Tarrandeep Kaur

KKW, I dont get it, you asked for your account to be deleted. Now you just post from someone elses account instead. What was the point of that. Oh well.

Gurfateh

KKV using Akhalee Nihang Baba Hardeesh Singh Jee Velling Vahleh's account

Vaaheguroo Jee Kaa Khalsaa Vaaheguroo Jee Kee Fatheh!!!

You tell me Bhenjee?

Tell you what? I asked the question.

It dont matter, forget it.

KKW, I dont get it, you asked for your account to be deleted. Now you just post from someone elses account instead. What was the point of that. Oh well.

Gurfateh

vahegurooooo, the more programs the better.... so does that mean just because coventry sangat do it on the first program of the first month that no one else can... thats nice

Listen its common sense really. there are prgrammes in london, thats fine because it means that the london sangat can go to them programmes. Now leicster and coventry are quite close to each other, so would it make sense for eveyone to just go to one programe (the coventry one which has been goin on for ages) for all the sangat to be together?? Of course it does.

But if its gona go ahead, then let it continue. Its all good.

gurfateh jee

Tarrandeeeeeeep bhenji. Clearly the original poster's mind does not work in the same way as yours does. We're different. One person thinks it's an innocent question and wants to learn whereas for another the answer might seem obvious and the question silly. But that's no reason to put them down. At least they want to learn and want to do what's right. If we push them away and then hear that they've done something which we consider to be immoral, we are also partly to blame because we had the chance to help them. These chances don't come every minute of every day and whenever they do it's an opportunity which Guru Ji gives us to share the little we know with other Sikhs. We need to make the most of the little tests.

I'd emphasise the point that S1ngh made.. I know people who have gotten married to extremely distant cousins, several times removed and not direct relations. In that case it might be that you don't know the person at all, have never met, and do not really consider them as your family. Would that be so wrong? Is that what the OP is referring to? Or does he/she mean like brother/sister/first cousin?

My approach may have been harsh because i was shocked at the question - (the same as other members!) but i did not 'put him down' u guys r acting as if i swore at him or something?

ahh i cant be bothered.

gurfateh jee

kal kaathee raajae kaasaaee dhharam pa(n)kh kar ouddariaa ||

The Dark Age of Kali Yuga is the knife, and the kings are butchers; righteousness has sprouted wings and flown away.

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WHAT IS WRONG WITH YOU!

why on earth would you want to marry a member of your family! they're related to you!!! erghhhhhh

To BaBa G;

Calm down, all i sed was its the most stupid post ive read on sikh sangat- whats the need for putting the comment saying im attacking another member? Do explain how thats attacking someone? I dont want to show disrespect, but other members have said far worse in the past, yet you seem the need to pick on me?

The poster didnt say long disatnce or far related, he sed FAMILY, so if u veiw them as a FAMILY member, u dont marry them. quite simple.

kal kaathee raajae kaasaaee dhharam pa(n)kh kar ouddariaa ||

The Dark Age of Kali Yuga is the knife, and the kings are butchers; righteousness has sprouted wings and flown away.

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WHAT IS WRONG WITH YOU!

why on earth would you want to marry a member of your family! they're related to you!!! erghhhhhh

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mweI siq siq siq hir siq siq siq swDw ]

O mother, True, True True is the Lord, and True, True, True is His Holy Saint.

bcnu gurU jo pUrY kihE mY CIik gWTrI bwDw ]1] rhwau ]

The Word which the Perfect Guru has spoken, I have tied to my robe. ||1||Pause||

inis bwsur niKAqR ibnwsI riv ssIAr bynwDw ]

Night and day, and the stars in the sky shall vanish. The sun and the moon shall vanish.

igir bsuDw jl pvn jwiego ieik swD bcn AtlwDw ]1]

The mountains, the earth, the water and the air shall pass away. Only the Word of the Holy Saint shall endure. ||1||

Vahiguru vahiguru vahiguru vahiguru vahiguru vahiguroo :pray:

good posts from hau apraadhi.

You need to find out what TRUE love is 1st. The love ur tlkin about is maya- attachment for this guy.

Omg that is absolutely disgusting!

Firstly why the hell was a 59 year old woman and a 71 yr old man, given IVF treatment in the first place! Its baaned in the UK for a reason! How selfish, so their kids would be ten and there mom wound be like 70! She wouldnt be able to take care of the kids properly!

I hope a dedicated couple adopt these little girls and give them the upbringing they deserve.

This whole 'I wanna boy not a girl' thing gets on my nerves, who cares! As long as its a healthy baby! Be thankful!

vahigurooo...

the bibi shudnt be dressed like a 'hindu' with all red and gold jewellery. simple is best.

Obvioudly both singh and singhni should be wearing kirpans. Not sure if it matters whose holding one or not, just for how really.

I think it should be left as singh in front, bibi behind, this has been done for years, also in bhai sahibs time, why change it now?

It's good you wear Bana since it is a Rehat that should be followed. And other people making excuses, should recognise their own Dhill rather than suggesting Bana Rehat is unneeded.

But I don't think you are promoting it in the right way, saying "I keep Bana Rehat and nobody else does", why not have Nimrata and promote it with Pyaar.

What about Rehats such as Sarbloh Bibek, Pukka Amritvela, extra Bania every day, these are all Rehats also and instead of bigging ourselves up for keeping these Rehats instead why don't we thank Guru Ji he has given them us for now (he may take them away in the future) and realise we are only human and for one person trying their best, is different to another person trying their best, and focus on the bigger picture, who knows where we could be in 5, 10 or 20 years time.

Good Post.

'Hard to fit into society'

I hate this phrase lol. At the end of the day were different its something to be proud of, if we wear a dastar we dont 'fit in' anyway, so what, we wear the trendiest coolest clothes to try and look like everyone else?

I agree with what sumone sed above, baana doesnt mean that you are a spiritual person or whatever. If we wear baana, we wear the khalsa uniform, a good number of baana can last you for ages, no need to buy more clothes and keep up with ever changing fashion trends, al that money you save can be put to good use.

I wouldnt look down on or think bad of someone who didnt wear baana, and i know baana isnt everythink.........but yeah lol.

gurfateh jee

Vahiguroooooooo!

If you dont want to get your parents involved, at least tell an uncle, aunt or an older person. So they can advise you best, its not a good idea to be sorting these things yourself.

kbIrw jhw igAwnu qh Drmu hY jhw JUTu qh pwpu ]

Kabeer, where there is spiritual wisdom, there is righteousness and Dharma. Where there is falsehood, there is sin.

jhw loBu qh kwlu hY jhw iKmw qh Awip ]155]

Where there is greed, there is death. Where there is forgiveness, there is God Himself. ||155||

vahiguroo vahiguroo vahiguroo vahigurooo

Thats why you shouldnt drink coke. seriously its nasty stuff, full of rubbish.

Nope, he will be staying birmingham, he wouldnt be able to travel to coventry everyday-would be difficult.

Stop being spoilt sport, and just come over to bham its only 25mins drive! :rolleyes:

There is no point in answering a post such as the one from 'TheVampire'. He/She hasnt come here to look for answers or learn, theyre just here to cause friction and spread the hate.

If you have probelms with all these issues, just come right out with it and ask for an explanation, instead of trying to take the mick out of a gursikh who tries to keep the rehit of sarbloh bibek, why not do some research, ask these people why they keep the rehit.

No one is forcing you to do things you dont want to do, if you want to go out, wear a hat, eat a burger and have fun, go ahead.

If you have genuine questions on naam and rehit, reword what you say and do some research.

Hello Tarrandeep Kaur

This is a really good opportunity. I am just finishing university and plan to start learning punjabi after my exams in order for me to be able to learn gurbani. I thought that you needed to know punjabi inside out first before you could learn gurmukhi? I don't know any punjabi at all. It's a shame but i'm gonna learn now. This sounds like such a great opportunity. I'm very excited. Do you think its possible i could actually know gurmukhi by the end of the summer through these classes?

Thanks alot.

Check ur PM's paaji.

gurfateh jee

hahaha yehhh that techno singh, always trying to stir trouble.... <_< hahaha

anyways, wen we receive amrit what do we say everytime it is given to us by each of the panj piayre, VAHIGURU JI KA KHALSA, VAHIGURU JI KI FATEH. this is the first thing we said once we received amrit, everytime we greet a khalsa, we say fateh. its very powerful.

Whenever i say fateh to older people who arent amritdhari they never say fateh back, they say 'sat sri akal' so i dunno.

I think fateh is how we should greet each other, but i guess its minor.

vahiguroo

Why wont your doctor do anything?

psssshhhhh sometimes, its hard to find a good doctor now a days, asked to see another one, get some blood tests done, maybe you have a vitamin D defficiency

classes are open for EVERYONE. Its a class to help you with your paath, not sum sort of conversion class.

Sangat jee come and learn instead.

gurfateh jee

(edited-thanks mods)

Calm down no ones going to hit..........just be on your best behaviour :lol:

If your try your best and listen, theres no reason to even be shouted at.

:ye:

Ok i have more details; Bhai Udey singh will be here on the 22nd july for six weeks. They will run for 3hours every evening, the hours will be from 5.00pm-8.00pm (But are subject to change). These details were given to me as an estimation, so they maybe changed, but i will update the sangat on this thread.

vahiguroojeekaakhalsa, vahiguroojeekeefateh!