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1 minute ago, dallysingh101 said:
Life keeps throwing stuff at some of us. I'm not going to ever give up on trying to be strong, tough, resilient and stoic (and not just physically but mentally too), maybe that stuff doesn't help you but it most certainly helps me deal with all manner of crap. Otherwise I'd have probably slashed my wrists or overdosed or something like that years ago. I don't want to be any whining victim.
So whilst it might not be for you, don't knock it because it may well be a saving grace for some others.
I remember the story of your wife. It's been a while now, try looking for someone else, and let go of the old stuff as much as you (or anyone can). You're still young, get into another relationship but don't carry the hurt of the past into it (easier said than done I know). This world goes on, despite our hurt and pain. That's the bitter truth.
And some tough talk: I think it was a b1tch move from you to pick up and make an issue of a little use of slang by myself.
Hmmm why move on when mentally and spirituality you have not? Just put pressure and take your anxiety out on someone else, for nothing? Does not make sense to me.
And life does not just go on unless you deal with your internal turmoil.
Use it how much you want, just be cautious, where and when.
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2 minutes ago, Ranjeet01 said:
You can never get rid of haumai. It has it's purpose, what you shouldn't do is let it get the better of you.
Always thought medicine was till kill the virus not deal with it
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12 minutes ago, dallysingh101 said:Well, get on with it then brother.
And a little rough and tough banter (online no less) shouldn't derail you.
It looks like the panth is going to face drama in future. We need to toughen it up.
Listen im trying to get away from the tough guy aspect, been there done that, got the scars , had my wife passed away tragically etc.
Jal Tharang Ar Faen, Budhabudhaa, Jal Thae Bhinn N Hoee
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2 minutes ago, dallysingh101 said:
Maybe you need to sort your own head out first then? Did it occur to you that we all might be at different stages?
Plus some of us might want to know what is going on in the world. It effects us, whether we like it or not.
I don't want to be a closeted, overly sensitive person. I don't think any Sikh should be, we've had enough of that already.
I'm trying to brother
Sabh Gobindh Hai, Sabh Gobindh Hai, Gobindh Bin Nehee Koee
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7 minutes ago, dallysingh101 said:I think there is a big problem with many apnay hiding behind 'spirituality' but not facing up to what is going on in the world around them. It's miri/piri, not just piri. We need worldly knowledge. I think your attitude is dangerous to the panth, because it's the same puritan streak that has some fools calling CP vulgar, erotic etc. because some of language and contents are for grown ups. I used that phrase you quote because it has a particular meaning in London that isn't swearing. Look it up.
And I'm surprised at your sensitivity here, because I swear you were the one who said he had been to a Paul Chowdhry gig? If you want to be all puritan, you shouldn't go out to things like that because he swears a lot. What happened to your spirituality then?
Some of us might go other sources for our spiritual development, or maybe they keep that private.
I dont hide, and prefer us talking about sorting our heads out rather than just fixating on maya.
Yes I watched him and ?
Well don't call it Sangat call it daily pub talk or Eastenders.
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I have noticed on this forum, I do not go on others, people more interested in the news rather than spiritual threads.
I thought the whole point of a Sangat was deal and help our spirituality, but more interested in news thread, there was even a thread about Guru Nanak Ji fist Shabad and you allowed someone to say dogs b....... ,
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1 minute ago, MokhamSingh said:
The reason that it doesn’t go away, is because we haven’t allowed Prakash to take place inside us…
When we hear the attributes of the the creator, through Gurbani, then Prakash begins to take place…
First of all we need to listen to the creator's attributes…
When we start to incorporate Gurmat teachings in to our daily lives, this will result in reduction of haumeh….
Without hearing about the creator's attributes, we cannot ever lose haumeh…
So true. Kathataa , bakataa, sunataa, soiee
More self reflection is needed i guess
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4 minutes ago, GurjantGnostic said:
Thinking we understand it mentally and truly demonstrating it are seperated by discipline and practice.
Yeah you are right, knowing and doing i guess.
Har chet man mere too Gur kaa Shabad kamai.
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4 minutes ago, MokhamSingh said:
Haumeh ceases to be when we realise that everything is in the hands of the creator…
Haumeh ceases to be when we realise that everyone and everything is like a puppet on a string…
Haumeh ceases to be when we realise that we are all actors in a movie…we just act out the part that the director instructs us to play out…
Haumeh ceases to be when we realise that the creator is the director…and the everything is the director’s stage…
Hmm but I understand this, and it still doesn't go away
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Been researching up on haumai, I always thought it ment ego, but broken down it apparently means me,me or myself.
So how does one go about getting rid of thinking about myself.
I have tried but keep using i, myself etc
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Sikh pagal hogay let's have another idol to worship
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9 minutes ago, dallysingh101 said:
You should try reading Prof. Sahib Singh's teeka as well. Here's an English translation of some of it:
A lot of meaning derived from Sanskrit , did the meaning translate over into Gurmukhi? Hmmm think i need to study a bit on this, thank you for this though
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This has gone way off topic, can we please stick to the topic, thank you in advance.
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4 hours ago, Premi5 said:
This is one theory:
I'm not sure how 'sorry' to feel for the people there. Were they not Buddhists a lot of them at one time ?
Is it just Taliban that treated non-Muslims there badly and forced then to leave ?
In these situations I try and think and behave how our Gurus would have (not saying im good at it, as the five thieves are always stalking and picking my mind), atrocities against them and they still built a mosque etc.
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Wonder when the civil war starts, Taliban vs IsIs, well played America whats the point on sacrificing your own troops, just get them to kill each other. Found it strange them just up and leaving after 20 years, shady dealings, plus they can already say well we left all this equipment over there, while they are funding one of them. Feel so sorry for the people.
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9 hours ago, Premi5 said:
Anyone able to recommend clear and simple Jap Ji Sahib Katha, in Punjabi audio that they recommend ?
Thanks
Slightly different to what you asked, not specifically jap ji and on YouTube, but finding these from Dharam seva records very enlightening, search for them on YouTube and go to video section . They explain what the hukamnama means in Punjabi and English
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39 minutes ago, Premi5 said:
Do you mean 'paath' rather than 'phaat' ?
I think the accepted way (from observing others and hearing advice of Gianis) is to repeat the line /pauri there and then.
Still do the Ardaas for forgiveness
Yup predictive text
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Hey up, just a quick one , whist doing paath, I sometimes mispronounce bani (usually due to mind wondering), because I have a you tube video on the TV by the side of me, I can not stop, pronounce it correctly, then continue .
I ask forgiveness, once the paath has finished and also ask to keep my mind quite and to not make the mistake again.
Just wanted to know is this right way to go about things, and if you have alternative, please advise.
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Personally I wouldn't take Amrit until the house inside is sorted , no point decorating a house that doesn't have the best foundation.
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He has a lot of videos and posts on LinkedIn, his persistence of making as many people aware of the current situation is commendable, wish the ignorant would grow up, they know the difference. Remember moving into Salford for uni just after 9/11 all the chavy 16-21 year old, shouted the taliban are moving in because house mate was wearing a phaag. A lot of scraps back then.
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19 minutes ago, Arsh1469 said:
Always heard it was guru angad
Found this by Guru Amar Das Ji, might help you.
ਰਾਗ ਆਸਾ ਮਹਲਾ ੩ ਪਟੀ
Raag Aasaa, Third Mehl, Patee - The Alphabet2 -
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3 minutes ago, shastarSingh said:The below is from kamalroop Singhs article on the paintis akhari.
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A similar but much longer bani by Guru Nanak Dev Ji about the Gurmukhi
alphabet is called Paṭī Likhī meaning ‘Writing on the Slate’, and it is in the Adi Sri Guru
Granth Sahib Ji. In this composition the Guru states, ‘No accounting is due from the
Gurmukh who understands the riddle through these letters.’ This also shows the status these letters had for him and also proves he actually standardised the system of
Gurmukhi letters as we know it todayThank you, found it
Patti - Guru Nanak
Page 432, Line 8 to Page 434, Line 11
ਰਾਗ ਆਸਾ ਮਹਲਾ ੧ ਪਟੀ ਲਿਖੀ
Raag Aasaa, First Mehl, Patee Likhee ~ The Poem Of The Alphabet3 -
Sorry about my ignorance, however, I had a thought in my head, most likely something I heard in a Khatha some time ago.
Anywhoo, is there a shabad, in Guru Granth Sahib Ji, about Guru Nanak Ji creating the Gurmukhi alphabet from what I recall it was written when he was really young.
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32 minutes ago, jkvlondon said:
yeah well Richard Pryor was brought up in a brothel so he had a miserable upbringing experiencing the toxicity of human on the daily , that is why he had a stammer , because of the violence he witnessed , his swearing was his defence mechanism . Most of these guys learned to be macho men by mouthing off and deflecting violence by wisecracking.
Paul has no real reason to and it does not help his act as by he's said a gaal five times it isn't worth listening to his ish . he's had the same act for years 70% swearing 30% possible joke/message.
So now if you are born in a certain situation, its ok to swear and such, ok.
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Me, myself and I, how to get rid of haumai
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Ohh I understand now, thank you