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5 hours ago, harsharan000 said:

 

If this is right thn why it’s written in Guru Granth Sahib ji about reincarnation, jam doots, chitar gupt. I believe that we do take birth again and again.. I’ve came across so many times about doots and reincarnation from Guru Granth Sahib ji. 

I guess nobody knows why budha dal and hazoor sahib give kirpan Amrit to women and khande da for men.. I don’t understand this thing  because I don’t know the reason it’s making me to think something that I shouldn’t be thinking. So anyone knows plz share it. I had already planned about going to hajoor sahib in March and get Amrit from there but  after knowing this it’s making me to stop like why is this difference between men and women everywhere now. Before I knew about doing sewa and now about Amrit too.. things like these makes me soo disappointed.. that’s the reason I want to know the reason 

6 hours ago, Singh123456777 said:

And instead of 5 singhs its only 1 Singh

Why is it for women it’s kirpan Amrit and for men khande da.. what difference does this make and why not five Singh’s if someone know plz tell me.. I want to know the reasons behind this.

On 1/21/2018 at 6:23 AM, TaksalDaSingh9771 said:

Does budha dal give ladies kirpan amrit? 

I thought both genders get khande di pahul

 

Can someone plz explain this to me.. kirpan Amrit what is it.. what’s the difference b/w these two and at hajoor sahib how do they give Amrit to women. Plz

14 hours ago, jkvlondon said:

you could look at menstrual cups not toxic like tampons and reusable. if however you want to stick with pads , you could get some feminine wipes for on the move cleanup else keep initimate soap products and wash often during the day.

I’ve been using menstrual cups but don’t know why it leaks a little.. do u know how can I make it stop leaking.. I’m pretty sure that it pop open and sealed because if I try to pull it down I can feel that it’s sealed so I don’t know if that’s the problem of leakage or something else.. any tips would be helpful if u also use cups. Thanks

4 hours ago, Mahakaal96 said:

As a man I would personally feel embarrassed if my sisters had to come on the battlefield & fight beside me.... what kind of men take the battlefield alongside thier sisters, daughters & mothers??!!

People have this image of Dasam Patshah being this all lovey dovey being..... he was undoubtably the moorti of Prem but not how it is portrayed now.... but along side that he was a soorma, yodha, mahabali, maharathi, soorbir bahadur who would never allow his daughters to take to the battlefield. Mai Bhago was an exception.

Fair enough but we are discussing about doing sewa not going into battle field. Why can’t we do sewa at harmandir sahib. Sewa is for everyone and which guru made these rules that men can do sewa but for us women we can’t at some parts.. these rules are man made. And which is not right..

23 hours ago, Mahakaal96 said:

Women can’t do seva for the same reason non of the 10 Guru’s were women, non of the 5 pyare were women, 15 Bhagats who have Bani in SGGS non of them are women, there’s no historical evidence that any woman was given khande batte Di pahul in 1699.... budhal dal & Hazoor Sahib still don’t! 

A number of our Gurus were given Gurgaddi at very young age.... meaning gurgaddi could be passed on to a male ‘child’ but still never a woman.

all you ‘equal rights’ banders, if you don’t like the Sikhi our Guru established please go somewhere else... stop trying to change Guru Sahibs Sikhi 

Here we go. Another one.. hasn’t got admission in Guru Nanak ji’s school and don’t think will ever get.. 

9 minutes ago, jkvlondon said:

the washing of internal surfaces of the actual darbar room is NOT permitted if you are a female ...again their rules reason given was safaiee if cycle is occurring

J cycle nai chal reha fer v nai. Sirf 5 dina krke poore mahine vch ik din v nai kar skde.. this is not right. Now I have to take birth in a male body to do the sewa.. what to say and do about this it’s disappointing... 

23 minutes ago, Guest Kaur 2 said:

VJKK VJKF

Penji I am 13, going to be 14 in May. I can't wait till I'm 18! Its soooo long.......

VJKK VJKF

Wow.. god bless u

If anyone has translations of Khalsa mool mantar.. ??

10 hours ago, monatosingh said:

Khalsa itself is soldier and sant.

Taksal is more sant based right? Many sants I know are from DDT.

However, a Khalsa is sant-sipahi.

Nihangs are more of the warrior type right? 

Again, a Khalsa is sant-sipahi.

 

 

This is what I mean.. that’s why I’m confused between Taksal and budha dal. 

9 hours ago, Guest Kaur 2 said:

VJKK VJKF

I asked my mom and my dad and they both said yes. But they said that I can only take it when I am in my late teens. Which is too long to wait. I feel thirsty for amrit. My dad said that he wouldn't let me take amrit in a normal, local gurdwara but he said that I should take amrit at Sri Hemkunt Sahib. This may not sound like an issue but how can I wait that long??? I feel thirsty for it, I need it now. Of course even I want to take amrit at Sri Hemkunt Sahib but its too long. I have like 4-5 years to wait.

VJKK VJKF

God.. how old r u? I’m going to take Amrit soon as well.. 

52 minutes ago, Guest Kaur 2 said:

VJKK VJKF

They also do not uphold rehat.

VJKK VJKF

Thank u ji ??

28 minutes ago, Guest Kaur 2 said:

VJKK VJKF

I wouldn't go for missionarys.

VJKK VJKF

Would u plz mention the reason. I’m not going to go for them either but just want to know what’s wrong with them or any other jatha.. I’m thinking about damdami Taksal or budha dal. thanks

Which jatha is doing good nowadays like who are actually following the maryada that Guru Ji wanted us to follow. And if I not wrong thn Guru Gobind Singh ji made damdami Taksal so how and why the other jathas AKJ, missionarys, nihangs and others came.. which ones is the best to go for.. anyone plz help 

I want to ask one thing coz I don’t have any idea about this but I’ve heard people say if an amritdhari kuri/munda when they marry thn they have to find a partner who has also taken Amrit.. so Jagmeet singh is an amritdhari but I don’t think the girls has taken Amrit. So is this allowed to an amritdhari to marry a non amritdhari.. 

4 hours ago, MrDoaba said:

This is a seperate issue.

How is this is a separate issue? Today we are talking about shaheedi and for what they gave their heads because they didn’t accept Islam.. I don’t think it’s a separate issue. 

4 hours ago, MrDoaba said:

I was saying is we should celebrate it, and the other side of it by displaying Miri-Piri however we can. Be it Nagar Kirtans, Jorh Mele, Gatka (

And yes this is what we should be doing rather thn taking sikhi for granted.. I know the positive side that ur talking about.. that’s included when u remember the day,  how Aurangzeb tortured chote shaibzade.. the tears that come down from the eyes are of proud and  grief  at the same time but not joy.. not for me.. and I don’t think we need to scare anyone or anyone should get scared from us because we celebrate shaheedi diwas that’s not what our gurus taught us.. to scare anyone.. scared and feeling of proud in a positive way are two separate things.. thanks ji

1 hour ago, MrDoaba said:

What about on Guru Arjan Dev Ji's Shaheedi Divas?

Do I have to mention every single shaheedi?

1 hour ago, MrDoaba said:

What better way to mark shaheedi month by saying "oye saaleyo we're still around, and Chardi Kala!!!".

How can u say Khalsa Panth is in chardi kalah. Nihangs and some other Sikhs are converting into Christianity.. this is what chardi kalah is for u? and there are Sikhs here who are “celebrating” this day with songs on and with no emotions in their heart and going to Anandpur Sahib but u can tell they’ve no emotion or a feel of gratitude and everyone is included in this not only youngsters. I don’t support this kind of celebrations.. these days are for remembrance. im proud of what they did for us but that doesn’t mean we should only think about celebrating it and not think about the other side how mehngi sikhi we got on which cost. Of course they are in high spirits don’t denying anything but still think about it with slightly different perspective as well.

7 hours ago, S1ngh said:

So, when we say - shaheedi month December - ppl say refrain from doing any happy event. This trend is picking up. Are we wrong?

I don’t think we are wrong. Shaheedi is not to celebrate.. do we celebrate when a beloved one dies in our family? If someone dies in jan or feb that year we don’t even celebrate Diwali or any other festival no marriages nothing that whole year. Shaheedi of our Mata pita and beloved brothers is not to celebrate.. we should actually show gratitude by following sikhi in true manner and be a true sikh..  like there’s some people who are changing their religion for sake of money they are converting into Christianity.. right. So disappointed with this.. and in gurudwaras they serve kheer/jalebi on these days that needs to be stop as well. Only simple langer daal and roti should be served.. 

i love this one.. can’t find the full one