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awwwww so cute

its up to the person what they do

hmmm for a guy that doesnt say much that was a long post loll jokin awwwww you know i use to be just like you, but thats only because i wasnt around people who i had something in common with, is it the same for you? you mentioned you like being by yourself, maybe thats not true? just because you've gotten so use to it you think its ok. you shouldnt be so shy, there only people after all whats the worst they can do? there just like you, be confident, you dont have to say a lot just build on what the people around you are saying then you'l get the convo going. as for people thinking your rude and arrogant who cares? you shouldnt think about what others say or think, just be yourself

lmaooo....those voice overs remind of the punjabi husband n wife videos lolll well funny

lol@mehtabs post

and it just made mine...nice post :TH:

cant trust anyone these days

thats what i was thinking

lol this whole topics so stupid, all it needs is some common sense!

why are you making threads like this when its kinda obvious?

yep i no where ur comin from but everyone learns at different stages shouldnt really judge them, let them live their life, let em make their own decisions and gradually they'l learn between whats right and whats wrong besides if you tell someone 2 do 1 thing they only guna do the opposite loll

i no penji, everyone has different views though

may not be right for some people but everyones different

depends on your families, what do they think?

awww there so cuteeeee first one looks just like my cousin

Firstly calm downnnnn!! getting angry wont help the situation and it certainly wont make you feel any better. Your bro needs to grow up a bit, if theres no connection between them and hes only with your bhabi for the sake of the kids then whats the point? hes not doing himself any favours. hes being unfair not only to himself but ur whole family. You've tried your best to help them and there not listening well what more can you do? to be honest this is between them, its come as a bit of a shock to your bhabi obviously shes not gona no what to do they've bin married 8years and thats a long time but walking out with the kids like you mentioned isnt the way to go about it. they need to talk things through and take it from there. Gursikh or not loads of couples go through rough patches thats just the way marriage is, its not easy you have to work at it and it doesnt always plan out the way you want it to but thats life. As for the other woman u really dont need to have any relations with her stay out of it or your only get the blame in the end, i cant believe hes trying to get you involved thats crazy, he obviously has not respect for his relationship with your bhabi, i mean if they really were having problems he could have had the decency to go and tell her it wasnt working rather than betraying her in such a way. But these things happen and theres nothing you can do about it now apart from getting them to speak to each other, staying quiet and ignoring one another is only gona hold them back from working things out. Taking the first steps always the hardest but someones gona have to take it especially for the sake of the kids and the only people who i think will be able to encourage them are the parents or someone older, nowadays the younger lot have no influence on such matters which is silly. But i think you just need to be there for your bhabi right now she could use all the support she can get because it must be really hard for her. But dont worry about it too much im sure things will work themselves out sooner or later itl just take time.

omggg thanks for posting this i love sukha singhs talks there amazinggggg

isnt that similar to sikhitube?

I aint herd of cream cheese (i knw im slow). Pasta? thats going to get cold aint it, n i cant be asked to heat it up at uni coz im lazy lol The thing is im getin sick of eating cheese evryday n want sumit different to eat......... that will fill me up. Usually i eat a peanuts, that keeps me goin. hmmm........... so lazyyyyy loll it can be cold as well!!

errr cream cheese is gross lol...y dnt u try having pasta maybe?

why would someone want to do that to a khanda? its not a flippin fashion accessory

lollll omg those r funny

awwwww firstly its good that you've decided to make a change, im exactly in the same position as you i stopped cutting mine a lil while ago and my family are the typical punjabi pakhandis lol. but you should be proud to be a singh! its kirpa that you've gotten this far especially since your family arent into sikhi as much. Reading sakhiya about the guru jis and shaheeds is what really helped me but just keep good sangat around you, go to the gurdwara and talk to people im sure they'l be able to set you in the right direction just dont ever give up

LOLLL what bakwaaaaas!!!!!! you trying to tell me that guru gobind singh jis wrong? i cant believe you had the nerve to say all that it just sounds like your making excuses, if you wana be a sheep then so be it but if you think going against the gurus word is how your gona reach god then your dilusional