Sonita

Media has a lot to do with how women and men are influenced to have certain preferences towards their 'ideal' partner, 'drummed into submission' so we believe we might like a slim/fit guy but that isn't necessarily our true beliefs. Some years ago i was trapped into believing that a handsome fit guy was the being all and end all i needed and it turns out that i met the most interesting, caring honest guy who yes was overish weight but what did that matter he was such a beautiful person i surpassed all those doubts and cliches about 'fat people'.

I have not long returned from visiting my family near Southall i was making many trips to the Ramgarhia Sabha Gurdwara and now i am missing it! I was considering contacting the Kent Uni Sikh society i shall give it ago many thanks.

I have not long returned from visiting my family near Southall i was making many trips to the Ramgarhia Sabha Gurdwara and now i am missing it! I was considering contacting the Kent Uni Sikh society i shall give it ago many thanks.

Waheguru Ji Ka Khalsa Waheguru Ji Ke Fateh, My nearest Gurdwara is the Guru Nanak Darbar in Gravesend which is unfortunately quite far for me to get to by public transport at least 1 hr away, so i am seeking out those that are in the same boat who are living in Canterbury and cannot find a single Sikh to cohort with. For me having originally come from a predominantly Sikh community it is important to find a mutual background with those that share the same values. many thanks