Uksingh86

Hi everyone, I've got a question or rather a dilemma. I'm 100% against the rs path. A lot of my family are part of it (not my parents or sisters) and so is my wife to be. She isn't 100% on it however and she never discusses it with me or tries to preach etc. but when she is with members of her family, they sometimes start to talk about baba Ji this baba Ji that and I find myself getting frustrated. when me and my fiancé got together she explained that this path is very important to her and tha she would need my support with it I.e attend satsangs etc, but never once has she expected me to follow it. i initially agreed as I had very patchy knowledge of rs but I've done so much research and it appears just as may of you guys have said, fake and fraudulent. I've always been a semi-practising Sikh but I have in recent years started to take it more seriously, listen to path and bani quite often and have studied Sikh history and even started to read and understand the Guru Granth Sahib Ji. I know and I'm convinced that this is the way forward, but how do I get my fiancé to think the same without causing an argument? Lol. I know I will get it in the neck and hear things like "you said this to me before and now your going against it, you lied to me blah blah blah. I don't want to attend these satsangs or the Haynes park gatherings every year, it's just a complete waste of time. Why do you need to go to a huge gathering to listen to things which, if you you used your own brain, are just common sense. nearly all of her family are in this cult and appear very naive. My fiance has said when we are married we will keep a Guru Granth Sahib at home ( as her family have one) and go to the gurudwara regularly but at the same time I know she will expect me to accompany her to satsangs. I have been to a couple and i have no interest whatsoever. My fiancé recently got initiated, which is a load of rubbish too as she lies on her application form. Apparently it asks if you eat eggs or something and at the time of applying she was eating eggs, but she lies and said she didn't. And she still got initiated lol. Now if that baba knows all, surely he wouldn't have picked an application form from someone who's lying and still initiated them into naam. It's obviously random. Anyway, I just want to know some opinions on this as to how I should deal with it or even better, get her to come off that path altogether. Thanks