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He's from london! and he's trying to convert to Sikhi! :D

Yeh basics should be researched first :D

Then I'm sorry to say bro, maybe waheguru is giving you a test...of choice? Cos the way you've put it makes me feel that there may be no way of telling your parents and having them ACCEPT? then maybe it just isnt where you should be? I think you should ask yourself these questions and decide :D yeh follow the principles of sikhi and learn them first!

Yeh but there are some answers you just cant get from books and so the sangat can help!

I have no deal with the willl of Waheguru but it make me think about those lil babies that die at birth or young ages? It all gets real complex when you think about WHY things happen; I think that's why it's better to accept it as Waheguru's will and we cannot ever begin to fathom his ways...as they say; 'the Lord works in mysterious ways!'

disowned? hmmm, that's a bit... are they serious? How bout you try and slowly bring them round, start to show your kara, become veggie, read and speak openly about Sikhi and the Guru Ji's teaching etc. then after they start to get used to the idea tell them your decision?

Support is all around you bro, you just gotta look hard enough to see it...breaking it to your parents won't be easy but as long as you jaap naam you'l get through it...remember him, besides what's the worst that could happen? they might get mad and be a tad upset but they are your parents, they should respect your decision and support you...soon they will get used to it...just dont stress about their reaction lol we're all with you!

is it me or have you said the exact same thing in another thread recently?? lol

I'm sure there must be some Gursikhs around...I live in the middle of nowhere lol, but do you know where you local gurudwara is? If not like I said there are loads of Gursikhs on Sikh Sangat that are probably from that area, or are willing to chat on like msn or something? lol like Khalsa 123 and me! :D

whereabouts in london veerji?

erm...ok?

Yeh I am in the exact same position as you cept I have no Sikhs around me... if you keep the faith and do ardaas I'm sure Waheguru will give you strength to carry on...try and get in touch with some Gursikhs in your area...you won't feel so isolated, trust me...Where in London are you from? There might be some gursikhs on SS that are from the same area....or there might be a gurudwara nearby? Keep the faith!

OK I'ma lil confused...are you talking about how we shouldn't do Parchaar to try and teach our youths about their own religion? And are you sayign that I bash other people's faith?...confused :D

Woah bhaji dont take it seriously...I ddont think I cud ever do what is done in these emoticons, back to my point, instead of doing nothing, we should be doing parchaar like the Sikhs Guru Ji created :D

lol yeh but in a war you attack...who do you decide to attack? How can we defferenciate the innocents from the guilty cos I'm pretty sure not all of these people are into the Fundamental side of things...At Ramadan half the muslims I know only fast cos they're more scared of what their parents are gonna say/ do if they dont fast! This is one of those wars that need a bit more than AK47's... :D Not that I dont wanna a few of them around sometimes

lol thats what i got confused about- worked out it's called "shabad"

What hindi movie was it...does neone know?

But we should take it seriously because it is happening...we need to do parchaar to try to prevent it; there's no point in ignoring it because your used to it now.

lol what a Stereotypical view: "it's everyone, even guys with beards wanna gel them so that girls don't lose interest..." These kind of comments make me laugh because it just shows how small some people's thinking is............. lol what i meant by that was; there was a topic gelling beard; someone started cos they wanted to know what sikh girls felt about the issue...they weren't thinking about what Waheguru thought about the issue...what I should have written was 'guys gel their beards so that the girls dont lose interest....not all of them just some of them, like not all bibia wear powder but some do'. :D Bhul chukk maaf karna! lol at this comment - what I should have written was 'guys gel their beards so that the girls dont lose interest....not all of them just some of them, like not all bibia wear powder but some do'. ok i got the part about some guys geling their beards so girls dont loose interst but how can you contrast that with - ' like not all bibia wear powder but some do'. lol The point you should contrast is that not all people do things but some do? If that makes sense.

A friend told me his mum said not to cut his nails after 6pm? What the heck is that about? they come up with something for everything man!

OOOOOhh sorry :D

ok i'm gonna guess it lol...i dunno, April and October?

Yeh sis don't backdown...I won't if you won't lol! My parents did and still do the same; its gettin old trust me, just ignore (which is i know is inreeeeedibly hard) and pray with a whole heart and Waheguru will surely help you out! :D

lol what a Stereotypical view: "it's everyone, even guys with beards wanna gel them so that girls don't lose interest..." These kind of comments make me laugh because it just shows how small some people's thinking is............. lol what i meant by that was; there was a topic gelling beard; someone started cos they wanted to know what sikh girls felt about the issue...they weren't thinking about what Waheguru thought about the issue...what I should have written was 'guys gel their beards so that the girls dont lose interest....not all of them just some of them, like not all bibia wear powder but some do'. :D Bhul chukk maaf karna!