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Thank You i was looking for it for my self as well.

ewww this is jus (can i puke?) thats jus discusting... i was worried about sayin no to a guy who i didn't actullay go out with,but liked him and talked over the phone or net etc.which was like yrs before i took amrit...and was such a kid..fell into a trap :wub: i felt so guilty by not talking to him or like how it all ended... but damn!!! i really wish i didn't opne this page. its soo nastyyy. people actually do that? O waheguru what will happen to this world? im seriouse..not being srcstic or anything but peopple need to be educated about the reality(their life...what its for)

i jus have a simple question i was thinking about sikhi and amritdharis i just wanted to ask what do u think of a person who is amritdhari. what is ur impression of him/her? what thoughts come to ur mind? to me...when i see an amritdhari person...my mind goes...ah a person with qualities of Akal purakh! honest, helpful, humble, filled with self respect and honer(Anaakh), inlove with every human being, filled with Love...and talks of His Guru/Akal purakh all the time...remeber Him all the time.....

but again...dont judge the person if he/she cussez .... i can't find the tuk... but i know Guru sahib ji says i think its in asa di //...soemthing like "....bharo bhul chuk boldeyyy...." if rab dey piyarey say bad stuff from out side...it doesn't really affect them! but that is the people who have reached an avastha...who are one with Akal purakh! and to tell you the truth its hard to say who is one with Akal purakh and who is not here is a story that i have heard of BHAI Vir Singh ji(the sixth river of Punjab) He used to do naam abhiyas in Darbar sahib...was a naam rasiye for sure and he was young and then he stopped gettin that rus.. so he went to this baba ji who was cleaning the dishes at Darbar sahib. he told him that he is not connected no more. he doesn't feel anything and that baba ji told him that what you thing that by doing naam simran at darbar sahib you will connect? goi someplace where you will. in Darbar sahib (well he told him something which im forggetina nd dont wana say soemthing that i didn't hear0 so bhai veer singh ji goes to a garden. he did naam simran there but after awhile he stopped gettin the arand again! so he came to that baba ji again and asked him to help him. and baba ji asked him where was he doing simran this time. and bhai sahib told him in a bagg(garden) and the baba ji laughed. baba ji said to him...are u crazy what makes you think that doing naam simran away from Guru ki nagarii will get you somewhere? come back! and then bab ji asked him...he said its not the place. do you really know why you stoppped gettin the rus? Bhai sahib didn't know so he asked bab ji to tell him. babaji said try to remeber when you did naam simran in Darbar sahib. try to remember the day when there were two bajorag sittin by you. what came to you mind at that time? what did you say to your self? they were talking right and you said to you self...look at me, im so young and am trying to connect with my Akal purakh and look at these old people...they still haven;t found out the purpose of life...they are talking whilest im doing naam simran.... and when you were in garden what did you say to your self?? you said look im here in this garden not even in Gurdwara and connecting with Waheguru, but look at those people who God to Darbar sahib in bhir bharaka(in a rush...where there are lost of people) and dont know what they really on earth for. These two things came to your mind. and to tell you the two bajorakh(elders) who were sittin by you while you were doing sirman were connected with Akal purakh from inside... eventhough they were talking from outside but their inside was intuned with Akal! the words they were saying were all simran eventhough they were talking about something else! so i would say we should not try to judge anyone cuz we can never know who is who jus watch your own self! when you see anyone, jus tell your self...that you are going to be watching your self and see if you do what you saw the pother person doing. make your self better!<< this is what bhai Pinderpal ji have told me when i was listening to him doing katha! stop watching others really ...and if you really love someone and do wana tell them and save them(i guess) then do tell them in a nice way..that veeray ji or bhanji/bibiji (i love you so much...and could you tell me one things? is this allowed in sikhi? could i do wha you jus did right now? this way they will be aware of what they jus did and opfcourse KHALSA is a role model init... if they say yes or no...then you should know what to do..... well in both cases you should hug them(if they feel confy cuz i know some peopel are so @ that they don't like the feelin heheh not their fault) and/or give them a big simple say your fav shabd to your self a bit or lil bit loud and jus make your self aware of what not to do as a sikh and start watchin your self from that day! Guru sahib kirpa karan on me and start making me do what i jus have writen up. do ardas for me sangat ji... Waheguru das nu maaf karnaa waheguru ji ka khalsa waheguru jiki fateh