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23 hours ago, Guest balak said:

make sure she makes aeroplane sounds when bringing the spoon to your mouth, otherwise don't accept it.

that's what i do.

Hahaha

6 hours ago, Amit12 said:

Lol, who is there to prohibit ? Who has the authority to allow ? ..... "

Duniya YAara Rang Birangi, Na eh Bhedi Na eh Changi" XDDDD

mZe lyi jao XD.

Prohibited by sikh rehat maryada

7 minutes ago, MisterrSingh said:

I would think so. But those who do it usually present some loophole or another that justifies it, lol. I stopped caring a while ago. It's just amusing to see, that's all.

Kalyug, ghor kalyug bai ji

Just now, Amit12 said:

it helps them to blend with the skin color.

 

Then its a kind of dye? Dye is prohibited? Right 

20 hours ago, MisterrSingh said:

It's quite common. Of course, they'll try to convince you that's how it grows naturally, lol. 

I have never known to such case, but  mistersingh bai ji, if some  bibia use bleach then isn’t it a kind of modification to hairs, thus considered as one of hair kurehit?

does bleach remove their hairs or just make them less visible by making it little transparent and brownish?

20 hours ago, Amit12 said:

Jinne k hunde onne k kreyo pehl XD.

Yes thats right, i just wanted to say that do it as upto your 100 percent energy.  I used to practice so hard Amit bhaji I always finds it hard to pickup a glass of water to take it to my mouth

17 hours ago, jathasingh1978 said:

sahi gal veerji ur right i tired that today and it worked ive had a successful day in not watching it today thank u alot

Good veer good,

bass athletics and sports cho eena jor lawo, eena jor lawo ke raat nu bed te onde saar neend aa jawe

running kar kar ke body di bass krado veer- eho ekko ekk jugti aa energy spend karn di

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On 12/24/2018 at 2:31 AM, Guest H.S.j said:

I watched a video about by Nanak naam on this topic but I'm still left very confused. I am wondering if there is even a point to meditate and pray if you trim your beard? 

i don't intend to to trim forever, just for a few years at uni,  I still want to feel connected to sikhi and doing naam and not dm allows me to feel good, but I can't help but feel like I'm lying to myself by balancing a spiritual life and a non spiritual life, I like to devote my 100% to everything I do, am I just being counter productive if I meditate or is it still better than nothing? 

I know now many of you will say stop trimming, and yes I know I will eventually, but while I am doing it, shall I continue to pray and do naam? 

 

Would appriciate your thoughts? 

 

 

We sikhs keep hairs and consider it as a blessing from Parmatama, there are religions who don’t beleive in keeping hairs and religions like jainism- they pull all hairs out.

Sikhi is one way of merging with God

there could be another infinite different ways as well

On 11/20/2017 at 10:19 PM, Guest Singh said:

Hi,

This has probably been discussed before but it's something I can't really wrap my head around. I'm a singh with full beard and have cousins who are the same, we are finding it difficult to find Sikh girls as life partners. The ones I've been introduced to have a problem with me not cutting my beard and being vegetarian etc... few have asked me if I would cut my beard etc... this coming from supposedly Sikh girls and it's quite disgraceful. 

I've had more interest from girls who are not Sikh...i.e Gujarati, English girls etc.. who don't seem to care about me being a full singh, it's raising questions in my head about the future of Sikhi as a whole, our Sikh girls are moving away from our faith/traditions and adopting western values and ways above all. One of my cousins got fed up and cut his beard in the hopes to be more 'accepted', but I feel this is the wrong choice to make. I'd be lying if I said the thought didn't cross my mind but I don't want to move away from Sikhi just to find a wife, but it seems like our Sikh girls are. 

 

Suppose this is more of a rant than a question as such. 

Bai ji bni koi gall tuhadi ke nai ? 

On 1/5/2019 at 6:38 PM, MisterrSingh said:

No female responses, lol. Coz they bleach or trim it, even the amritdhari bibiya. 

Amritdhari bibia trim hairs? Really?

Ethe savne aahi kehna veere, kise ne kehna k simran karlo, kise ne sangat change krn nu dasna, kise ne advise krna k shabad kirtan sikhlo- par veer jo energy ander deposit aa oh thounu playground vich hi spend krni peni aa

On 1/5/2019 at 5:26 AM, jathasingh1978 said:

vaheguru jee ka vaheguru jee kee fateh iam singh in uk and i'm in my late teens i am amritdhari and i face a huge pornography addiction iknw its wrong but i really need help iam scared of telling anyone cuzz i know ill be judged.

its an addiction its not even jus hindering my sikhi but its ls also making me fail my a levels.

cuzz of the pornography addiction i cant complete my assignments and iam failing and my parents just think iam lazy thats why iam failing as humble brother i need in the dark age of kalyug can anyone help me please i would reallly appreciate

 

vahegurooo jee kak khalsa vaehguroo jee kee fateh

On 1/5/2019 at 5:26 AM, jathasingh1978 said:

vaheguru jee ka vaheguru jee kee fateh iam singh in uk and i'm in my late teens i am amritdhari and i face a huge pornography addiction iknw its wrong but i really need help iam scared of telling anyone cuzz i know ill be judged.

its an addiction its not even jus hindering my sikhi but its ls also making me fail my a levels.

cuzz of the pornography addiction i cant complete my assignments and iam failing and my parents just think iam lazy thats why iam failing as humble brother i need in the dark age of kalyug can anyone help me please i would reallly appreciate

 

vahegurooo jee kak khalsa vaehguroo jee kee fateh

Brother, at your age you should be getting prizes and medals in athletics and other sports. 

Nikke Bai ji, everyday 8-10 kms running karya kro, 150-200 pushups, 50-60 pullups, after doing this workout if you feel you still got some energy- 8-10 sprints 200m each with 90percent intensity.

if still you have issues then come back here I will give you another set of exercises. I always read posts here regarding pornography, etc. People ask here , sangat ji plz help, help me etc- and these type of posts get maximum views. you have to help yourself bai ji. 

The one who really wants a healthy,enthusiastic lifestyle dont ask for help here. If you want to stop this habit- just stop it doing. Surveys said if you do something’s for 21 times- it becomes a habit, similarly its opposite as well.

koi games.sports te Athleticc etc vich zor laya karo bai ji- tusi kehria galla ch pye firde o? Roz da 2-3 hrs da workout krya karo- fer dekhio je porn vall dekhan nu dil v ni krna. Athletics kro veer full jor laake. Sari energy othe spend kro.

17 hours ago, savalakhsingh said:

What is everyone's new years resolutions? To do with sikhi or not, let me know!

Mine is:

* Read a dharmic book every day
* Of course - maintain amritvela
* Listen to katha every day even if 2 mins

Very good

On 12/29/2018 at 12:49 AM, puzzled said:

I think the end is near! 

Bai ji tusi draa hi ditta

16 minutes ago, Amit12 said:

Dont know man, eh mere har comment te reply krke mnu Athiest dsda XD. 

TBH i was having fun with him, but eh Quote te krda nahi meri kOi v athiest gall, which is the only thing annoying. :')

O koi ni bai ji , thande reha karo saare jaane. Lok garm jaldi hon lag gye- tadde hi global warming hoi jndi aa

Amit, akalifauj pyar nal gall krlo bai yar ldi kahnu janne o

1 hour ago, JSinghnz said:

Criminal Congress was the main one to be blamed and there is no other picture in this scenario.

Theek aa bai ji.

37 minutes ago, JSinghnz said:

The whole Congress led by Indra and then her son Rajiv was responsible for the genocide. The majority had nothing to do with it. It was the criminal leaders of criminal party Congress who caused this genocide. 

Indira and her son died long time ago, if only few leaders were responsible then who is helping Sajjan and Tytler like goons still not going to jail. I used to think exactly like you bro but there is a bigger picture to consider, many other factors and other causes. Congress has done unpardonable crime against Sikhs but congress indira and her son are not the only ones to blame. Baki savde apo apne views ji. 

6 hours ago, JSinghnz said:

So you putting your hopes on a leader of a party which was responsible for causing the biggest massacre of Sikhs. This is as dumb as dumb can be. Same nonsense was applied by Sikhs in Punjab when they put Congress back to power in the state. 

JSinghnz bai ji, my family and me have never voted congress after 1984 and we never voted congress before 1984 either.

when this AAP started to rise in punjab winning 4 seats, everyone in punjab was happy as we all thought delayed but yes finally punjab got some good party in punjab. We were all supporters of AAP, I personally used to call backhome India requesting my friends to vote for AAP. The day Congress won I was unhappy just like you are now.

But Bai ji Congress is way better than AAP ( no need to talk about SAD- they are thugs). AAP is all a bunch of  greedy people claiming themselves as good. I Came to punjab after long time- Congress system is a little better. AAP was the only hope but they destroyed themselves- please don’t blame people of punjab.

AAP started to sell seats for money, its name is AAP but they have all previous thugs from akalis and congress.

In concern to 1984 genocide, the whole congress is not responsible for it bai ji as we all think,  1984 attack and after October genocide was a result of Hindu majorities on us, not only the congress. Lots of incidents, shootings and be.advi of guru sahibs happened in akalis raj and still happening as well. ( but still i never voted congress)

thanks

Hanji true

1 hour ago, dallysingh101 said:

I think a better question than the one in the OP is:

Do certain online forums consist of a disproportionate amount of depressed, excessively pessimistic apnay? I think so.

If people think things are bad now, only Waheguru knows what sort of sandbags such people would have been in truly trying times like the mid 1700s. Let's put it in perspective. In their own heartland Singhs and Singhnia were hunted down to the extent that they had to live in jungles (which were dangerous places in themselves), or vacate the area completely. Darbar Sahib was occupied and being used in the most disrespectful way by Massa Ranghar.  Necklaces made of babies. Large numbers of the community were killed in the two ghallugharas. If it ever looked like our days were numbered it was then. 

But what happened? People steeled themselves and faced down the threats they faced fiercely. Within a few decades apnay had taken over the region against all odds, creating nothing short of a superpower state. 

We could all do with remembering this. 

 

Bai ji, you are right. Those times were far more difficult. Sikhs back in history have seen really a very hard time. 

6 hours ago, Guest Hukam said:

Why would you even want to marry and make someone’s life a living hell in the first place? Life is NOT ONLY about marrying and producing dozens of coarse, ill-mannered buffoons.  Let’s face it, kids these days are totally immersed in maya and light years away from sikhi.  Stay single,  don’t even bother looking for anyone, and dedicate your life to Sikhi. Live your life according toi vaheguru’s bhana and see light in everyone.

There is light in everyone, don’t deny it.

These are your own thoughts bai ji, I respect your thoughts 

but I disagree ji.

thanks

5 hours ago, puzzled said:

Yeah kalki avtaar bani says all of those things. It is scary, but if you look at the news these days a lot of this stuff has already started happening.

Hanji many things and predictions are already started ji

5 hours ago, Torontobboi said:

Not true Islam is growing 

Bai ji, the Number of islam followers are growing , islam is not growing. Their claim they are growing very fast but checkout their islamic forums, visit islam majority cities and you will see how down they are already fallen from original principles 

2 minutes ago, RajKaregaKhalsa1 said:

Yo that's kinda scary, but Shaheedi is a blessing.

I think I also heard Sant ji say a time will come when Sikhs will have to hold a Gutka in one hand and a kirpan in the other.

I haven’t heard of this before. Can you please refer to where sant ji said this, or any youtube link etc? 

I would like to listen to that.

thanks bai ji