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5 minutes ago, Redoptics said:

I know, i was just throwing it out there.

Alright.

29 minutes ago, Redoptics said:

Well didn't Guru Gobind Singh Ji say treat females as your mother's or daughters,  maybe this is where it comes from?

But he also said not to slander.

On 1/9/2019 at 5:57 PM, mahandulai said:

just sed b, that's it, in the music and sikhi thread, so its my fault, that other people are confused now?

Not everybody is from the same place where you are from (regionally speaking).

Therefore, sometimes your Slangs can  be misinterpreted. That is why, Talk in a CIVIC manner. This is a Philosophy Forum, Not a Backyard.

On 1/8/2019 at 7:14 PM, Guest jigsaw_puzzled_singh said:

What other Sikh girls do.

Why should it bother you ? so much.

She is not your family. Not your daughter.

She's got her own mind to make her own decisions. Just as you have yours.

Do girls make notes on what you do. Keep tabs on you. Then talk about you. Write about you. Start threads about you. Post messages about you. And then base their opinion on an entire gender of an entire religion based entirely on what they might have heard YOU do ?

Yes. It's as silly and irrational as it sounds. And yet, on this forum, it still bothers you. What Sikh girls do.

Not just bothers you. But consumes you. Eats you and destroys you. Stops you thinking straight.

You tell others that Sikhism is fantastic because unlike others it values females.

But then you turn around and lecture and judge sikh females based on what they wear and what they choose to do.

You say the bad Muslims are the ones that are a 100% strict about following their religious rules.

But then you say the good Sikhs are the ones that are 100% strict about following their religion's rules.

You say the good Muslims are the ones that are not very strict about their religion and treat all faiths and people equally.

But then you say the bad Sikhs are the ones that are not very strict about their religion and treat all faiths and people equally.

You say the worst and most evil thing ever was the fact that the British Empire had colonial rule over India.

But then you say the best and most pious thing ever was the fact that the Sikh Empire had colonial rule over the non-punjab territories and nations.

They say the anglo language, culture and national traits were largely manifested and then shaped by Shakespeare.

They say the Punjab language, culture and national traits were largely manifested and then shaped by Waris Shah.

Waris Shah wrote a character called Chacha Quaido.

Uncle Quaido. Likes to look at what females from outside his family are getting up to. Likes to judge them. Likes to judge their moral character. Bases the moral order of the whole community solely on what other females do.

Uncle Quaido is not rational. You are uncle Quaido.

Because you let it bother you. so much.

What other Sikh girls do.

100% agree.

It should not Bother anybody.

11 hours ago, Guest SEPERATED SOUL said:

THIS BANI IS FROM SARABLOH GRANTH SAHIB JI AND THIS BANI IS IN GURMUKHI YOU JUST HAVE TO LOOK FOR PDF ANY PDF ON GOOGLE AND BY THE WAY THIS BANI DEDICATED TO ONE MAYA SAROOP MAA WIFE OF AKAL PURAKH SAHIB JI.

Wife of WHO ?

Explain Your statement with your sources please.

2 hours ago, Redoptics said:

Do not put words in my mouth, tell me ohh holy Singh Ji what is the difference between good and evil? Why did Guru Tegh Bahadur, go from being super soldier warrior to the person who gave his head for the Hindus.

He fought for the human rights, i think that's what super soldier warriors do..  and i think that explains that it wasn't Vaheguru doing harsh to vaheguru. 

If it was, then why would Guru Teg Bahadur Interfere...  

16 hours ago, Big_Tera said:

Anyone else feel more attracted to other caste Sikhs then their own community women?

I know there is no caste in Sikhism. But in search of a better word. 

I dont know why, but I find girls from other caste(community) more attractive then my own so called 'caste'. I think its due to them looking different and having different physical attributes and looks.

Ie the girls of my own community are very beautiful, dont get me wrong. But I am slightly put of by them as they look so similar to me due to comming from the same community and hence find slightly repelled. ie being people of the same appearance and looks. 

When I see other caste Sikh girls I defiantly feel more attracted to them as they look different and more unique.

 

 

 

FACEPALM.

1 hour ago, TinnkerBell said:

Then its a kind of dye? Dye is prohibited? Right 

Lol, who is there to prohibit ? Who has the authority to allow ? ..... "

Duniya YAara Rang Birangi, Na eh Bhedi Na eh Changi" XDDDD

mZe lyi jao XD.

24 minutes ago, TinnkerBell said:

I have never known to such case, but  mistersingh bai ji, if some  bibia use bleach then isn’t it a kind of modification to hairs, thus considered as one of hair kurehit?

does bleach remove their hairs or just make them less visible by making it little transparent and brownish?

it helps them to blend with the skin color.

27 minutes ago, TinnkerBell said:

Yes thats right, i just wanted to say that do it as upto your 100 percent energy.  I used to practice so hard Amit bhaji I always finds it hard to pickup a glass of water to take it to my mouth

Balle.....

22 hours ago, Guest chef said:

i am baking my sisters wedding cake - her wedding is tomorow - this is a big chance to prove i should go on master chef and i wanna get it just perfect. However, the flower has run out!!

i know my neighbour has some though, i just broke into his house but now i am wondering whether i should actually take it. Please help, the wedding is depending on me.

 

AND THIS POST TOOK 20 HOURS TO GET APPROVED. LMAO

On 1/5/2019 at 8:55 PM, jathasingh1978 said:

veerji u commented on my post when i said i was addicted could you please help me if u have experienced it to bro

i suffered from that problem too...

Just Start Getting Busier and Busier in life ( with sports or anything )  and You wont have the time for that and the Habit will wear off...

While i dont encourage any kind of a ritual at least against Maharaaj. But Still if you are not convinced by anything then try Using these, These are totally made from Flowers that are showered on idols in Hindu Temples and The Ganges River.... THis is actually a STARTUP by two young indian Men which is flourishing fast...... So, If you are not convinced by anything then try Using these, as these are not Charcoal Made. 

https://www.helpusgreen.com/

4 hours ago, TinnkerBell said:

 

Nikke Bai ji, everyday 8-10 kms running karya kro, 150-200 pushups, 50-60 pullups, after doing this workout if you feel you still got some energy- 8-10 sprints 200m each with 90percent intensity.

 

Jinne k hunde onne k kreyo pehl XD.

9 hours ago, AjeetSinghPunjabi said:

She's a nice person so far, since more than a month in marriage.

And she makes nice food too , but I find it bizzaring how she wants to feed me all the time , not during usual breakfast, lunch and dinner , but inbetween lets say we having panjeeri with milk and if she feels i am not partaking of it, she assertively tried to feed me , as if i am a child. She fills the spoon and brings it near my mouth and says "chalo now eat it. " Even if I repeatedly say I don't want to , she gets upset and keeps insisting. Then she does more cleverness. If we agree I will have only one spoon of it , she gives me one spoonfull and soon enough brings another spoonful.

Is this seemingly sweet act an insidious passive-agrressive way to take over

She Loves you man. Btw it's just because you guys are newly married, it will eventually settle down by time...

14 hours ago, Guest Avoid THOT said:

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Hahahaha, Apna PAkh peSh kro.... Character nhi..... Je mai galat saabit hoya ta zroor mnunga

13 hours ago, GuestSingh said:

practice what u preach...

where does gurmat say this?

But we are not concerned about the early life of GURU ANGAD dev ji, and Guru Amar dass ji, before they came into SIKHI, are we ?

Shouldn't the same thing apply here ?

11 hours ago, GurjantGnostic said:

"Lol.  I'm not racist or anything, I just cherry pick random articles about black people and crime and post them habitually. "

Lol, Yes he is Racist.

He critisize everything....... On his Laptop XD.

Oops, i think i did the same XDDDDDD.

5 hours ago, MOD said:

I vote for mahandulai to not be under quality control.

Although mahandulai does seem like a troll, i've looked into it and he doesn't seem like a troll. Just misunderstood and discovering himself. Half of the reason he's in QC is because other members will take it the wrong way I'm assuming.

 

We all start somewhere.

Agree.

5 minutes ago, Redoptics said:

Btw, my point being its ok to talk ish about white people , but in a separate thread it is not ok to have s€x before marriage even if its before you get into Sikhi.

I dont think you can reject a MAN or a WOMAN based on what their past is. An individual's Present is what it all Matters, Nothin Else.

Judging Someone's Purity based on their Physical relations in the past, while they are totally a different person now, is the Most Un-pure thing one would say acc. To Gurmat.

1 minute ago, Redoptics said:

Ohh I see , so we can be hypocritical when it suits us then? Minus the senior members

Lol, i didn't mean that.

just saying thag they were wise enough not to critisize other people. 

Just saying that judging someone is not morally right.

Hahaha, "hypocritical when it suits us then?" No no dont put words on my mouth. Lol

On 12/26/2018 at 5:55 AM, Akalifauj said:

Meditate on what though?  Gurbani says follow the Guru's teachings and this applies for every person in creation.  Read Japji sahib and we find, by remaining silent, which is Buddhist meditation,  inner silents is not found.  The Buddhist do not get rid of the ego.  The goal of religion/spirituality is not to meditate but to lose the ego and realize who the self is. The true identity of everyone is Ik Onkar.  How can anyone reach Ik Onkar when the ego is being fed in meditation which is suppose to be a tool to get rid of it?  Mool Mantar says Gur parsad.  And the Buddhist do not have this in meditation.   They are better than rest of the other religions that don't have Gur Parsad because they meditate majority of the time but still lacking as  I described above.

Original poster, the above was addressed to Buddhist but you are in similar position but you have the True Guru to learn from where they don't.  When Sikh meditates on Gurbani with mind fully focused you will notice how the Guru is showing your mistakes and lighting the dark path.  The Nanak naam, singh is right in saying cutting hair is about the ego.  And you are feeding the ego and traveling further away from the Guru as you cut your hair.  A Sikh who eats something to fill an urge of sugar will feel bad after doing it and will deeply think of how the urge came in his mind and will do extra paath to stop the urge.  Now in the Gursikhs mind he did such a big mistake by eating a little bit of sugar. From non spiritual perspective they would think the person is taking life too seriously and needs to take a chill pill.  From his perspective what will he think of himself if he cut his hair?  He rather die than cut his hair.  So from a gursikh perspective how big of a mistake are you making?  You are read Gurbani I take it.  This is a very good and you are on the right path but if you want to progress and receive the Guru's blessing.  Then throw the razor and scissors away and give your mind to the Guru and let The True Guru guide you to Vaheguru. 

How do we assume that Buddhists are full of EGO. ?

8 minutes ago, Redoptics said:

I know but we are doing in this thread?

You may have noticed many Senior members in this forum didn't bother to have a contribution on this thread.

On 1/5/2019 at 12:40 AM, Guest Tom said:

Hi, i am a 34 year old white British male, I was pushed into the Christian faith from a young age but as I have grown older I have found that I am quite clearly not a Christian, even from a young age I have never been a massive church goer and I can't imagine that no matter what religion I follow that will change. However i find my self drawn to the religion of Sikhism and it's teachings.

I have read that there is no formal ceremony to convert, is it just a case of finding the teachings of Sikhism the most pertinent to you and following what you choose?

Any advice would be greatly appreciated.

Thanks

 

Tom

 

For Sikhs, Our Values/Teachings are most important, Everything comes next.

There is also a Baptism in Sikhi Called "Amrit-Sanchaar". Basically what Holy Water is in Christianity. 

But That is for later. 

Good Luck with you journey, Hope you find True Path and God in yourself.

16 hours ago, Guest akaal said:

why are many ppl saying that guru gobind singh jis gurpurab today when it is on the 13th? 

Some people follow Bikarami Calendar.

Some follow NanakShahi Calendar. 

Some people follow NanakShahi because they dont want their Dates to be changed every Year acc. To Bikrami.

People follow Bikrami because thats what traditionally has been used.