Tarrandeep Kaur
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<<<<I'm talking about Bana, NOT about men wrestling topless.>>>>
yes i know, but with your logic 'boys dont have to wear pyjami so why do bibia have to wear them'
then should we say men did this.. so should women do that....
i am not going to discuss this no more with you. if you are going to make points you should be prepared to listen to the other side. i know there are two sides, i was merely expressing my veiws.
nothing more to say.
vahigurujikakhalsa vahigurujikifateh.
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I don't think its a big deal if bibia don't wear pyjami underneath their baana. The only reason people say this is due to lust. If everyone was bhramgyanis; both men and women, they wouldn't say its a must for bibia to wear pyjami because they will be free of lust and will see the light of God in all. Guru Ji did NOT make this a rehit, so no one can say its a must. If Bibia wear bana without pyjami they are covered enough; we are not muslims.
no. bibia must wear pyjami.
you cant say oh singhs dont wear pyjami, so bibia dont have to wear them.
in guru jees time, the singhs used to wrestle topless, shud bibia do the same?
at smagams and that wen its really hot you see singhs walking around in their kachere and nothing else, is it ok for bibia to do the same?
i think not.
do you really think worrying about if you should have to wear pyjami is gonna help you? why wouldnt you want to wear them? you yourself sed wear baana 24/7, in most countries pyjami is a must for singhs aswell because its so cold.
just do us a favour, keep your pyjami on bibi jee.
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erm if a sighni wanted to wear full bani, without leggings under long kashera? where does maryada stand on this?
I remember this being discussed on Tapoban (the old forum) - try running a search there.
hmmm bibia must wear pyjami underneath there baana.
to be honest i think people make out that wearing baana is a massive thing, and something which must be so hard to do, especially when going to work. and we all respect people who wear baana, blah blah lol. we as gursikhs must try to keep rehit, japp naam, recite gurbaani, respect others, try to control 5 theives etc, on a daily basis, this is hard work. its a constant battle. wearing baana is easy, compared to battling the mind.
i think wearing it to work is a must too, its great parchaar, so many goreh ask me questions and have a deep respect for me and my religion. its a reminder for me too, that as well as looking like a sikh, i need to act like a sikh.
vahigurooo
baana is essential for sikhs to wear.
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im not married myself, so im probably not the best person to give out advice.
but before you start making decisions such as leaving her or getting people involved. The first thing you should do is talk to her. It maybe the most difficult option, but you have to just talk to her. Tell her about the photos, and hear her side. Do ardas that you are able to accept mahrajs sweet will. I know its probably gonna be really tough for you but dont forget you've got mahraj on your side. Its reallt sad that shes amritdhari and shes done this
and youve got kids...... try and put there needs first. its horrible growing up when there so much tension between your parents.sorry if ive said anything wrong, maybe you should contact older gursikhs from the tapoban forum.
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hope mahraj continues to bless you with more seva.
mosr of all hope you get blessed with amrit realllllll soon :nihungsmile:
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vahiguroooo
im loving this forum at the moment so many posts on gurbaani and naam simran
soo much kirpaa!!!
lets inspire each other.........
vahigurooo vahigurooo vahigurooo vahiguroooo
eyk inmK jy ibsrY suAwmI jwnau koit idns lK brIAw ]
If I were to forget my Lord and Master, even for an instant, it would be like millions of days, tens of thousands of years.
swDsMgiq kI BIr jau pweI qau nwnk hir sMig imrIAw ]2]1]24]
When I joined the Saadh Sangat, the Company of the Holy, O Nanak, I met my Lord. ||2||1||24||
vahiguroo vahiguroo vahgurooooo vahiguroo vahiguroo vahiguroooo
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vahiguroooo
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swrg mhlw 5 ]
Saarang, Fifth Mehla:
mweI rI Awn ismir mir jWih ]
O mother, by meditating in remembrance on some other, the mortal dies.
iqAwig goibdu jIAn ko dwqw mwieAw sMig lptwih ]1] rhwau ]
Forsaking the Lord of the Universe, the Giver of souls, the mortal is engrossed and entangled in Maya. ||1||Pause||
nwmu ibswir clih An mwrig nrk Gor mih pwih ]
Forgetting the Naam, the Name of the Lord, he walks on some other path, and falls into the most horrible hell.
Aink sjWeI gxq n AwvY grBY griB BRmwih ]1]
He suffers uncounted punishments, and wanders from womb to womb in reincarnation. ||1||
sy DnvMqy sy piqvMqy hir kI srix smwih ]
They alone are wealthy, and they alone are honorable, who are absorbed in the Sanctuary of the Lord.
gur pRswid nwnk jgu jIiqE bhuir n Awvih jWih ]2]88]111]
By Guru's Grace, O Nanak, they conquer the world; they do not come and go in reincarnation ever again. ||2||88||111||
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bsMqu ihMfol mhlw 4 ]
Basant Hindol, Fourth Mehla:
mnu iKnu iKnu Brim Brim bhu DwvY iqlu Gir nhI vwsw pweIAY ]
Each and every moment, my mind roams and rambles, and runs all over the place. It does not stay in its own home, even for an instant.
guir AMksu sbdu dwrU isir DwirE Gir mMdir Awix vsweIAY ]1]
But when the bridle of the Shabad, the Word of God, is placed over its head, it returns to dwell in its own home. ||1||
goibMd jIau sqsMgiq myil hir iDAweIAY ]
O Dear Lord of the Universe, lead me to join the Sat Sangat, the True Congregation, so that I may meditate on You, Lord.
haumY rogu gieAw suKu pwieAw hir shij smwiD lgweIAY ]1] rhwau ]
I am cured of the disease of egotism, and I have found peace; I have intuitively entered into the state of Samaadhi. ||1||Pause||
Gir rqn lwl bhu mwxk lwdy mnu BRimAw lih n skweIAY ]
This house is loaded with countless gems, jewels, rubies and emeralds, but the wandering mind cannot find them.
ijau Efw kUpu guhj iKn kwFY iqau siqguir vsqu lhweIAY ]2]
As the water-diviner finds the hidden water, and the well is then dug in an instant, so do we find the object of the Name through the True Guru. ||2||
ijn AYsw siqguru swDu n pwieAw qy iDRgu iDRgu nr jIvweIAY ]
Those who do not find such a Holy True Guru - cursed, cursed are the lives of those people.
jnmu pdwrQu puMin Plu pwieAw kaufI bdlY jweIAY ]3]
The treasure of this human life is obtained when one's virtues bear fruit, but it is lost in exchange for a mere shell. ||3||
mDusUdn hir Dwir pRB ikrpw kir ikrpw gurU imlweIAY ]
O Lord God, please be merciful to me; be merciful, and lead me to meet the Guru.
jn nwnk inrbwx pdu pwieAw imil swDU hir gux gweIAY ]4]4]6]
Servant Nanak has attained the state of Nirvaanaa; meeting with the Holy people, he sings the Glorious Praises of the Lord. ||4||4||6||
vahigurooo vahigurooooo vahiguroooo!!!
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thankyou for your naam
duKu suKu Bwxw qyrw hovY ivxu nwvY jIau rhY nwhI ]4]
Pain and pleasure come by Your Will; without the Name, the soul does not even exist. ||4||
vahiguru vahiguru vahiguru vahiguroo vahiguroo vahiguroo vahigurooo vahiguroo vahiguroo vahiguroo vahiguroo vahiguroo vahiguroo vahiguroo vahiguroo vahiguroo vahiguroo vahigurooooooo vahiguroo vahiguroo vahigurooo vahiguroo vahiguroo vahiguroo vahiguroo vahiguroo vahiguroo vahiguroo vahiguroo vahiguroo vahiguroo vahiguroo vahiguroo vahiguroo vahiguroo vahiguroo vahiguroooo!!
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hir jIau qU suK sMpiq rwis ]
O Dear Lord, You are my peace, wealth and capital.
rwiK lYhu BweI myry kau pRB AwgY Ardwis ] rhwau ]
Please, save me, O my Beloved! I offer this prayer to my God. ||Pause||
jo mwgau soeI soeI pwvau Apny Ksm Brosw ]
Whatever I ask for, I receive; I have total faith in my Master.
khu nwnk guru pUrw ByitE imitE sgl AMdysw ]2]14]42]
Says Nanak, I have met with the Perfect Guru, and all my fears have been dispelled. ||2||14||42||
vahigurooooooo :WW:
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vahiguroo,
i love these sorts of posts.
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alot of amritdhari youths are in relationships to some "undercover" others not so much. Alot of sikhs that i have come across always seem to have in their minds you shouldn't go to clubs etc... because all you go for is to look and chat up members of the opposite sex ( some go to the extreme that you should avoid even talking to people of the opposite sex) but at the same time you have sikhs youth in they baanas etc.. going to kirtan programmes and rehansbhais ( which is good) but all they do is talk to girls and boys their maybe even "flirt" , whats the difference between someone going to a club and trying to find someone and someone who goes to a gurdwara and does it.
I find alot of people who wear dastaars and keep beards and maybe amritdhari to be really stuck up, they tend to stay away from people that may not be as into sikhi as them,
paaji/penji
ok so there maybe SOME people who do them things you have stated, but so what. If they are doing these silly actions, what concern is it to you. this mentality of they do this so why cant we do this, seems rather silly. If they are doing wrong actions then they will be dealt with, in the meantime, you avoid the mistakes they make and try harder.
ok some people distance themselves from others due to appearance which is wrong. and we shouldnt have this mentality. however there are some people i know personally that prefer to just have sangat of gursikhs, but that doesnt mean they would ignore non sikh people.
at the end of the day were not perfect, us youth are constantly making mistakes and learning from them. Its a shame that people fail to pick out the good points that the youth do. Like i said dont worry about peoples bad actions and focus on your own actions.
sorry if ive said anything wrong.
gurfateh jeeo.
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sex before marriage is wrong becuase it is a bajjar kurehit.
yes alot of people are in the position were your parents dont always know best when it comes to marriage, in that case try get some older gursikhs to help. Or other family/friends. Its one of those things that will just happen, without you worrying too much about it.
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64 pages on this? u must be joking. If you havent got something to say which sticks to the topic, dont say it at all, simple really.
Since you guys have so much spare time, contribute/have a read of these topics instead
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gurmuiK suxxw swcw nwau ]
As Gurmukh, listen to the True Name.
nwnk AwKxu vyrw vyr ]
O Nanak, chant it, over and over again.
iequ rMig nwchu riK riK pYr ]4]6]
So dance in this love, and keep the beat with your feet. ||4||6||
VAHIGUROO VAHIGUROO VAHIGUROO VAHIGUROO VAHIGUROO VAHIGUROO VAHIGUROOO :WW:
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dyvgMDwrI ]
Dayv-Gandhaaree:
mn ijau Apuny pRB Bwvau ]
O my mind, act as it pleases God.
nIchu nIcu nIcu Aiq nwn@w hoie grIbu bulwvau ]1] rhwau ]
Become the lowest of the low, the very least of the tiny, and speak in utmost humility. ||1||Pause||
Aink AfMbr mwieAw ky ibrQy qw isau pRIiq Gtwvau ]
The many ostentatious shows of Maya are useless; I withhold my love from these.
ijau Apuno suAwmI suKu mwnY qw mih soBw pwvau ]1]
As something pleases my Lord and Master, in that I find my glory. ||1||
dwsn dws ryxu dwsn kI jn kI thl kmwvau ]
I am the slave of His slaves; becoming the dust of the feet of his slaves, I serve His humble servants.
srb sUK bifAweI nwnk jIvau muKhu bulwvau ]2]5]
I obtain all peace and greatness, O Nanak, living to chant His Name with my mouth. ||2||5||
vahiguru vahiguru vahiguru vahiguru vahiguru vahiguru vahiguru vahiguru0 -
woah great advice from heera paaji, lol.you know what its up to you at the end of the day penji, no ones gona tell you wat to do. You might be all excited that its your wedding day, but dont loose sight of the significance of the anand kaaraj. Its about you commiting yourself to mahraj, its about you and your husband starting together, onto the path to mahraj. Do you usually get all dressed up everytime you go to the gurdwara? Do you put on your lengha and you jewelry? No? So why is this occasion any different, only difference is lots of people will be there. So then your dressing to impress them and your husband to be?
Dress to impress mahraj, dress simply. Ive never seen many amritdhari bibia wear the colour red, and i dont want to make a whole debate about it. But i think you should try and stick to the khalsa colours, red is just sooo..... ergh lol.
at the end of the day its you intentions, so have a good think about them, and see if ther in line with the gurmat way of life.
sorry if ive said anythink out of order.
gurfateh jee
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yup, good idea lol.
thanks paaji.
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for us tomtom dependant people, could you please provide postcodes for the different locations.
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bsMqu bwxI nwmdyau jI kI
Basant, The Word Of Naam Dayv Jee:
<> siqgur pRswid ]
One Universal Creator God. By The Grace Of The True Guru:
swihbu sMktvY syvku BjY ]
If the servant runs away when his master is in trouble,
icrMkwl n jIvY doaU kul ljY ]1]
he will not have a long life, and he brings shame to all his family. ||1||
qyrI Bgiq n Cofau BwvY logu hsY ]
I shall not abandon devotional worship of You, O Lord, even if the people laugh at me.
crn kml myry hIAry bsYN ]1] rhwau ]
The Lord's Lotus Feet abide within my heart. ||1||Pause||
jYsy Apny Dnih pRwnI mrnu mWfY ]
The mortal will even die for the sake of his wealth;
qYsy sMq jnW rwm nwmu n CwfYN ]2]
in the same way, the Saints do not forsake the Lord's Name. ||2||
gMgw gieAw godwvrI sMswr ky kwmw ]
Pilgrimages to the Ganges, the Gaya and the Godawari are merely worldly affairs.
nwrwiexu supRsMn hoie q syvku nwmw ]3]1]
If the Lord were totally pleased, then He would let Naam Dayv be His servant. ||3||1|| :WW:
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Once upon a time, there was a Guroo Pyaara who was about to get married. He was very excited and nervous, but also he looked foward to meeting his Guru. Then suddenly,something appeared before him ... it's david beckham! He had always......................chak de phathe!!!
ok thats the end then, like u said on the first thread, if you say chak de phathe, the story has finsihed.
so thanks everyone great story <_<
vahiguroooooooo
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