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  1. Love doesnt have an age

    How gay.

    LOL.gif :wub: haww that was well outta orda lol....people are well blinded....

    In my opnion I think that the husband should be a few years older, am not talking about crazy amount of years, just like maybe 3-4 years older; becuase first of all whether males of females accpet it or not, men are seen as the main head of a family (you know its true), so it keeps that set also if the father of the future children is older than the the mother of the children; it is most likely that if the husband runs the house, the children will be more scared and respectful towards him. Am not saying that children don't respect the mommy but, moms are the more approachable parent and seen as the 'nicer' one. Also I don't know if this is going to sound offensive but I thought a "ideal" couple would be more like have the husband who goes about with the chodhar, you know he calls the shots, am not saying that the wife doesn't get say anything, just like it IS a equal relationship but the husband makes a decision ASWELL as asking his wife's opinion/thoughts etc.

    So I dunno 10 years is a bit HUGE for a age gap, its like when the son is gona be 18, and the mom is say gona be like 46 that means the dad's gona be 56....so go for a little older but not like baba-fied age...

    If you ask me yeah I reakon that the husband gotta be a little taller and older than the wife lol couples look well sweeet like that awwwwwwww :wubc:

    lol :wub: ...hehe... woah ye ten years is a bit too much...well thts wht i think!...ye i agree with karkirpawaheguru!!

    :sady:

    u think u know sum1................

    :sady:

    :D ...lol...

    woohoo.gif just to make Tarrandeep kaur happy, dont worry penjee its okay if the singhanees older by few months LOL

    ....i agree with you karkirpawaheguru...10years a bit too much. grin.gif

  2. nah bein a girl is kinda cool, you know we always get to boss the singhs about :wub:

    most of the time singhs are kinda scared of bibia lol.....

    ^^ yes, from you :wub: joke

    .. its hard at times, but i would say thats through culture and the typical thing about how boys better but not through sikhi. nonono.gif but its not that bad, its all hukam..atleast vaheguru dont see us differently hehe thats all that matters.. aww dont we all love vaheguru jee lolll blush.gif

  3. BIBI i was being sarcastic when i said that. lol

    that shabad is talking about how humans dance to maya. read the entire shabad

    i havent read the entire shabad yet! and takes to time to understand bani i aint no super person. sum1 mentioned so i posted!

    u guys want to do bhangra or not, tuwadee marjee.. go ahead..

    im a learner, im learning... tusi nachna nachloo, when you could be japping naam.. as guru jee says they dance in mandirs.. we go around dancing when we going to jap naam? while doin bhangra, i dont tink that will work. i am still learning as i said, moorakh

    you probs turn around say oh its good to have fun or exercise but u can have fun japping nam listenin to keertan i dont see the point of dancing:S as a pehnjee/bhajee said earlier mute the tv while people dancing looks ridicilous.

    this papi firm on her decision and its wrong, will not change opinion. you have your own opinions .. go ahead not stopping

  4. hmm okay then. i would still say it wrong .. to achieve naam u dont need dance or so but thats my opinion. im not forcing my opinions on anyone, im sure bani does say something .. just search and matters how you look at it

    anywayy yes narinder bhajee i agree.. thank you

    ^^ i was about to post the tuk but i havent read the full shabad so didnt, but was suggested to post it.

    and again im only a moorakh, i aint sayin what i say everyone is to say..

    vaheguru jee ka khalsa vaheguru jee kee fateh

  5. i am not trying to twist bani bhajee. :umm:

    im only a moorakh... you make your own mind up i am not pushing my opinions on anyone. reading the shabad i saw you dont need to dance to find guru jee, if u interept it in a different way then okay. i am no high person im learning...

  6. vaheguru jee ka khalsa vaheguru jee kee fateh !

    nachiai ttapiai bhagath n hoe ||

    By dancing and jumping, devotional worship is not performed.

    sabadh marai bhagath paaeae jan soe ||3||

    But one who dies in the Word of the Shabad, obtains devotional worship. ||3||

    vaheguru's hukam is right there, now its up to u what to follow but vaheguru points it out straight. No point sayin whats wrong or right, just go ask guru jee, you will find your answer.

    we cant force anything on anyone, its for the person to decide and if u call yourself a sikh who would you follow as a sikh, vaheguru jees hukam or your own pleasures? now you decide... sikhs can only preach but its gurujee kirpa and on the person to decide where you go... in the search for gurujees or in the world of pleasures!

    bhul chuk marf! wasnt tryin to offend anyone or judging anyone... :umm:

    vaheguru jee ka khalsa vaheguru jee kee fateh

  7. vaheguru!..

    wat u mean 'going mental'?! grin.gif theres no need for that

    ... stop ruinin the thread and go to any programme that suits you, rather then sitting infront of the computer and saying which is better to go to. if u want to listen to katha go birmingham if u want to listen to keertan come cov!! simple as. stop moanin about wats better, both are good, where ever you are able to go, go and get some laha.

    there's some people who may not be able to come to birmingham because they not allowed or any other reason and they get a chance to get laha from going to cov programme, no harm in that atleast people got a chance of going to one of the programme.

    sorry if i offended anyone, not my intention. bhul chuk marf jio.. :lol:

    fateh jee pray.gif

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