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Tarrandeep Kaur

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  1. sUhI ]

    Soohee:

    jo idn Awvih so idn jwhI ]

    That day which comes, that day shall go.

    krnw kUcu rhnu iQru nwhI ]

    You must march on; nothing remains stable.

    sMgu clq hY hm BI clnw ]

    Our companions are leaving, and we must leave as well.

    dUir gvnu isr aUpir mrnw ]1]

    We must go far away. Death is hovering over our heads. ||1||

    ikAw qU soieAw jwgu ieAwnw ]

    Why are you asleep? Wake up, you ignorant fool!

    qY jIvnu jig scu kir jwnw ]1] rhwau ]

    You believe that your life in the world is true. ||1||Pause||

    ijin jIau dIAw su irjku AMbrwvY ]

    The One who gave you life shall also provide you with nourishment.

    sB Gt BIqir hwtu clwvY ]

    In each and every heart, He runs His shop.

    kir bMidgI Cwif mY myrw ]

    Meditate on the Lord, and renounce your egotism and self-conceit.

    ihrdY nwmu sm@wir svyrw ]2]

    Within your heart, contemplate the Naam, the Name of the Lord, sometime. ||2||

    jnmu isrwno pMQu n svwrw ]

    Your life has passed away, but you have not arranged your path.

    sWJ prI dh ids AMiDAwrw ]

    Evening has set in, and soon there will be darkness on all sides.

    kih rivdws indwin idvwny ]

    Says Ravi Daas, O ignorant mad-man,

    cyqis nwhI dunIAw Pn Kwny ]3]2]

    don't you realize, that this world is the house of death?! ||3||2||

    vahiguru vahiguru vahiguru vahiguru vahiguru vahiguru pray.gif

  2. im sorry peacemaker... but when did i judge them?? and i dont think what i said was harsh!! how did i 'right them off'?? IM SO SORRY 4 SHARING MY OPINION ON A SIKH YOUTH FORUM... what was i thinkin? :)

    lol i compltely agree with your points. Thing is you've been broguht up with sikhi and told the importance of keeping kesh huna.

    But say if there were some bibia who always used to remove their kesh, then they start coming into sikhi, its going to be harder for them. So then its gonna be a big deal for them huna, and then we should try encourage them to keep rehit. But for gursikhs like yourself keeping kesh is a priviilige and an honour. respect.gif

    p.s) i require a meal for next week <_<

    gurfateh jee

  3. Fateh ji

    I was listening to rehraas from sri harmandir sahib...and they cut the bani like didnt say the 2 pauris at the end from Anthar gur aradhna........and dont say the Dukh dharoo sukh roog pia part??

    how cums? <_<

    Vaheguroo

    yeah this is also how i do rehraas sahib.

    hmm a gursikh told me that the dukh daroo sukh rog bhaeea.. bit is from asa kee vaar not rehraas sahib, and the end shabads ......not too sure.

    I think the shabads up to chaupaae sahib are in the same order they apear in guru granth sahib jee, and the last two shabads after anand sahib are from end of guru granth sahib jee, which is were rehraas sahib is meant to finish. he said bhai sahib randhir singh did rehraas sahib this way too.

    chalo no big deal, the more baani one reads the better.

  4. god made me who i am....i love my kesh...wherever it may be....

    people who say it is hard to get married because of it....the way i try to see things is that there is a bigger picture out there...bigger than wheather youre married or not....if no1 will marry you then o well thats the worlds loss...because i will tell you there is one person that will be your dear husband....and that is Vaheguru himself....its just another test in lyfe...dont worry....dont break your rehat over it....its not that important...nothing in this world is that important...love yourself for being who maharaj wanted you to be....we are here to impress the great man upstair...and he wont be impressed weather you get a rista or not...but more so if u can fight this crazy world in order to keep your asool

    i for one am so happy with my facial kesh...and it will never hold me back in doing anything in life...and if that means that i dont get married then o well....one door closes and another opens rite....but i will never shut that door to vaheguru...never will i write that letter of betrayal to my guru...

    also i heard a somewhere once a girl saying to her brother that "a girl looks to her brother, to see how a girl is to be treated in life...if her brother treats other girls like crap and judges them for there so called "imperfections"...then that is how that girl learns how other guys are meant to treat her"....remember guys these are your sisters...if you treat them indiffeently because you dont see them as your real sisters then that is exactly how one day some other guy is going to treat your blood sister....

    sorry for mistakes

    vahigurooo!! d_oh.gif

    amazing post penji!! respect.gif

    Before i took amrit i used to bleach because i wanted to 'fit in'

    Now i am more than happy and proud of my facial hair, wouldnt change it for the world! like penji said try to please mahraj and not others!

    vahiguroooo!!

  5. ^^^^^

    And responses like those, at the end of a very long thread where people put a lot of time in giving their opinions, just make you feel like TOTAL CRAP!

    calm down, i meant that people have given their opinions wich is great, but now people are going off topic and keep going over the same stuff agen and agen, wich will lead to silly debates.

    i was trying to say that there have been sum gud responses but lets leave it at tht, such a long thread.....

  6. How would she know? Does she use this forum? You already told some of it here and have gotten everybody concernced...

    i think she does.

    i wanted advice generally on how to deal with someone who is going through this. so others could benefit from it too.

    if i go into all her personal issues, i dont think it would be wise.

    maybe im wrong... what do i know?

  7. Ok sangat jee,

    i am going to speak 2 an elder gursikh tonite, but i thought id get some of the sangats opinions too.

    i have this friend, shes going throuhg a rough time. And she thinks suicide is her only answer. I have tried really hard to show her how this isnt the way, through gurbani, i have told her to do ardas. but she thinks she is unworthy of these things. shes still adamant suicide is her only option and now she talking about the best methods.

    She doesnt live locally so i cant really see her myself.

    Should i get professional help for her, how do i go about it?

    she has had professional help in the past but it didnt work out for her.

    any suggestions would be appreciated through pm, as im not sure how she will feel about it being discussed here.

    i just didnt know what else to do....

    vahiguru jee kaa khalsa vahiguru jee kee fateh!

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