I don't have to create one to ask for guidance.
I'm 28 yr old Singh whose dating a Caucasian girl (Christian). We have been in a relationship for over a year and want to take it to the next step. I have spoken to her about Sikhi but haven't asked her about conversion however I did mention the fact that if we do get married I want to raise my kids as Sikhs. She is a kind hearted and the most generous woman that I have met, but doesn't believe that the religion is the only way to god. She doesn't go to church but believes in the connection with the God. I on the other hand is in a garb of a Sikh but doesn't follow the Guru to the core. We talk about Sikhi all the time but I think I have no power to ask someone to convert if I myself has uncountable flaws.
Now being said that.. what do I do in this situation, find some place else to marry?
Getting married without the Guru would be a nightmare for me.
Sangat I know I'm a paapi but how can I be without my Guru on the most imp day of my life.