waheguruji ka khalsa waheguruji ki fateh
as mch as you discuss with so many people you will get confuse just do 5 banis path japji sahib,jaap sahib,savaiya,chaupayi sahib,anand sahib, and wear 5 kakars and believe on wot panj pyarey says coz i believe on them only as i took amrit from akal takht{ AMRITSAR}
Nam Japa - To get up each day before sunrise, to clean the body, meditate on God’s Name and recite the Guru’s hymns to clean the mind. Throughout the day, continuously remember God’s Name with every breath.
Dharam di Kirat Karni - To work and earn by the sweat of the brow, to live a family way of life, and practice truthfulness and honesty in all dealings.
Vand Ke Chakna - To share the fruits of one’s labor with others before considering oneself. Thus, to live as an inspiration and a support to the entire community
i hope this will help you a lot